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13 Apr 2012, 1:15 pm

Do you find yourself to be approached or getting the attention by girls that are like waaay too damn young to have a relationship with?

Like when you are 24 for example and you get approached by 12 f*****g year olds? :help:

Is this because most of us look "young" or what? :?



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13 Apr 2012, 1:19 pm

Possibly the only good thing about not getting approached by any girls - I don't get approached by twelve-year-olds either. I do look young, though.



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13 Apr 2012, 2:11 pm

Uprising wrote:
Do you find yourself to be approached or getting the attention by girls that are like waaay too damn young to have a relationship with?

Like when you are 24 for example and you get approached by 12 f***ing year olds? :help:

Is this because most of us look "young" or what? :?


No. In fact, people mistake me for being older than I actually am :? Either way, I don't get approached by young women.



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13 Apr 2012, 2:38 pm

Really don't get approached by anyone.


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13 Apr 2012, 2:43 pm

Uprising wrote:
Do you find yourself to be approached or getting the attention by girls that are like waaay too damn young to have a relationship with?

Like when you are 24 for example and you get approached by 12 f***ing year olds? :help:

Is this because most of us look "young" or what? :?


It's a phase girls go though, like when they like horses. Every spring and summer a girl from some pack of girls will run up and say something like "you're cute", then they all run away giggling and texting...



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13 Apr 2012, 3:22 pm

shrox wrote:
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Do you find yourself to be approached or getting the attention by girls that are like waaay too damn young to have a relationship with?

Like when you are 24 for example and you get approached by 12 f***ing year olds? :help:

Is this because most of us look "young" or what? :?


It's a phase girls go though, like when they like horses. Every spring and summer a girl from some pack of girls will run up and say something like "you're cute", then they all run away giggling and texting...

What if the girl is on her own sitting in the grass of her front garden and just gently smiles at you while you walk by?



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13 Apr 2012, 3:40 pm

Boxman108 wrote:
Really don't get approached by anyone.

this. though younger girls are usually friendlier to me.



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13 Apr 2012, 3:46 pm

MXH wrote:
Boxman108 wrote:
Really don't get approached by anyone.

younger girls are usually friendlier to me.

I wonder why this happens to us? Do we only look mature to them and not to older girls?



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13 Apr 2012, 3:49 pm

Yes it happens like a lot can get annoying because their to young to be with you.



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13 Apr 2012, 4:06 pm

Uprising wrote:
MXH wrote:
Boxman108 wrote:
Really don't get approached by anyone.

younger girls are usually friendlier to me.

I wonder why this happens to us? Do we only look mature to them and not to older girls?


I think that in cases like this the girls aren't necessarily trying to form a relationship; I know that a lot of girls around ages 7-10 are really, really nice and friendly. I'm not sure about twelve-year-olds, though, because the ones I knew were almost always mean to me. Then again, I was younger back then, so they might behave differently towards people who are much older than them.

Another thing to consider is that girls are usually ahead of boys in puberty. Around age twelve, and sometimes all the way up to fourteen and fifteen, most of the boys haven't started puberty, but the girls have. Maybe they're not attracted to boys who haven't started puberty, but the only ones who have are older than them because boys start later. I can see why this may complicate things a lot.



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13 Apr 2012, 4:23 pm

diniesaur wrote:
Uprising wrote:
MXH wrote:
Boxman108 wrote:
Really don't get approached by anyone.

younger girls are usually friendlier to me.

I wonder why this happens to us? Do we only look mature to them and not to older girls?


I think that in cases like this the girls aren't necessarily trying to form a relationship; I know that a lot of girls around ages 7-10 are really, really nice and friendly. I'm not sure about twelve-year-olds, though, because the ones I knew were almost always mean to me. Then again, I was younger back then, so they might behave differently towards people who are much older than them.

Another thing to consider is that girls are usually ahead of boys in puberty. Around age twelve, and sometimes all the way up to fourteen and fifteen, most of the boys haven't started puberty, but the girls have. Maybe they're not attracted to boys who haven't started puberty, but the only ones who have are older than them because boys start later. I can see why this may complicate things a lot.

I guess when you're younger looking, you appeal to younger girls compared to other men of your age. The same people who attract gay guys more than straight girls, might attract way younger girls more than "compatible" aged girls too I think.



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13 Apr 2012, 4:38 pm

Good question but I don't get approached by anyone.......


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13 Apr 2012, 5:29 pm

Nope, but why would they approach older dudes? Just to get their parents to warn them that they'd report you or something?


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13 Apr 2012, 5:43 pm

Uprising wrote:
shrox wrote:
Uprising wrote:
Do you find yourself to be approached or getting the attention by girls that are like waaay too damn young to have a relationship with?

Like when you are 24 for example and you get approached by 12 f***ing year olds? :help:

Is this because most of us look "young" or what? :?


It's a phase girls go though, like when they like horses. Every spring and summer a girl from some pack of girls will run up and say something like "you're cute", then they all run away giggling and texting...

What if the girl is on her own sitting in the grass of her front garden and just gently smiles at you while you walk by?


I would guess it's better than a frown or scowl...



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13 Apr 2012, 5:57 pm

What's worse is when you estimate their age wrong.

Been approached by a 16 yo girl recently (she's 17 now) that I estimated to be a baby-faced 20 yo. :-/


She giggled at everything I say, even when I didn't try to make her laugh.

Me: "Hi..." Her: Hihihihihi ^_^

Me: :-| (poker face) Her: Hhihihihihihi ^v^

Me: *taking a deep breath* Her: Hhihihihii ^_^

Apparently, she remembers every time things I did/said before she found funny.


When she added me on FB, i found out she is barely 17 and i was like 'fuuuuuuck......".


Lately, i am having a feeling that i am either liked by too young girls or by older ....like at least 5 years older women.



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13 Apr 2012, 6:07 pm

Uprising wrote:
What if the girl is on her own sitting in the grass of her front garden and just gently smiles at you while you walk by?


I would take that as just being polite with absolutely nothing behind it.

Anything other then that sounds very creepy on your part.


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