Okay, Enough Lieing, GUYS, is this whant you really want?

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Quite right, you are-

Ugh....I keep coming back here; you guys are going to stir my sexual imagination and get me into trouble

Being a college student now, I can say with 100% confidence that I have absolutely no urge to have a 'friend with benefits'. I personally find the idea of it rather shallow, disgusting, and a cop-out for not wanting to put out the work to actually have a meaningful relationship. Not only that, I feel like going down the 'friends with benefits' route is a step backwards for humankind. Maybe it's just me, but as beings (humans) with higher intellect, Aspie or not, I feel like we should be able to channel our base instincts into something more productive that won't have long-term consequences for us in the future.

And yes, believe or not, there is the possibility that joining in the whole 'friends with benefits' will bite you in the ass 10 - 20 years down the road when you're finally ready to be in a committed relationship, especially when it comes down to the self-disclosure process. There are men and women out there who frown upon 'friends with benefits' and will drop a potential partner like a hot s**t sandwich if they know their partner did engage in 'FWB' activities in the past.

There are consequences for every action we take, and this is no exception. Ultimately, I know people are going to do what they want, and it doesn't bother me as long they're not bothering me. However, I do want people to be aware that engaging in what I believe to be risky, reckless behavior will come back to haunt them in most cases.

GenericNameBrand,

You are absolutly right; actions all ways come back to haunt a person especially if it has to do with sexual behavior and if your a female. People are much more forgiving of drug and alcohol abuse.

And what is even worse is most people assume that women do not have a sex-drive; like we should not like sex. Okay, in my experience, that is how it is.

Lady U

How true you are; however, I do not want to fall into my sexual addiction again--I do very high risk behaviors. Ever heard of S-W-I-N-G-I-N-G, no I do not mean like on the playground; but, hmm...what an interesting thought.

Lady U

Sedaka:

What exactly do like to watch? Adult movies, live action, combination of both?

Sedaka and Everyone else out there in Cyberland:
Ever been to a Swinger party?

Oh, my dear Geek,

Do please do tell; I was invited to one but never went. Or rather, several. I was actually involved in a local Swinger group and my addictive behavior was getting too risky. When one actually shows themselve half nude on the internet and does not care that others could recogonized on the street--one really risks their business reputation as well as their personal. So I quickly stopped.

Lady U