empathy
You're one of the very, very few people who ever acknowledge being a sociopath - you have my respect for that. Please seek counseling/therapy for it... it's dangerous and hurts the people whose lives you interact with. As far as relationships go, either find someone who wants the same thing you do (and no more than that!) or don't do it at all.
lots of cold empathy (reading ppl)
no (or next to non) worm empathy (ppl get boring really fast to me unless i need them for something)
how's that for you?
how does that translate in dating/relationships?
Dating and relationships could be potentially dangerous for other people to get into with a sociopath since sociopaths are descrbed as only caring for themselves. I would guess you have excellent social skills and are also good at manipulation?
What I don't understand though is your profile says you believe you are aspergers (undiagnosed).
Narcissists and Aspies are very similar. As far as I can tell some narcissists and Aspies can get along pretty well under certain conditions. Anyways, the major difference I have noticed between the two is that Narcs seek attention and Aspies tend to keep to themselves. Both have little understanding of people and both see people as objects. You see these two types of people all the time in the engineering field.
I think if you are honest with yourself and others you have the ability to get what you want and what you need from someone without hurting them.
I tend to be very empathic for others although I don't always show it sometimes too empathetic but I have be careful because it can lead to being attacked and manipulated
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Your Aspie score is 193 of 200
Your neurotypical score is 40 of 200
You are very likely an aspie
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Portrait of a sociopath
The manipulative con-man. The guy who lies to your face, even when he doesn’t have to. The child who tortures animals. The cold-blooded killer. Psychopaths are characterised by an absence of empathy and poor impulse control, with a total lack of conscience. About 1% of the total population can be defined as psychopaths, according to a detailed psychological profile checklist. They tend to be egocentric, callous, manipulative, deceptive, superficial, irresponsible and parasitic, even predatory. The majority of psychopaths are not violent and many do very well in jobs where their personality traits are advantageous and their social tendencies tolerated. However, some have a predisposition to calculated, “instrumental” violence; violence that is cold-blooded, planned and goal-directed. Psychopaths are vastly over-represented among criminals; it is estimated they make up about 20% of the inmates of most prisons. They commit over half of all violent crimes and are 3-4 times more likely to re-offend. They are almost entirely refractory to rehabilitation. These are not nice people.
So how did they get that way? Is it an innate biological condition, a result of social experience, or an interaction between these factors? Longitudinal studies have shown that the personality traits associated with psychopathy are highly stable over time. Early warning signs including “callous-unemotional traits” and antisocial behaviour can be identified in childhood and are highly predictive of future psychopathy. Large-scale twin studies have shown that these traits are highly heritable – identical twins, who share 100% of their genes, are much more similar to each other in this trait than fraternal twins, who share only 50% of their genes. In one study, over 80% of the variation in the callous-unemotional trait across the population was due to genetic differences. In contrast, the effect of a shared family environment was almost nil. Psychopathy seems to be a lifelong trait, or combination of traits, which are heavily influenced by genes and hardly at all by social upbringing.
The two defining characteristics of psychopaths, blunted emotional response to negative stimuli, coupled with poor impulse control, can both be measured in psychological and neuroimaging experiments. Several studies have found decreased responsiveness of the amygdala to fearful or other negative stimuli in psychopaths. They do not seem to process heavily loaded emotional words, like “rape”, for example, any differently from how they process neutral words, like “table”. This lack of response to negative stimuli can be measured in other ways, such as the failure to induce a galvanic skin response (heightened skin conduction due to sweating) when faced with an impending electrical shock. Psychopaths have also been found to underactivate limbic (emotional) regions of the brain during aversive learning, correlating with an insensitivity to negative reinforcement. The psychopath really just doesn’t care. In this, psychopaths differ from many people who are prone to sudden, impulsive violence, in that those people tend to have a hypersensitive negative emotional response to what would otherwise be relatively innocuous stimuli.
What these two groups have in common is poor impulse control. This faculty relies on the part of the brain called the prefrontal cortex, most particularly the orbitofrontal cortex. It is known that lesions to this part of the brain impair planning, prediction of consequences, and inhibition of socially unacceptable behaviour – the cognitive mechanisms of “free won’t”, rather than free will. This brain region is also normally activated by aversive learning, and this activation is also reduced in psychopaths. In addition, both the prefrontal cortex and the amygdala show substantial average reductions in size in psychopaths, suggesting a structural difference in their brains.
These findings have now been united by a recent study that directly analysed connectivity between these two regions. Using diffusion tensor imaging (see post of August 31st 2009), Craig and colleagues found that a measure of the integrity of the axonal tract connecting these two regions, called the uncinate fasciculus, was significantly reduced in psychopaths. Importantly, connectivity of these regions to other parts of the brain was normal. These data thus suggest a specific disruption of the network connecting orbitofrontal cortex and amygdala in psychopaths, the degree of which correlated strongly with the subjects’ scores on the psychopathy checklist.
All of these findings are pointing to a picture of psychopathy as an innate, genetically driven difference in connectivity between parts of the brain that normally drive empathy, conscience and impulse control. Not a fault necessarily, and not something that could be classified as a disease or that is always a disadvantage. At a certain frequency in the population, the traits of psychopathy may be highly advantageous to the individual.
This conclusion has serious ethical and legal implications. Could a psychopath mount a legal defense by saying “my brain made me do it”? Or my “genes made me do it”? Is this any different from saying my rotten childhood made me do it? Psychopaths know right from wrong – they just don’t care. That is what society calls “bad”, not “mad”. But if they are constitutionally incapable of caring, can they really be blamed for it? On the other hand, if violent psychopaths are a continuing danger to society and completely refractory to rehabilitation, what is to be done with them? Perhaps, as has been proposed in the UK, people with the extreme psychopathic personality profile (or maybe in the near future even a specific genetic profile?) should be monitored or segregated even before they commit a crime.
While it is crucial that these debates are informed by good science, these issues have no clear-cut answers. They will be resolved on a pragmatic basis, weighing the behaviour that society is willing to tolerate versus the rights of the individual, whatever their brains look like, to define their own moral standards.
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i play therapist like a puppet on a string we do not get allong (specialy if they are arrogant, lie etc)
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I feel empathy physically, but not usually emotionally. If someone says "I have a headache" then my head starts to hurt. If someone tells me that something feels physically good then it does for me too.
I have a ton of trouble reading peoples emotions unless they tell me directly.
It makes relationships tricky but not impossible if the person is able to understand.
Meh maybe you just need to change your perspective.
I don't like people after a certain point if they lack substance. I just let them go since I know that they will end up being a headache in the end and because I think it is the right thing to do. If I kept them around because they gave me things, boosted my ego, etc then it will just give me bad emotions....I don't want to deal with those bad emotions. I think if I dealt with it anyways...I would end up with a sociopath mentality and behavior in order to survive.
Why is it that people insist on using the term "Sociopath"?
As far as I know, the terms currently being used in research are either psychopath (in psychology) or antisocial personality disorder (in psychiatry). I may be wrong, however, as I am neither a psychologist nor a psychiatrist myself.
Why? The current research in psychology suggests (although not conclusively) that such therapeutic measures might increase antisocial behaviour. This research is predominantly based on incarcerated offenders, however, so it might depend on the context.