Wolfheart wrote:
I feel it's important to tell your partner as soon as you're comfortable with them. If you put on a facade or persona and you aren't yourself, after a short period of time, your true self will start to show. The whole idea of a diagnosis is to give people a better understand of why someone is how they are, if your partner refuses to take the time to understand or simply generalizes you, they aren't worth your time.
A relationship free from expectations and pressures is the best kind. I also feel it's important to tell them sharply and not talk in a self-obsessive manner about it and the worst thing you can possibly ever do is talk about yourself or AS in a self-defeatist manner.
I agree that one should always be themselves at any stage of a relationship, but that doesn't necessarily mean you have to have full disclosure right away. This is why I was asking.
Meh... I told him about half an hour ago anyway. He didn't seem phased in the least, but I did gradually ease into it. I've told him on other occasions about some of the difficulties I have. Like not being very good at small talk, having repetitive routines, and not understanding social cues.
Truth is, it's not a relationship yet. I am unsure where it will go. We'll see how he processes this information.
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