Tradesman finds love at long last

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Right. A release.

But the doll isn’t reciprocating.

And a guy like Auntblabby has many qualities which women would find appealing.

think of the doll as "half a loaf." half a loaf is better than none. the fella is doing his best.

I never criticized the guy.

i'm not saying you criticized him, my only hope is that you better understand him and where he's coming from. he is one of us.

I do understand him.

But it’s still sad that he feels he must resort to this.

Yes, society can certainly suck.

Why?

It's for sex. So, why wouldn't it be made to look like something that's sexually desirable to someone who's attracted to humans that look like that?

Should dildos not be moulded from human penises anymore? Should they be donkey cocks? Silicone vaginas & buttholes; replace them with silicone bullet holes in a target ???

There's a reason sex dolls & toy parts are made to look like humans. Period.

One of the many reasons 1 in 3 men have never experienced sex is that Women who are single > 30 years old usually have experienced sexual history and so naturally prefer a potential partner is similarly experienced.

Sex dolls might provide a safe type of sandbox to play/practice sexual positions and teach inexperienced men staying power so they can also learn to pleasure a potential "human" companion.

Sex dolls are still cheaper (and safer) than practicing on prostitutes

33% of men are virgins?

For guys less than 25 I think, look it up.

It is the age of tinder, where women find more than 90% of men ugly.

And we are getting back to the original true natural selection (remember we descended from men who reproduced 1 for 17 women).

Alpha males in humans (in the true biological meaning) are coming back, sex wise.

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Actually women swipe 1 in 20 on tinder, just looked it up.

But I expect someone will deny and say:
« bUt tHeRe’s nO aLphA mAles, tHis iS dEbunKed tHeory for wOlves ».

Yes it is debunked for wolves, but proven in most primates, NO primatologist deny it. Duh.

Ummm. Not sure what world y'all are living in but in my girl world my friends date and have sex with guys they like and the guys either dump them, cheat on them, or turn out to be manipulative narcissists. Guys are getting laid as much as they want. As often as they want. And as many as they want. Girls are whores who are misguided into sleeping with men because they really want that relationship. Guys typically don't.

Success bias.

You can’t tell the distribution from that, maybe these are few guys and they cheat because they can afford it (having a lot of options).

The virgin guys are the guys you simply don’t know about, sexually invisible, because they are most likely unattractive.

I can assure you that in my guy world, attractive/charismatic guys are by far more likely to cheat, because they can.

Check this out, the numbers don’t lie, this is no conspiracy theory:

https://medium.com/hello-love/the-numbe ... 7e7165d2a1

Oh! That makes sense. Dating sites aren't too friendly for stereotypically unattractive men, huh? I am guilty of that as well. I don't do dating sites or fb anymore.

I remember the time I met one of my client's husbands. When I laid eyes on him I literally recoiled inside myself at how ugly he was and had to quickly get my face under control so it wouldn't betray my thoughts lol. He reminded me of that biggish ugly actor with the curly dark hair and super unusual face and little beady eyes. Anyone know who I mean? Anyway, I kept thinking to myself, "How could Kimberly marry someone so ugly!! !" Then I got to know him and now I think he is a cutie (in a platonic way). He is also a devout Christian and a great dad. I don't know why I thought he was so ugly.

Point is, guys need to press through and forward and overcome we girls' snobby attitude about that! We don't mean to be snobby, we just think that you have to be attractive to us from the get-go to date you, which is dumb considering we keep getting dumped. We get caught up in that mindset in our virtual world as everyone else does. Back before the internet, it wasn't quite as much of a factor because girls/boys were around each other more irl. You need to pursue us and make us notice you, stereotypically unattractive guys! For your sake and for our sake. Online, find a way to get to know us and you will succeed. I am speaking for all my sisters in this. Good guy > Attractive guy

I don't have all the answers, but my main piece of advice is don't give up and don't take us at our word. We don't know what is good for us!!

My only concern here is that he felt the need to introduce the doll to his mother. That seems more than a little inappropriate to me.

Let me be clear here, I'm not against sex dolls. In fact, I'm all for them. If someone gets one and finds some happiness/peace/good stuff with her/him, awesome. And the fact that the guys fiancé/wife/gf/whatever she is, is on board with it, even better. I think it's great she's supportive of him. How cool is that? I think more partners should be encouraging of each other to explore and such. I say more power to him if that's what he wants to be doing. So long as his partner doesn't care and he can cover the cost(and those things are expensive, right?), why not?

My only concern here is that he did feel the need to introduce this doll to his mom on a holiday. I'm just not sure how to feel about that. It just seems weird. I dunno. Maybe I'm missing something here. I never knew anyone who was serious like that with a non-living thing before, so I have zero actual life context to put this into. No one has tried to explain this sort of thing to me before. There could be some reason why he thought it was a good idea, but my brain is stuck on how one should not introduce their sex toy to their parent on xmas and that's all I can think.

The internet has given single women more choice so naturally "hypergamy" applies which is why 90% of men rarely get a call back.

Younger women in Gen Z are even more sophisticated now, they don't just only rely on tinder. They utilise other platforms to filter matches and chat livestream so they can literally interview potential dates before ever meeting F2F. They have access to a single pool within 10km radius from where they live after filtering for all the characteristics they want in a dating partner.

For an average looking young male it's like applying for a job in a fortune 500 company.