Lets face it some NTs do want to date an aspie!

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I know it might come off as far fetched but its true, there are some NTs who want an aspie!

Last edited by AspieOtaku on 16 Sep 2014, 1:50 am, edited 2 times in total.

Had an aspie GF, and I want her back.

I find out today if I am an aspie as well.

Either way, I still miss her.

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Sorry for being such a debby downer earlier I know there are some NTs out there willing to date a person aspie or not its just I been feeling down and have dealt with nasty NTs that judge aspies by their cover and bully them but there are some out there that have hearts of gold and look beyond the quirks we have.

I doubt that many women know what being an Aspie is, let alone "shop" for one. I'm not saying that you are wrong, I'm just saying that I'm not believing it enough to modify my cynical view of the world.

So your saying that all NTs hate all Aspies and dont want anything to do with them?

NTs usually don't even think about other people in terms of "mental disorders" unless they're blatantly insane or have down-syndrome.

An autistic person is often just viewed as another NT, but a weird/shy one.

They think a sociopath is a cocky, charismatic, and very-confident NT.(that gets angry easily) lol

She's not saying that at all. What's up with the black and white thinking going on so much among aspies?

Sorry its a habit amongst aspies.

True. So, in my opinion and personal experience, I can say some people think aspies are just shy and consequently very cute (I tend to have very kind actions). And some people really like it.
Not a lot of love for the other characteristics tho (lol).

Ive had a handful of neurotypical women fall in love with me, pursue me for relationship. Cry a lot when I turn them down. It certainly happens. Neurotypical women can't connect with me on the level I desire. They try to make up for by being extremely nice and supportive and allowing me lots of sex. But in those instances i still found that no amount of support or sex can replace my desire for true connection. I still felt somewhat alone with them.

Dude, stop thinking in hyperbolic strings. There are shades in between all, none, and some. What he really meant to say was that lots of NT women aren't even aware of aspergers, and HFA or LFA for that matter. Not to mention that even if they are aware of autism they typically don't have any real understanding of the symptoms. To them you are just a person, and the reality is that we're all just people. Many think of us as eccentric, and being eccentric isn't considered a bad thing necessarily, it depends on "the eye of the beholder" (makes me think of AD&D if some of you know the reference).



Dude, everyone forms habits and you aren't bound by your symptoms to thinking like this. If you work to form better habits maybe you will do better with people, it seems like this hyperbole and high drama might be part of the problem for you here.

So in conclusion some NTs would date an aspie but most dont!

I have never heard of someone having a specific fetish for those with Asperger's, because that's the vibe I'm getting from the topic.

I would rather date someone who accepts me for me, and not just for what I have.

The good news is, I've known NT people who sort of were like this (as in fetish mentioned ^^ above).

The bad news though, they just get treated as badly by society as we do, actually even worse.

I did but not because the guy was an aspie it was because I liked him. He was nice to me and I thought he liked me too. I didn't care about his autism and we are friends and his being autistic is still not a major interest of mine. The only time his being an aspie bothers me is when he becomes too critical over the spelling mistakes I make in facebook chat. I type fast and for some reason the red crinkle lines that show me things are not spelled right don't show up so I don't realise until it's too late and he feels the need to constantly point that out.