I go to a Thai restaurant every weekend, and the waitresses are always so nice, intelligent, and respectful, not to mention darn cute. Just wondered if mine is a common perspective. (This question isn't just for the guys; all feedback is appreciated.) Also, whether I'm sloppily-dressed or not, they are always super-nice to me, make direct eye contact, speak softly and kindly, and get into patient discussions about various Thai dishes I'm interested in. Whereas, with most white Americans where I live, if you're not dressed nicely, no one will even talk to you.
It's nice to encounter a culture that is less superficial than ours. Especially when you're an Aspie, and don't have the energy to put forth your best social graces all the time.
(Heh, just as I'm sitting here complimenting them, my waitress walks up again to make sure everything is just right.
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I'm also a sucker for any girls who have ears that stick outward at the tops!