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05 Jun 2018, 5:56 pm

Last night my darling, loving girlfriend started acting like a hateful b***h. I'm going to have to dump her because I cannot live with someone who treats me like crap.

I'm really sad and confused by this. Why would she go from being the most selfless, loving person I ever met to being selfish and crazy?

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05 Jun 2018, 6:00 pm

Bipolar? Batshit crazy? Just being a woman?

Heterosexual problems, IMO. :p

Better that you learned this about her sooner rather than later, though.

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05 Jun 2018, 6:07 pm

goldfish21 wrote:

Bipolar? Batshit crazy? Just being a woman?

Heterosexual problems, IMO. :p

Better that you learned this about her sooner rather than later, though.

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05 Jun 2018, 6:19 pm

I would bet-----that the fact that you don't want kids right away might have something to do with her attitude.

Now----she doesn't feel she'll get her permanent residence.

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05 Jun 2018, 6:38 pm

If she knows that you use WP then maybe she's reading this thread......just a thought.

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05 Jun 2018, 7:39 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I would bet-----that the fact that you don't want kids right away might have something to do with her attitude.

Now----she doesn't feel she'll get her permanent residence.

I don't think I can have kids with someone who acts crazy. It wouldn't be good for me or the child.

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05 Jun 2018, 7:42 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I would bet-----that the fact that you don't want kids right away might have something to do with her attitude.

Now----she doesn't feel she'll get her permanent residence.

Yep. It's obvious. She's not going to get what she had wanted.

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06 Jun 2018, 2:32 am

Her love was fake, opportunistic.

Another dark story added to the pile of bad foreigner partner stories.

My gf is a foreigner too but we are not planning to get married or live togother at all.

I hope she doesn't have a hidden motif tho.

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06 Jun 2018, 2:47 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

I would bet-----that the fact that you don't want kids right away might have something to do with her attitude.

Now----she doesn't feel she'll get her permanent residence.

I don't think I can have kids with someone who acts crazy. It wouldn't be good for me or the child.

Very wise assessment.

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06 Jun 2018, 2:55 am

i fear that i may know just what you are going through, my guy.

sucks, doesn't it. it just comes out of nowhere and leaves you wondering why you thought you had a future with her.

at least....it did for me.

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06 Jun 2018, 4:35 am

OK so this probably goes against your better judgement but we're back together. Here's hoping things don't go to sh*t again.

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06 Jun 2018, 4:39 am

good.

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06 Jun 2018, 4:41 am

Did you discuss what the issue was???

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06 Jun 2018, 7:28 am

hale_bopp wrote:

Did you discuss what the issue was???

Some of it yes. The problem that she refused to discuss was her lack of communication.

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06 Jun 2018, 7:42 am

She’s sounds like the cute, stubborn type....

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06 Jun 2018, 9:13 am

Sure it just wasn't PMS. You do not want to talk to me a week before my period.

However, my partner and I set adside time every other month to discuss issues as he hates upsetting anyone.

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