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17 Jul 2011, 9:19 pm

Pretend that your life experiences have shown you that absolutely no girl is interested in you because of your aspergian characteristics. Well, that's not strictly true BUT rather, it's that SO FEW girls in real life are interested in you that doing the "searching process" is not sufficiently efficient like it is for your everyday NT such that it's kind of impractical. So, what do you do when you have a sex drive? Get a prostitute! Simple, quick and far less costly.

This seems totally rational to me. What's your take?

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17 Jul 2011, 9:22 pm

swbluto wrote:

HELL YEAH!

It is the most rational and HONEST approach to take. Lots of anxieties go away and you will feel great after you get rid of your virginity.

The truth is that every guy pays for sex in one way or another.

It is also far cheaper in terms of opportunity costs since you can work to redirect your special interests into making money rather than waste your time with bars, clubs, and dating sites.

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17 Jul 2011, 9:30 pm

There is more to be desired from a woman than that she will submit to you sexually.

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17 Jul 2011, 9:36 pm

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There is more to be desired from a woman than that she will submit to you sexually.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHASHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHASHAHAHAHAHHAHA

That's a good one!

But seriously, sex is part of the reward cycle that trains men to even bother with relationshits.

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17 Jul 2011, 9:39 pm

I can't see sex with a prostitute as satisfying. I (as one of the virgins in question) say I will never hire one. If I can't get it the old fashioned way then I'll let it eat me to my grave.

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17 Jul 2011, 9:42 pm

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I can't see sex with a prostitute as satisfying. I (as one of the virgins in question) say I will never hire one. If I can't get it the old fashioned way then I'll let it eat me to my grave.

You haven't even tried it....

Are you that wrapped up in being a "martyr"? Grow a pair.

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17 Jul 2011, 9:47 pm

I like the idea, but you will likely get what you pay for and you should watch out for scams. Are you talking Eliot Spitzer-level action, or something less costly.

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17 Jul 2011, 9:50 pm

jrjones9933 wrote:

I like the idea, but you will likely get what you pay for and you should watch out for scams. Are you talking Eliot Spitzer-level action, or something less costly.

Eliot Spitzer overpaid.

Best price is $200-300 per hour in the USA. Anything lower is asking for trouble. Anything higher is getting ripped off.

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17 Jul 2011, 9:56 pm

Unless one is looking to gain experience, prostitutes are no better/worse than masturbation. It's your money...

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17 Jul 2011, 10:02 pm

I've never been able to get a girlfriend (even when I was employed lol) and so shortly after my 25th birthday, I decided to get an escort and lose my virginity. It's enjoyable while it lasts, but it doesn't substitute for a real relationship. I want a girl who actually likes me and will spend time with me, cheesy at it sounds. I really am a romantic at heart, though I don't think I'm as hopelessly romantic as I used to be.

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17 Jul 2011, 10:19 pm

I used to think that getting a girlfriend was impossible, until I met my wife. She's Asian, and everything that I've ever wanted in a woman / wife / girlfriend / lover. Granted, the relationship (like any relationship) is tempestuous at times, but it is well worth having "grown a pair" and sought out a woman as a friend rather than just another walking life-support system for a vagina.

Grow up, boys. It takes a real man to get along with a woman.

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17 Jul 2011, 10:22 pm

swbluto wrote:

This seems totally rational to me. What's your take?

Porn is cheaper and can be used multiple times.

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JohnOldman wrote:

There is more to be desired from a woman than that she will submit to you sexually.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHASHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHASHAHAHAHAHHAHA

No, really there is.

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17 Jul 2011, 10:26 pm

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Thanks for the daily dose of shaming language. Now how did you meet her anyway? Online? Site for asian girls looking for western men?

I say it once and I'll say it again. Everyone pays for it.

I've gotten to a point where I'm really just not interested in all the BS that relationships entail. To me its just crap to put up with rather than find any meaning in.

I used want "true love" and romantic flowers and sunshine like sadaspy but the truth is much harsher and more mundane.

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17 Jul 2011, 11:40 pm

RICKY5 wrote:

MXH wrote:

I can't see sex with a prostitute as satisfying. I (as one of the virgins in question) say I will never hire one. If I can't get it the old fashioned way then I'll let it eat me to my grave.

You haven't even tried it....

Are you that wrapped up in being a "martyr"? Grow a pair.

did I ever mention being a martyr? Maybe you should grow a brain before jumping to conclusions.

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17 Jul 2011, 11:44 pm

Don't Asian women have less of a problem with introversion and/or social awkwardness than white women?

I don't have any firsthand experience, but that's what I've read many times. So it seems they'd be a good fit for Aspy men. Unfortunately, I'm not much attracted to them myself.

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17 Jul 2011, 11:50 pm

All the women I know are only interested in sex anyways. If you dont look at it like its just for sex, then your not on level with the women your trying to get. The fairytale girlfriend probably doesn't exist, so trying to find a girl seems pointless as the type of girl i want seems to not exist. i think the only hope at all is to find an aspie girl, even then though its not likely.

so if you realy want sex, get a hooker. to me it sounds like a horrible experience, but thats another subject.

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