Board index › Coping in life › Love and Dating

At what age do most Aspies have sex for the very first time?

Page 1 of 5 [ 79 posts ]  Go to page 1, 2, 3, 4, 5  Next

Previous topic | Next topic

How old were you?
I never had sex, I want to! 38%  38%  [ 88 ]
I never had sex, I don't want to. 8%  8%  [ 19 ]
Under -14 4%  4%  [ 10 ]
14-16 7%  7%  [ 15 ]
16-18 14%  14%  [ 32 ]
18-20 10%  10%  [ 22 ]
20-25 12%  12%  [ 28 ]
25-30 3%  3%  [ 7 ]
30-35 2%  2%  [ 5 ]
35-40 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
Over 40+ 0%  0%  [ 1 ]
Total votes : 229

OldFashioned
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2011
Age: 34
Gender: Male
Posts: 685
Location: EUROPE

31 May 2011, 5:45 pm

Tell us when and if you lost it, I don't think there is a poll already, or at least I couldn't find one.

I'm sure some of us are wondering if it will happen at all and how the ones that did managed to do it. Well here's a thread for us!

I haven't done it yet though I really want to, but I'd rather do it with a nice girl than a random person, I kinda want to be in love with her...



Mindslave
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 14 Nov 2010
Age: 36
Gender: Male
Posts: 2,034
Location: Where the wild things wish they were

31 May 2011, 5:47 pm

My first opportunity came when I was 18. My second, third, and fourth opportunities came when I was 21. I'm not a big fan of having sex. The idea bothers me, so I've avoided it.



OldFashioned
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2011
Age: 34
Gender: Male
Posts: 685
Location: EUROPE

31 May 2011, 5:59 pm

Mindslave wrote:
My first opportunity came when I was 18. My second, third, and fourth opportunities came when I was 21. I'm not a big fan of having sex. The idea bothers me, so I've avoided it.


At least you had an opportunity, too bad you don't want to though! I haven't even kissed a girl yet.



Erisad
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 5 Jul 2010
Age: 35
Gender: Female
Posts: 13,058
Location: United States

31 May 2011, 6:01 pm

I lost it this past November at age 21. :P



OldFashioned
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2011
Age: 34
Gender: Male
Posts: 685
Location: EUROPE

31 May 2011, 6:06 pm

Erisad wrote:
I lost it this past November at age 21. :P


Congratulations, are you happy about who you did it with? :D



Radiofixr
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2010
Age: 60
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,495
Location: PA

31 May 2011, 6:06 pm

I would like to have sex but just cant make a connection with anybody-not for want of trying.


_________________
No Pain.-No Pain!! !!


Erisad
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 5 Jul 2010
Age: 35
Gender: Female
Posts: 13,058
Location: United States

31 May 2011, 6:09 pm

OldFashioned wrote:
Erisad wrote:
I lost it this past November at age 21. :P


Congratulations, are you happy about who you did it with? :D


We're not dating anymore due to his family so meh. Sex wasn't that great to be honest and he didn't want to experiment with new positions. Hopefully my next partner will be better at it. XD



OldFashioned
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2011
Age: 34
Gender: Male
Posts: 685
Location: EUROPE

31 May 2011, 6:20 pm

I'd just want sex with a girl I love, I would do whatever origami position she wants as long as its not painful lol. I don't care about fetishes or positions or whatever but I have a very romantic vision of love, sex etc I think the man needs to make to woman happy in order to enjoy it more himself. But that is only theory lol, I haven't done it after all.

Upon reflection if she wants me to do the inverted crane position I'd totally do it if that's what she wants but if she wants to take me with a penis belt or whip me I'd probably pass. LOL



YoshiPikachu
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 Jul 2009
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 722
Location: Minnesota

31 May 2011, 7:00 pm

For me it was went I was 16, 3 and a half years ago.


_________________
Proud mother to Hannah and Joseph.


AnonymousAnonymous
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 23 Nov 2006
Age: 35
Gender: Male
Posts: 72,858
Location: Portland, Oregon

31 May 2011, 7:05 pm

Still a virgin here, and am wanting to have sex so badly I'll do anything!


_________________
Silly NTs, I have Aspergers, and having Aspergers is gr-r-reat!


OldFashioned
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2011
Age: 34
Gender: Male
Posts: 685
Location: EUROPE

31 May 2011, 7:15 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
Still a virgin here, and am wanting to have sex so badly I'll do anything!


I wouldn't go see a prostitute though or something like that, too risky even with condom and you'll have a bad memory of it! Your first time is the one you'll remember I think.



AnonymousAnonymous
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 23 Nov 2006
Age: 35
Gender: Male
Posts: 72,858
Location: Portland, Oregon

31 May 2011, 7:17 pm

Me seeing a prostitute for sex? Never!


_________________
Silly NTs, I have Aspergers, and having Aspergers is gr-r-reat!


OldFashioned
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2011
Age: 34
Gender: Male
Posts: 685
Location: EUROPE

31 May 2011, 7:24 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
Me seeing a prostitute for sex? Never!


Me neither. But some people would, not that I have anything against people who do but I wouldn't advise doing it, especially for one's first time. :D



Solvejg
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 2 Mar 2011
Age: 38
Gender: Female
Posts: 6,558
Location: gondwana

31 May 2011, 7:26 pm

the day before my 14th birthday.


_________________
I love diggin' in the dirt
With just a pick and brush
Finding fossils is my aim
So I'm never in a rush


OldFashioned
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2011
Age: 34
Gender: Male
Posts: 685
Location: EUROPE

31 May 2011, 7:32 pm

Solvejg wrote:
the day before my 14th birthday.


Wow, lucky, was it an early present or something?



MXH
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 28 Jul 2010
Age: 33
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,057
Location: Here i stand and face the rain

31 May 2011, 7:39 pm

Never.