Reasons why you're a GOOD catch

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Erhm, so the whole thread about "reasons why you're a bad catch" kind of made me slightly sad. I figured, why can't people list reasons why they're a good catch?

And please, don't post pictures of insane hobbits in this thread. Seriously.

I'll start;

- Am creative. I like sharing my hobbies with people (although in perhaps somewhat odd ways (the idea of having a girlfriend/partner to draw like Jack did with Rose in 'Titanic' always fascinated me, for instance)).

- Am, at my core, a very romantic person. I probably don't appear as such to people who don't know me, but I am.

- Have a wiiide range in my taste of music. As such, it is compatible with most people's. So long as you don't listen to Miley Cyrus, Rebecca Black or Justin Bieber.

- Like to think that I am a protective person. That is, I like to protect not only myself from others, but others that I care about from others.

- Like to think that I have a good-looking face, at least on good days. I am terribly insecure about it, but still.

I'm a fish

I'm really cool

I moderate an Asperger's website *waggles eyebrows*

I like making people happy

That's it for now

I'm completely devoted/loyal. I'm very caring, supportive, protective, & I would do everything I can to take care of my partner & see her happy. I'd want to work on improving myself so I can be a better person for my partner

I'm forgiving and don't give up easily on people. And, I may say or do the wrong things at times, but I'm earnest and my heart is typically in the right place.

I don't know.

I'm not clingy
I'm loyal
I love to please my partner
I'm adventurous

Um...

1) I am extemrely Loyal I will never cheap
2) Good Listner
3) My partner's enemies would be my enemies regardless of why or how stupid the reason
4) I am capable of change to help get along with partner better
5) I am really into oral sex with a woman
6) I am a cheap date low maintance
7) I am trusting to an extent but I am not naieve
8 ) I hate change and do not like getting use to new people so I would do what it takes to keep a partner from leaving me. Including admitting I was wrong when I know I am right.

I'm:

1. Creative - I love to come up with stories and share them with people who I think would appreciate them.
2. Loyal - I stand by my friends, family and coworkers even through rough times, and try to help however I can.
3. Respectful - I consider most people worthy of my respect (at least to an extent) even if they're being as*holes to me.
4. Easy-going - I'm fine with just hanging out with friends and family, or going out and doing something active; either way.
5. Empathetic - I recognize when someone is feeling a certain way and respond accordingly to the situation.
6. Romantic - I may not really look or act like it, but I'm really a romantic at heart, and it shows in a lot of my stories.
7. Apologetic - I know when to apologize and admit I was wrong about something I said or did.

1) I'm analytical and like taking people's problems apart. One of my friends fell in love with me because of how often I helped them examine and dismantle their day-to-day problems. I turned them down, though. That seemed like a ridiculous reason to be "in love" with someone, and potentially bad for me in the long run.

2) In spite of not finding it easy to empathize deeply with people I actually do like paying attention to them if they interest me. I like finding information out about people, asking them questions, figuring out how they operate, etc. I guess some might think I'm a creep or like I'm taking up too much space but for some they might find the attentiveness a desirable trait. I really just like to "know" things because I find the mystery of people interesting.

3) I'm protective. And because of my muted (often nonexistent) emotional nature I tend to see things most people don't. I can see when people are manipulating each other or when they're making irrational decisions; how rational or irrational is usually the first thing I notice about a person's actions. This combined with my protectiveness usually prevents people from running head-long into bad decisions.

I love learning of all kinds.
I am introspective and strive for personal growth.
I am self motivated and manage my time/ resourses well.
I am great with children of all ages, abilities, and challenges.
I am romantic, loyal, honest, affectionate and passionate.
I give as much or more than I ask in relationship.
I'm avg to good looking.
I am a fabulous cook.
I am spiritual.
I am deep, sincere, musical, poetic, and very appreciative.
I like to laugh and be silly to balance out my serious side.
I am very compassionate and care about others.
I don't play any mind games whatsoever.

I would say most any of my qualities that make me a "bad catch" to one, would make me a "good catch" to another. Also, many of my "weaknesses" such as health issues, brings on a "strength", such as a lot of compassion for human suffering and other ppl in general. The same also promotes more effort on my part to achieven and maintain better health, something a lot of women don't pay much mind to during my time of life/ at my young age.

Thanks for starting this thread! It is good to see all sides of oneself!

i got beemer,a big plasma and i do lotsa w8s so im not small

but i luv me misses and me kidz,,(but not da CSA LOL) soz girlz LOL

loyal
cute (as people tell me)
funny
sweet
artistic
a good cook
romantic
cuddly
practice good hygiene
silly
loves dressing up as a wench. (corsets FTW)

I am loyal to the death to the ones I hold dearest, and honest from the bottom of my heart. I'm tall and somewhat buff, and some of my female friends told me they feel very secure and sheltered around me, so I guess that's a plus. Since I prefer being quite, I can listen. I am able to adapt if you give me time. I get along with kids tremendously. I enjoy cooking alot.

i cant do this

I have a vagina
I have low standards
lol