Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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It's good to know that are still a few here that actually read my posts. Having autism is one matter. But having a severe form of it, which isn't noticeable in any form to others unless I've been interacting with them literally for more than the equivalent of five minutes in real life is another matter.

I think I am slowly starting to exit my comfort zone a tiny little bit. But not to the extent where noticeable changes for the better are occurring. And I feel like every word in this post clutters up this thread more, due to it not being a random mention of one's status. I get disfocused too easily, and the next task I have in mind fades into oblivion. No idea if this is an autism thing or not.

If you are worried about cluttering up this thread, you could make a thread of your own.

Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone here and there sounds good. I need to work on that. I have trouble knowing how to push some without going too far and it negatively impacting my mental health.

This seems a long shot given how relatively quiet the forum appears to be compared to previous years/decades. But let's give it a go...

I'm a 41 year old male located somewhere in the UK. I find it hard to classify my sexuality but if forced i would say i was Bisexual.

I have a collector mindset and i enjoy collecting Books, Compact Discs, Vinyl Records and DVDS/Bluerays.

I am interested in FIlm, Current Affairs, The Arts, ,Music (Especially the many varieties and subgenres of Rock but i also really like HipHop and Jazz ), Non Fiction/ Fiction Books and Sport. (Football (I believe in the US you call it Soccer), MMA and Boxing)

i spend a lot of time at home ,following and thinking about my interests, but would be interested in leaving the house slightly more often. (if that's your thing).

I'm 5'11 tall and quite slight ( 10 Stone or 140 pounds). I have short Light Brown hair and Blue Eyes. I would say i was not frightening unattractive to look at but also not astoundingly attractive to look at. I am your generic, average person looks wise.

I think it's probably best just to start an entirely pressure free conversation, if i sound like someone you would want to get to know better. I imagine an online friendship, perhaps leading to eventual romantic attraction.

I'm an 18-year-old male located somewhere in Yugoslavia (Bosnia precisely). I am looking for a neurodivergent female who isn't trans.

I am interested in history, gaming, and politics. My hobby is collecting and I have a huge collection of coins and money banknotes from various countries and various periods. I am about 1.8 meters tall and I have black hair and I look pretty generic.

I want to be more open with my autism and have an interaction with autistic people more often. If anything, maybe try to pursue a romantic relationship (not forcibly). Chances are slim but my hope still persists.

I am a 35-year-old male living in New York City. I'm 6'4 and I identify as having Asperger's even though it's now called ASD. I am open to finding love with a woman who is Neurodivergent or not. I like to go to the movies, hang out with friends, and I'm always willing to try new restaurants. I also enjoy traveling new places. I would describe my personality as extroverted in one on one communication, but very introverted in group gatherings.

I live by myself and I'm an interdisciplinary writer. I am looking for a partnership that will eventually lead to marriage, but not children. The most important thing is that there is physical and emotional attraction in addition to the ability to enjoy things together. I have been very lucky to have great friends and a support system that led to me getting a Master's degree from NYU and I'm eager to share a quiet life with the right person.

If you are interested, please don't hesitate to message me privately, or email me at {redacted}

-Benjamin

I must admit Benjamin, that it is very easy to impulsively want to message you due to you listing yourself as female, despite you declaring yourself as a binary male.

It's your choice if you want to retain the gender declaration. But just random thoughts at my end.

Well I’m sure this will go well lol

Let’s see I’m 38, single, probably autistic from Australia (NSW). But I’m very high functioning and mostly live a normal life. Im about 5’8, reasonably in shape and generally a kind, funny, and fun person must if the time.

I was diagnosed as autistic a couple of years ago, but am pretty high-masking. I don’t know exactly what I’m looking for! I guess I just want to talk to like-minded people! I am very detail oriented and have a deep appreciation for the intricacies of life. Also, I’m a girl!

My name is Jeffrey, I'm 55 years old, I live in Ukiah California, and I'm interested in meeting women for friendship or more. Anybody in my area please contact me for activity partner, conversation, social support, etc. Thank you.

Hey everyone.

33 y/o male from Massachusetts USA.

5’11” black hair, brown eyes, well put together.

Work in a group home caring for disabled and elderly.

Interests include gym, cooking, playing the piano and especially music from the Great American Songbook, reading books, and the Catholic faith.

Well dressed Dandy looking for a long-haired hippie. Must be a big eater because I love to cook.

Hey Everyone,

I'm a 30 (nearly 31) year old high functioning autistic.

I'm looking to chat online, maybe make a few friends and start getting used to opening up.

I'm an uber nerd who like video games and all sorts of things.

I'm always masking wherever I am and am not really use to just being me. I don't know anyone with ASD either so can't really connect with anyone on that front.

Feel free to message me if you'd like.

hhhmmmm...

Hi I'm looking to make friends, hopefully more. I'm {redacted} on Facebook, Portland, Oregon. {redacted} on tiktok msg or add me on social media.

Hi, I am Jeff.

I am mostly looking to make adult friends here. I am building an app that is for us autistic people to share with acquaintances and then gradually share special interests with them and learn about their hobbies and interests as well.

It is about having cultivating healthy online friendships that can act as backup or primary support for when we feel alone.

I would love to meet someone here that is willing to be my first online friend on the app (it’s iPhone and not published until next month) and see if they think it’s cool or not. I am humble and not a tech bro and I want that brutal autistic honesty if it’s trash lol.

Feel free to PM me regardless of gender.

Thanks,
Jeff

Hi I'm Amber, I'm looking to meet people and text each other. I feel like such an alien in the world, so alone. Tired of the weird looks. Would be nice to talk to someone who understands. I'm a college student studying psychology in Portland Oregon.