Okay, Enough Lieing, GUYS, is this whant you really want?

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17 Oct 2007, 8:43 pm

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Deus_ex_machina wrote:

Pffft, I'm not interested in simple sex.

Indeed. Complex sex is MUCH more interesting.

Advaned Sex Ed. ?

Wanna sit in on a class?

will i get a pop quiz?

Only if you're really good.
Otherwise, you'll just have to
tolerate continual examples.

i like to watch

THAT can cause a burning sensation
in the eye.

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22 Oct 2007, 11:34 am

yesplease wrote:

Sex w/o some kind of interest and appreciation of the other person seems too close to masturbation for my tastes... Course, I may be the minority in this respect.

I couldn't agree more with that statement...I'm a 20 year old Aspie as well and I can't really explain it to any of my NT friends but I'm looking for a LTR (aka Long Term Relationship) and all my NT guy friends are just like "dude you're 20 years old just hook up with as many random girls as possible..." and to do that with out establishing some kind of phyiscal or mental connection is not what I want.

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22 Oct 2007, 2:47 pm

I've been thinking that maybe what I want is a "Mom With Benefits", someone to take care of me and be my personal shrink who I can sleep with.

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22 Oct 2007, 4:42 pm

Now, that is a new one LOL.

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22 Oct 2007, 4:44 pm

Lonermutant wrote:

I've been thinking that maybe what I want is a "Mom With Benefits", someone to take care of me and be my personal shrink who I can sleep with.

Just...don't call her Mom.

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22 Oct 2007, 6:18 pm

Immortal wrote:

Lonermutant wrote:

I've been thinking that maybe what I want is a "Mom With Benefits", someone to take care of me and be my personal shrink who I can sleep with.

Just...don't call her Mom.

LOL!! !! !

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22 Oct 2007, 10:01 pm

Lonermutant:

"Mom with Benefits"...is some type of Fetish that is going on there?

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22 Oct 2007, 10:11 pm

It's all fun and games until someone loses both eyes.

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22 Oct 2007, 10:18 pm

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So I have been contemplating what I really want and I have came to a conclusion:

In high school it would have been extremely easy for me to get a girlfriend; I had the looks and I did the sports so I could have basically have dated whoever I wanted but instead I decided to date no one.

In College, it is the same thing.

I realize now that I don't really want a girlfriend and I don't think I ever will want a girlfriend for a couple of years.

I guess all I really want is "Friends with Benefit" AKA Sex.

If I don't really care about half of my own emotions then why would I bother to care about other peoples emotions?

I wouldn't.

I think lots of guys my age(20-College Student) Neurotypical or Aspie feel the same way. In fact, like 90%. Relationships are a major pain the rear end!

That's what a guy's SUPPOSED to be and think if he's conforming to the 'what a guy should be' sort of role that society puts out there. And I won't lie - women do their fair share to perpetuate it in that they're only really attracted to guys who are being...well...uber guys, regardless of what they really like to think or say to the contrary (this is the flip side of it - the same things they're attracted to are the same things that make what they ultimately want, a relationship, practically impossible without a lot of sheer misery on both sides).

I'd just say do what you want and don't worry about the statistics of who does what. Truth is if your able to be more of a basic sort you'll probably have much better chances than some artsy tool who shows no outward sex-drive whatsoever.

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22 Oct 2007, 10:44 pm

Lonermutant wrote:

I've been thinking that maybe what I want is a "Mom With Benefits", someone to take care of me and be my personal shrink who I can sleep with.

lol best post ever...

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23 Oct 2007, 12:33 am

I've noticed that a lot of Aspie men have wives a lot older than themselves.

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23 Oct 2007, 12:45 am

Well my first gf was 4 years older and I still prefer older women to younger ones. But it seems like women older than me really want a man with something to offer. Not to mention the fact that they often have children(by their early 30s)from previous men in their lives. The worst part about this whole stupid BS mating game is the lack of control one has-I just feel so powerless about this issue. Im almost ready to just let go and give up for a while..................

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