Are ruthless guys more attractive than kind, good guys?

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Yes. Every time. To all women. No exceptions.

If by "ruthless" you mean "won't take no for an answer", this is just women taking the easy option. In case you haven't noticed, women go to great lengths to avoid the possibility of having been rejected. The nice guy who takes no for an answer leaves them in a limbo, requiring a response from them, and women really don't like to make that sort of commitment.

An example: the first girl I ever tried to chat up told me to clear off and leave her alone, which I did. Throuought the rest of the class, I notice her glancing at me, but I thought nothing of it at the time, being quite oblivious, back then, to anything involving non verbal communication. It was more than a decade later, having become more adept at reading facial expressions, that I realised that, at first, she looked at me expectantly (yes, she expected me to try again, no doubt having been indoctrinated by her mother to this effect; if they don't try again,they are not really interested...). She then started to look puzzled, which then turned to anger (as I'd done what she(d asked; don't expect consistency from women). It follows that women mostly get to know those men who keep trying until they succeed, and come to believe most men are like that, and so the intial mistake reinforces itself...

For me, personally, not a bit. Kindness is beautiful to me. A man who mows the grass for an elderly or disabled neighbor, or shovels snow for them, without being asked or expected to, but only does it because they think it would be NICE to do, because they genuinely care about the other person, makes my heart swell.

I am obviously not "typical", and not at all neurotypical, so I'm not sure how useful this is. I don't know if NT people who are attracted to masculinity agree.

If I see someone take advantage of another person or do something to hurt another person, I probably will never be able to overcome that. If I see someone step on others to get further ahead, they immediately lose any interest they may have once had.

Stay out of Jail..do not force yourself on anybody .

Only if your hair has not been washed for three years ,or the rest of your amatomy,And very hairy ,, btw.
and you live in the Stoned Age.

Replace ruthless with confident and the answer would be yes. Don’t be a “nice” guy.

Be ruthless to achieve your success without harming others.

Sounds pretty ruthful, maybe ruthhalfful?

Maybe it would attract women who like The Flintstones.