Anyone try prostitutes?

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If so, talk about your experience and how it has helped you or not helped you acheive the intimacy with women you so desire.

There have been threads about this in the adult forum, which is where this probably belongs....

not yet!

I don't want to get busted by an undercover female police officer. Those are the worst!

well first off i dont think i would want too, just cause would be scared that one might be a undercover female cop, 2nd dont think i would want to have sex with a complete stranger, and #3 is i think i lost all interest in sex and or love as it is. to many heart break to even want to start it again.

how can i move this thread to the adult section, or delete it if that is not possoble?

Prostitutes are there for sex, which is not what I need. I need, well, everything else that a full relationship (aka not a prostitute) could provide...

plus, yeah, this should probably be in the adult thread, as prostitution has no connection with "love and dating"...

Sadly, you can't. You could ask a mod to,
however. But, there are plenty of threads
on this subject, already in there. Peruse a
few pages back, and you'll find a good amount
of information, I suspect.

Prostitutes are addictive. ...And no it won't help you achieve intimacy with a women or get a girlfriend. Also if you want a hooker, find an independent escort, *do not* go to the streets and try and find a girl. You will probably get beating up/robbed/scammed etc.

I have never tried having sex with a prostitute, as I would only enjoy sex with a woman who wanted sex from me and not my money. Yuck.... However......I think it is a brave question, as I know many people who have intimacy difficulties do pay for sex and use porn as a way of managing this side of themselves.

I think these issues are very worthwhile talking about on WP. I work with men who have grave emotional difficulties, and form awfully codependant or sexually compulsive relationships and there is a deep sadness underpinning such acting out that warrants real compassion and understanding.

I do hope this thread encourages other men and women to brake through their shame and talk about sex and relationships.

I never want to have sex with a hooker, under the pretext that she may have an STD!

The red-light district of my home-town is actually very close to where I work, but I have never ever ventured there during "shopping hours", as it were. Mostly because the prostitutes there are of the "£10 all-inclusive" variety, and are all probably either in withdrawal or high on something. Not to mention they're probably riddled with disease...

Even if I was considering paying for sex - which I'm not, and I don't think I ever will, no matter how much the mating urge gets to me - I'd have to be thoroughly desperate to even consider one of those walking drug-banks...

I actually have and it's not as bad as you would think. The prostitute won't talk, she won't make eye contact and you don't have to worry about her body language or whether she's having a fun time or any of that. If you're feeling antsy and you've weighed the pros and cons of it then it can be a good choice. That being said, as aspies we do have a tendency to start routines and spending hundreds of dollars a week on this 'routine' would definitely hurt your pockets. You're better off with internet porn or whatever else.

Would rather spend the money on upgrading my PC then wasting it on a dirty prostitute ( Street Walker).

I agree with all your comments SPACE, but for the money of an high class Escort I could get a real nice PC

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Obviously, but if you're going to do it, you may as well splurge and drop a decent amount of money into the venture.

Most people don't know that there is whole range of women who have sex. The stereotypical drug addicted streetwalker is at one end, and at the other are high end escorts and independent hookers, who enjoy and take pride in what they do for a living, and provide what is referred to in escort speak as "GFE" (Girl Friend Experience). IE, money is paid up front for the session, and it includes the emotional and social aspects of a girlfriend, aswell as safe sex. I see nothing wrong with this. I would never go out and seek a street hooker, but there is nothing wrong with seeing an escort if you enjoy it. Most people look down upon it because many men cheat on their wives with hookers, but there is nothing wrong with an AS guy paying money to have sex with a beautiful women (who is not a drug addict) who will provide a sexual service, and treat the guy like a king for an hour.

Never as a business deal.