I keep crushing on fictional characters

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So....

Does this mean I'm in a situation you were formerly in, Miss Sara? Looking for a soulmate to be in a relationship with?

I have a mad crush on the character of Hank from Parenthood.
He's autistic.
It's not about how he looks, or about the actor, but how the character acts.
I only think about it if I watch the show so I'm not obsessed or anything ...
but yeah, I love that guy.

Well I can't be too sure that this guy will end up being my soul mate but I'm sure you will find someone eventually too

But I don't want to wait any longer to get married

I am 30 years old

And I'm tired of having to put up with my mom as her caretaker!

If it's alright I will post the full contents of my dreams on here even though my neighbor said I should ONLY tell a therapist because it can get quite inappropriate and dirty

Lol I changed my mind

It's too embarrassing to post about my dreams of having sex and passionately kissing cartoon and video game characters

yeah, I wouldn't dare post such things relatively publicly myself... because that's pretty personal. if you get comfortable enough with someone and want to share such things privately, therapist or friend, that's ok. but you shouldn't to feel pressured to share anything either. I do disagree with only a therapist, though. in fact, it'd be a safer bet with a close friend imo. as long as they're ok with it. I don't think I'd share my personal fantasies with my therapist...

Which is why I have decided against posting it

I want a man to do that to me in real life and I am ready to experience sex

I want to be forcefully pushed against a wall with his lips and tongue on mine kissing me hard while he rips my clothes off and carries me into his bedroom

That is why I have those dreams

Last edited by Mikurotoro92 on 01 Jan 2023, 5:16 am, edited 1 time in total.

It’s “normal” to have erotic thoughts. These are not “inappropriate” thoughts.

But I probably wouldn’t go full-throttle with them online. Too many perverts.

Yeah

But sex isn't going to happen until I finally leave this house!

It's now 2023 and it is time for me to put my plan of "Operation: Untether" into action

Just don’t do anything stupid.

But in the meantime it's fun to dream about doing that to fictional characters

I uh...collect dolls and I have a plush of Mickey Mouse, SpongeBob SquarePants, King Dedede (Kirby video game series) etc and I like to simulate sex and passionate kissing using them

Admittedly, some of those characters are handsome and it's fun to imagine what he would taste like

Mmm...

I am not going to have sex until I'm married so I am working on having a wedding happen this year!

How often have you seen him? If you haven't seen him often then a wedding this year seems a bit too soon.

Well I just met him last year and we are dating so probably after 6 months or a year THEN I can start thinking about a wedding!

But I want to get married as soon as possible so I can escape my caregiving situation

That seems too quick to me. Marriages done so quickly before even having sex seems to result in the marriage not being taken seriously. Getting married is a serious long term commitment with a lot of legal commitments and I would find it off-putting if someone who was interested in me wanted to get legally chained to me before I even found out if we were sexually compatible.

Getting married really is a much bigger deal than sex and you should take it slower, making sure the person you're dating is all you want in a guy. It would suck to get married to him only to realise he had serious erectile dysfunction when having sex.

You can also easily get away from your home situation just by putting geographical distance between you and your family.

Are you saying we should have sex FIRST before marriage?

Yes. It's very wise to make sure a partner clicks well before getting married. This applies to everyone.

Like I said, it'll be very rough if you get married and either one of you just don't get along well together in bed or have some sort of sexual dysfunction.

I think people should take marriage more and more seriously as they age.