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04 Aug 2013, 3:01 pm

Okay well its partially unture becuase i had a partner in the hospital and she was really pretty but i wonder is there a sercert to getting a girlfriend outside of the hosptial i find it very hard for example I know this girl form a while back and I reconsised her she aknowledged me and we talked a little bit and i bet i could find her on facebook but i dont want too look like a stalker so how should I go about getting with this girl should I add her on facebook and say somthing NT or should I just forget about her becuase she might reject me?



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04 Aug 2013, 3:09 pm

You should give it a go. You never know unless you try.



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04 Aug 2013, 3:56 pm

^ This. I am in the same spot as you are, except a few years older.


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04 Aug 2013, 4:13 pm

equestriatola wrote:
^ This. I am in the same spot as you are, except a few years older.


What the hay do you mean by that last part of your reply? It confuses me a bit.



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04 Aug 2013, 6:07 pm

LoverOfDragons wrote:
equestriatola wrote:
^ This. I am in the same spot as you are, except a few years older.


What the hay do you mean by that last part of your reply? It confuses me a bit.


He never had a girlfriend and is 27. Which is a couple years older than 22.

I kinda feel ya. You two guys. I wish I had a girlfriend too and sometimes I mope about it. But the best thing to do is to realize just like my quote below. Is that life is going to reward you at the least expected moment.



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04 Aug 2013, 6:26 pm

Well, I'm really a girl and all lol but that for sure does not mean I don't feel bad about being single, because honestly, I do feel a bit bad about being single. I know people say that being single means being independent and all, but that kind of independence is not for me. Anyway, I do hope I will get a boyfriend so I can one day get married, like my BBBFF (big brother best friend forever), and have my own family.



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04 Aug 2013, 10:26 pm

Hey I'm 32 and never had a single date :(


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04 Aug 2013, 10:30 pm

newageretrohippie wrote:
Hey I'm 32 and never had a single date :(


Oh dear...I'm sorry :( I feel really bad about that. Makes me sad knowing that there's nothing I can do about that... Makes me want to cry now...



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05 Aug 2013, 2:05 am

^^ :-| I was about to reply but I hate to be pitied like this.



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05 Aug 2013, 7:22 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^^ :-| I was about to reply but I hate to be pitied like this.


Oh no! I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry! I wasn't trying to come across as pitiful. I'm sorry!



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05 Aug 2013, 8:02 am

TheZachadoodle wrote:
LoverOfDragons wrote:
equestriatola wrote:
^ This. I am in the same spot as you are, except a few years older.


What the hay do you mean by that last part of your reply? It confuses me a bit.


He never had a girlfriend and is 27. Which is a couple years older than 22.

I kinda feel ya. You two guys. I wish I had a girlfriend too and sometimes I mope about it. But the best thing to do is to realize just like my quote below. Is that life is going to reward you at the least expected moment.


Actually, I'm 26.


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05 Aug 2013, 8:05 am

Why not add her on facebook and send a message? If she accepts you, you know she at least knows who you are and is open to contact.



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05 Aug 2013, 2:11 pm

equestriatola wrote:
Actually, I'm 26.

My bad :lol: a bit off by a few years...



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05 Aug 2013, 2:35 pm

How about being 30 and while (barely) having a GF I have dated exactly two women. Whats worse is that i am extremely tall, good looking, in good physical shape and have girls constantly staring me down but cant communicate with them to save my life at all given how blunt and direct I am.

If all these women knew i was a virgin until almost 30 they would flat out not believe it. I almost wish i wasnt physically good looking and didnt know what m missing out on thanks to my Aspie nature.



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05 Aug 2013, 3:43 pm

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10 Aug 2013, 1:09 pm

im 18 never had a girlfriend so i went to a hooker