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blitzkrieg
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27 Mar 2025, 7:03 pm

Paying a compliment can be flirtatious if a man or a woman does that.

Such as: "Hey, you have such a sophisticated taste in music" *accompanied by a longing, lustful gaze*

Or: "Your hair looks amazing, mmmmmm".

Or you could throw in something absurd/weird:

"Your hair looks amazing, mmmmmm, it looks good enough to eat."

I mean, the last one probably wouldn't work, but it is fun to think about at least.



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27 Mar 2025, 7:19 pm



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-2oUC-9UJ0


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28 Mar 2025, 1:41 am

blitzkrieg wrote:
Paying a compliment can be flirtatious if a man or a woman does that.

Such as: "Hey, you have such a sophisticated taste in music" *accompanied by a longing, lustful gaze*

Or: "Your hair looks amazing, mmmmmm".

Or you could throw in something absurd/weird:

"Your hair looks amazing, mmmmmm, it looks good enough to eat."

I mean, the last one probably wouldn't work, but it is fun to think about at least.


Yeah you don't wanna come off as Hannibal the Cannibal


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28 Mar 2025, 5:45 am

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I was being facetious overall although I really do have a soft spot for mismatched or otherwise ridiculous socks.

I was facetious too, about the socks, not about my luck with women - that I take very serious.


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28 Mar 2025, 6:51 am

**farts...scratches himself... raises left eyebrow... "Wanna root?"**



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28 Mar 2025, 6:52 am

:lol:


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28 Mar 2025, 6:58 am

I don’t even mind farting and burping. Well, in moderation. :lol: It shows that the person is comfortable with me. Maybe that’s why I like weird socks. :chin:


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28 Mar 2025, 7:00 am

Given my religious background, my experiences with being on the receiving end of flirting when I was in my teens and early 20s were really strange. Flirting was considered bad. People still flirted, but they wouldn’t call it that.

This is what it was like with a couple guys in that environment. From what I can gather, it’s a fairly common thing in Christian fundamentalist groups. I’m not really sure what that’s about.

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I was the only young woman at my church…for years, so there was a lot of weird behavior…for years. It was very puzzling to me why they’d think I’d be impressed by their chair-carrying ability or whatever other ridiculous physical displays they’d engaged in.

I remember a couple of times being called on to give a comment during a Watchtower study. I was seated in the middle section and both suitors were working the mics in the aisles. Anyway, when I was called on, they’d race to get to me first. It was really hard to comment under those circumstances, especially with a blushing, slightly out-of-breath face looming over me and a phallus-shaped mic shoved in my face. In their eagerness, I accidentally got hit with it once or twice. The story of my life.

I don’t think they were actually into me. They pursued me because I was the only woman available, and they were extremely horny. Well, I shouldn’t really lump them together. E was way worse than T although I didn’t fully realize it at the time. I might’ve given T a chance if I wasn’t made perpetually uncomfortable by E’s weird, stalkerish behavior.


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28 Mar 2025, 7:37 am

babybird wrote:
Yeah you don't wanna come off as Hannibal the Cannibal


:lol: :lol:



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28 Mar 2025, 7:40 am

^^^^^ I mean, Hannibal the Cannibal eats human meat though, right? I wouldn't have thought he would eat hair. But I guess I wouldn't know about any of that. :P



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28 Mar 2025, 8:04 am

I hate it when I get a hair between my teeth me


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28 Mar 2025, 8:15 am

KBW has this one figured out.



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28 Mar 2025, 10:44 am

Here is a list

https://www.lovepanky.com/women/underst ... to-impress

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28 Mar 2025, 11:02 am

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I hate it when I get a hair between my teeth me


Same. Even just a strand of hair is a nuisance in one's mouth, especially on the tongue.



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28 Mar 2025, 11:54 am

From my eensy bit of research--and I'm strictly an onlooker, not a participant--women seem to be blessed with a much larger arsenal of potential flirting techniques than men.

And, it looks like a lot of the men who study flirting end up failing, and just looking pathetic.

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyl ... harassment

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...Mike and Raj (not their real names) circle the bar, scanning for women, drinks held at an awkward right angle to their chests. When they identify a target, they approach. The women stiffen, their smiles tightening. They swirl drinks with straws and chit-chat politely before mentioning boyfriends – real or imagined. The men retreat, regroup, identify fresh women. Advance, engage, retreat. On and on it goes.

I’m standing with the man coordinating this operation, the British pickup artist Johnny Cassell, as he watches as Mike and Raj – his students – run drills. Tonight is the culmination of Cassell’s intensive, day-long “Impactful Connection” workshop. For £700, Cassell promises to help men “master the art of attracting the women you truly want”. But watching as Mike and Raj hit on women indiscriminately, it looks as if any women will do...



From what I can tell, the standard operating procedure is that the man will arrange and invite the woman to a first date. This appears to be the convention, whether from male or female standpoints.


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28 Mar 2025, 2:36 pm

700 smackers

I'll coach someone to swirl a straw around in a glass for that


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