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Sedaka
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Ragtime wrote:
Sedaka wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
Sedaka wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
:roll:
there's the response i've come to know and expect! wtg!
You're supposed to respond with your classic "Pft..." reply.
least i do that and then continue with a lucid response....
you just advert and sidestep...
you can selectively answer all the quotes you want.... but it's the ones you IGNORE or DANCE around... that speak louder than your words..........
It's because you can't shut down once you get started, so it's left to me to end it at some point. You even said you often walk away from increasing-heating discussions because everything you say tends to inflame the argument all the more. The only way for me to end a conversation with you is to stop communicating, because you get yourself locked into OCD-mode, and can't stop.
talk about making BS up! i said the first part (not what was in bold) when i said that i was talking about in IRL fights... not having "civil" debates online (which is what we're talking about here). and that's neither here nor there... cause i have never backed down from your psycho babble... nor do you really have any basis for imagining what a verbal fight with me is like... so you have no right to pull that card here. you can say that that's maybe why im not in a relationship... but then that's what CAUSED me to leave the ones i did. mmmk? thanks.
you're the one who doesnt respond well to a plethora of responses on forum boards and frequently stops responding to people....
cause you have no logical response.
ex:
i say things in a relationship should be mutual (meaning equal... cause i applied it to all aspects of relationships) and you say you agree... and then respond with some bible quoting where there is clearly not an equal/mutual example being made.... i call you on it and make a valid point... and you don't respond.... and further more, now in a post just above... you say that you're not saying things in relationships should be equal... that there are roles
you are inconsistant on fine points.... so go ahead and do some whining about clarification (like defining equal) and then revamp your philosophy... so that we can see how you were saying that all along
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Sedaka wrote:
you're the one who doesnt respond well to a plethora of responses on forum boards and frequently stops responding to people....
cause you have no logical response.
cause you have no logical response.
Ever figure it's cause I just get bored of it? I mean, people can be led in circles only so long before they get sick of it.
Sedaka wrote:
ex:
i say things in a relationship should be mutual (meaning equal... cause i applied it to all aspects of relationships) and you say you agree... and then respond with some bible quoting where there is clearly not an equal/mutual example being made....
i say things in a relationship should be mutual (meaning equal... cause i applied it to all aspects of relationships) and you say you agree... and then respond with some bible quoting where there is clearly not an equal/mutual example being made....
IMO, Paul's definition, while giving men and women differently-emphasized patterns of function in a marriage, still keeps them equally dignified. Did he say "The female is the lesser human"? No, nor anything of the sort. Put away your feminism for a brief moment, and you might be able to see the natural equality that is meant to exist between man and woman.
Sedaka wrote:
i call you on it and make a valid point... and you don't respond.... and further more, now in a post just above... you say that you're not saying things in relationships should be equal... that there are roles
You've done this before... QUIT telling me what I should say! You're bossing me around, while preaching equality -- pretty hypocritical of you. Is that how you treat guys in relationships? Make them answer the way YOU want them to answer? What kind of crap is that? (Thanks for proving Gen 3:16.)
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Ragtime wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
Sorry to put you down ...but women are not equal to men in your 'great' Bible.
I know they're not, which is part of my point: In Genesis 3:16, as I mentioned earlier, women were cursed by God to have an inner desire to fight against their husbands. Therefore, they require consistent leadership from their husbands.
Really?
wow...
I'm not sure but I think most of women here wouldn't agree with you.
LePetitPrince wrote:
Sorry to put you down ...but women are not equal to men in your 'great' Bible.
Yes, they are not, and we already know why is that.
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greenblue wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
Sorry to put you down ...but women are not equal to men in your 'great' Bible.
I know they're not, which is part of my point: In Genesis 3:16, as I mentioned earlier, women were cursed by God to have an inner desire to fight against their husbands. Therefore, they require consistent leadership from their husbands.
Really?
wow...
I'm not sure but I think most of women here wouldn't agree with you.
Well, whoop-dee-doo.
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Ragtime wrote:
I'm on my way to Barnes & Noble, to pick up the latest Ann Coulter book, which came out today!
She understands male leadership in the home. Why can't you? Is Ann smarter than you or something? Heck, she's smarter than me!
She understands male leadership in the home. Why can't you? Is Ann smarter than you or something? Heck, she's smarter than me!
Where's the emoticon for a great big yawn??
juliekitty wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
I'm on my way to Barnes & Noble, to pick up the latest Ann Coulter book, which came out today!
She understands male leadership in the home. Why can't you? Is Ann smarter than you or something? Heck, she's smarter than me!
She understands male leadership in the home. Why can't you? Is Ann smarter than you or something? Heck, she's smarter than me!
Where's the emoticon for a great big yawn??
Don't worry, your presence accomplished that. I'll sleep well tonight.
Ragtime wrote:
Nice strategic omission of the rest of the passage!
(I guess it threatened your "misogynist" label, or libel.)
(I guess it threatened your "misogynist" label, or libel.)
'Twas the important part. Clearly indicating
that men are BETTER than women, according
to your scripture. Funny thing, that Christ never
spouted such s**t. Wouldn't have been acceptable
in Jewish society though. Paul ruined whatever good
might have been in Christianity.
Ragtime wrote:
Nice strategic omission of the rest of the passage!
(I guess it threatened your "misogynist" label, or libel.)
(I guess it threatened your "misogynist" label, or libel.)
What omission part?
Let me see .....
Quote:
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church—for we are members of his body. 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband"
Oh, that one.
well, it says that husbands should treat their wives with care and love, but how that "love" and "care" was considered at the time? that's a good question, surely something like, "I love my wife and care about her but I don't let her raise her voice, she is not allowed to do that, but I love her anyway." You can see and hear the same argument when parents used to beat their children, and they did it because they loved them.
Also that passage compares the husband to Christ and the wife with the church, obviously Christ is the head, meaning he is superior than the church, and they have to obey, isn't it? Making that comparison, it means that men are superior than women, and they have to be subjected to their husbands, pretty much women were not allowed to question their husband's judgements, because they didn't have the same mental capacity as men, as it was considered, remember that Paul himself said that women were not allowed to give their opinions on matters of the church.
The patriarchal system in that society at the time and how the gender role people had to accept is what the Bible illustrates, very likely that is why God is a male figure, because it comes from a society dominated by men.
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"Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything."
This other part, surely is not a thing to be omitted as it illustrates that women were considered inferior the time Paul wrote that, and you clearly confirmed that, you actually said that women are inferior in one of your previous posts, which is amusing actually, considering a high porcentage of women here would find your arguments pretty much.. well, not acceptable.
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calandale wrote:
Ragtime wrote:
Nice strategic omission of the rest of the passage!
(I guess it threatened your "misogynist" label, or libel.)
(I guess it threatened your "misogynist" label, or libel.)
'Twas the important part. Clearly indicating
that men are BETTER than women, according
to your scripture.
Uh, ya -- when you amputate the rest of the thought! The way you cut it off, it sounds like he only gives instruction to women.
And submission of one individual to another does not automatically imply inferiority. Obviously, a general is not considered to be a superior human being to the soldiers under him. Clearly, it's a matter roles, not differing personal worths. Why do we vote to elect U.S. presidents? Because they're superior human beings? No, because having a leader prevents anarchy. "Wives submit yourselves to your husbands" is about functional unity, not differing personal worths.
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Ragtime wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
Sorry to put you down ...but women are not equal to men in your 'great' Bible.
I know they're not, which is part of my point: In Genesis 3:16, as I mentioned earlier, women were cursed by God to have an inner desire to fight against their husbands. Therefore, they require consistent leadership from their husbands. Leadership is not something that's very natural to me. So, I've conceded that, and have chosen perpetual singlehood.
Ah, so you're denying this?
Look, it's OBVIOUS that you believe
the misogyny, regardless of whether
Paul did. I think his quote (all of it, as
gb points out) indicates that he did, as
well - far more than anything attributed
to Christ himself. More than the contemporary
Jews accepted.
Why? Well, 'tis the Greek thinking. The sales
pitch that made Christianity NOT what Jesus
preached, but what would convert huge numbers
of gentiles.
Indeed, given the difficulties between Paul
and James, and the unsteady alliance, it's
pretty clear that he was just one HELL of
a con artist. Managed to shape Christianity
more than Christ did.