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15 Nov 2024, 11:52 pm

I'm on a dating site, 42 men like me & I'm talking to 4 men, I delete some men, it can be so overwhelming for me. When the time comes, I don't want to hide anything, I'm always scared when I tell men that I have Autism, Cerebral Palsy, Psoriasis, Learning Disabilities & more stuff,



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16 Nov 2024, 12:37 am

I made the mistake of telling someone I liked about my health problems. Three weeks later, they gave up on me and told me that they was going to phone the cops on me if I didn't leave them alone.


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16 Nov 2024, 12:38 am

That and a bad college experience really did me in.


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16 Nov 2024, 12:43 am

Men can be just plain horndogs ,,be careful to care for yourself , especially when dealing with strangers .
(((Not ))) sure it is common to share too much with a guy , till "you " get a idea of what he maybe about .?? 8O
But , i do not know your intentions with menfrom a dating site ,long term goals or short term. :mrgreen:
"""But wish you the best of Luck either way. :D """
( personally used to be very naive about peoples intentions and was judging them by what I thought everyone was suppose to be like in a ideal world. And kept thinking it was just me, and the way I was ...? NOT !
testosterone based lifeforms on the average seem to be motivated by that hormone . With only a few exceptions .imho


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16 Nov 2024, 7:54 am

Jakki wrote:
Men can be just plain horndogs ,,be careful to care for yourself , especially when dealing with strangers .
(((Not ))) sure it is common to share too much with a guy , till "you " get a idea of what he maybe about .?? 8O
But , i do not know your intentions with menfrom a dating site ,long term goals or short term. :mrgreen:
"""But wish you the best of Luck either way. :D """
( personally used to be very naive about peoples intentions and was judging them by what I thought everyone was suppose to be like in a ideal world. And kept thinking it was just me, and the way I was ...? NOT !
testosterone based lifeforms on the average seem to be motivated by that hormone . With only a few exceptions .imho


Testosterone based lifeforms. :lol:

Ouch.



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17 Nov 2024, 10:13 pm

Jakki wrote:
Men can be just plain horndogs ,,be careful to care for yourself , especially when dealing with strangers .
(((Not ))) sure it is common to share too much with a guy , till "you " get a idea of what he maybe about .?? 8O
But , i do not know your intentions with menfrom a dating site ,long term goals or short term. :mrgreen:
"""But wish you the best of Luck either way. :D """
( personally used to be very naive about peoples intentions and was judging them by what I thought everyone was suppose to be like in a ideal world. And kept thinking it was just me, and the way I was ...? NOT !
testosterone based lifeforms on the average seem to be motivated by that hormone . With only a few exceptions .imho


I agree with this statement. Being a man myself I can attest to how sexually motivated we are. Many of us would not date or even talk to women if that wasn't a possibility.



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17 Nov 2024, 11:04 pm

Not sayin' nuffin :|



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18 Nov 2024, 3:42 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
I made the mistake of telling someone I liked about my health problems. Three weeks later, they gave up on me and told me that they was going to phone the cops on me if I didn't leave them alone.


That's pretty rough.


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