Money Oriented Aspies?
Stereokid wrote:
Space wrote:
Aspie_Chav wrote:
Was you money oriented when you was young, did you love saving money or finding ways of making money.
I was like that, some of my school teachers didn’t like it so much one call my ebony scrooge. Did they not now that my motivation to get money would have kept me from poverty and loneliness too.
Looking back, I understand why. NTs specially NT woman( I will not be PC) are power oriented and they look for those feature in the opposite sex.
Some NTs have power though their army of friends others through their good looks other by how much money they have.
Being an aspie, I will never be able to make friends as effectively has most NTs, and being good looking is not that effective for an aspie male unless I have the social skills.
As an aspie, my instinct from a young age is to make money to make up for what other power tools that I would be certain not to have.
I was like that, some of my school teachers didn’t like it so much one call my ebony scrooge. Did they not now that my motivation to get money would have kept me from poverty and loneliness too.
Looking back, I understand why. NTs specially NT woman( I will not be PC) are power oriented and they look for those feature in the opposite sex.
Some NTs have power though their army of friends others through their good looks other by how much money they have.
Being an aspie, I will never be able to make friends as effectively has most NTs, and being good looking is not that effective for an aspie male unless I have the social skills.
As an aspie, my instinct from a young age is to make money to make up for what other power tools that I would be certain not to have.
I agree with most of what you say, but the bad part is that if a woman (or anyone) just likes you for your money, then that is not good either. Life is tough for people with AS (especially men), but having lots of money won't solve all the problems in my opinion. I own a nice car and have more money than most people my age, but so far I haven't been able to use it to help me socially.
How old are you?
Almost 24.
woodsman25 wrote:
Heh, I have done well for myself, and have many nice things, including a nice small home. However, im commissioned pay, so i never make the same amount every week. So what I do is take care of all my bills and keep my credit good, and instead of saving money in the bank (actually I have no savings account) I pay off my bills and other obligations in advance, eveything gets payed well before its due, and I even pay double sometimes if I have the money. I prepair for anything that can happen by keeping my credit low so I have something to fall back on and I feel its better for me to pay off as much as I can now rather then set money aside and let it sit, this way my money is working for me, and ill own my vehicle 100% well before I should have, I save on interest and now in the more immediate future that $$ can be deverted (since I no longer have to make payments) on something more important (I.E. paying off my home).
I feel my system brings me higher yeilds and makes my money worth more in the future, so for now at least having a savings account in my opinion at the age of 25 is pointless.
I feel my system brings me higher yeilds and makes my money worth more in the future, so for now at least having a savings account in my opinion at the age of 25 is pointless.
You might say that at having at savings account at 25 is pointless. but if you were like me still living at home with your parents and earning money in employment and havent got anything good to throw money at. Then the only place to leave it is in the bank. Knowing that I have a few £ to spare certainly helps.
nb411 wrote:
calandale wrote:
And the good ones don't give a sh**
about money.
about money.
The better ones have at least some concept of management (money). Though I know that is not what you were getting at.
I'd rather someone who doesn't even understand money,
than someone who overvalues it. Yeah, you need to eat,
but I'm unimpressed with the stuff.
That's why I just hoard it.
maccer wrote:
I'm obsessed with saving money and my dad taught me when i was little to save your money, not put it in the damn stock market or bet it.
Well while it is good to save money and not squander it, there is of course no gain without risk. Of course it is unwise to place all ones money on the stockmarket which is why people diversify. This is the process of spreading investments in different areas such as cash accounts, term deposits, stockmarket, retirement funds and so on.
maccer wrote:
I have got savings charts keeping track on how much money have saved, spent and interest earned and the percentage of money earned thats saved, plus a target for a year to save for. Even if i pass a savings target for a year i still strive to save more and every penny counts.
I am always looking for ideas to try and earn me an extra few quid.
I am always looking for ideas to try and save me an extra few quid.
I am always looking for ideas to try and earn me an extra few quid.
I am always looking for ideas to try and save me an extra few quid.
I have to question the logic here. What is the point in merely saving money, obssessively I might add? In the long term such behaviour is simply akin to accumulating the largest possible stockpile of pebbles while having no intent to ever use them for any purpose.
The reason people invest money over the long term is to increase their wealth so that they may comfortably spend larger amounts over time, well a common reason anyway. I mean houses are expensive, so is healthcare. Increasing personal wealth can ensure that you never have a problem meeting your and/or your families basic needs.
If you want to grow your money over time, rather than simply hoarding it then you need to invest in assets. You should realise also that inflation erodes the value of your savings by a certain average percentage each year. In Australia inflation currently sits at around ~2.5% per year. Now of course this is an average figure and certain goods and services rise in price over time faster than others. Tertiary Education is a great example of this.
So back to the point, investing in assets and not liabilities (non-interest bearing investments) is how you grow your wealth. This is why many millionares often do not drive the latest sports cars. The rate of depreciation (decline in value) for new cars is massive. Just driving a car off the production line and selling it to someone in the street as "second hand" will net you a loss of at least 10% of the purchase price.
There is also a saying that goes "pay yourself first" which is incredible advice, especially for compulsive spenders (not you I know). What it means is that you should aim to save AT LEAST 10% of your earnings in some sort of interest bearing account if only to compensate for inflation, though ideally to take advantage of the compound interest effect. Also, if you are saving 10% of everything you make before it even makes it into your everyday cash account then you are not very likely to miss it.
Generally if you have a diversified portfolio (some higher risk investments mixed with medium and also no risk cash investments) then you can expect a return of ~10% over the longterm.
Even if you deposited $5000 and left it completely alone without adding to it, you could stand to double your money every 7 years @ ~10%.
The other thing I would mention also is that if you get clued up on the stockmarket and pay attention to world trends then there is no reason why it can't work well for you. Also if you are the one directly investing your money in companies then you also have control over which you ones you support. Therefore in contrast to managed funds you can avoid investing in large oil companies or de-forestation types and that gives you some power over the social responsibility exerted on the planet, at least to some degree and if you care that is.
I would recommend in the mean time that while you build up your assets and study up about the way things work, that you open an ING Direct account. It is incredibly easy to setup and gives you much higher returns than the piddly diddles the banks give you (Worse yet, hoarding it under the mattress). It also has the advantage of being completely risk free and allows you to keep your money liquid (easy to change from one form to the other e.g. A lounge suite may have some monetary value, however you would need to wait until you could sell it to get the cash for it that it may be worth.)
Understanding money is important and unfortunately many intelligent people neglect to realise this. Wealth is a form of insurance even if you don't care to spend it on luxury items.
By the way maccer I am sort of saying this to you and for anyone else's benefit reading this, I apologise if I have impinged on anything you already know. I am not trying to patronise you.
I recommend essential reading/listening for anyone interested:
Rich Dad Poor Dad - Robert Kiyosaki
The richest man in Babylon - George S. Clason
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