Do you message attractive women?

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When you see an attractive woman on a dating site (I'm talking extremely good looking, beautiful) do you send them a message? Me, I swipe left without even opening their profile because I know someone who looks that would never be interested in a guy like this. Better to not even get my hopes up. What about you guys?

What do you mean as "attractive" physically?

I'm not a guy, this thread just reminded me a colleague of mine.
He was, well let's put it this way, not the dream of many women.
But he was intelligent and a great conversationalist, he knew what to say to women.
He always had model-looking girlfriends because as he said, he knew exactly that most guys would not even try to talk to talk to very attractive women and they wouldn't realise how these women were actually starved for a REAL connection=not guys who are only interested in their looks!!
Everybody liked him as he made them feel special.

Although I have to add this was about 18-20 years ago, things changed but I don't think the principle did.

Yes and they usually message back.
It's one thing to exchange banter and another to seal the deal.

I enjoy the jokes too much to seal the deal. Perhaps I'm a commitment phobe or perhaps I fear disappointing anyone.

I'm not into that kind of look so nah. Can't even tell what they look like because they are wearing too much makeup to be able to see their faces. Not my type.

Yes, I would message an extremely good-looking, beautiful woman. But I doubt you would agree that she was so good-looking

The bottom one isn't even close to attractive let alone a homecoming queen.

I think it'd be wise if you guys stopped posting women's pictures from profiles here, it's getting out of hand. Perhaps it should be put into the section rules.

As for me, I don't message anyone.

I messaged any woman who didn't have kids, wasn't much older than me & the description of what they wanted in a partner wasn't opposite of me. I never gotten more than a couple messages back from any woman

Those are the only kind of women I message! Two decades of watching magic shows and women's pro wrestling along with being good friends with the female jocks and cheerleaders in high school have given me hilariously unrealistic standards

Attractive women are often very nice. The story people created that attractive women are always mean is not true. I had nurses come over to help me and most were attractive and all were super nice. 2 even came to visit me after I stopped needing care, just for friendly visits. (I swear )

I fall for behavior myself so I don't care if a woman is attractive or not but I of course do see the difference.

For some reason most of the mean women I have met were not very attractive, always the same types as well.

Always try if you want, why not? Go for it.

Both seem nice although the blonde seems insecure with such bad photos. Wish I could teach her how to use photoshop

The blonde seems very familiar though, feel like I have seen those photos before. Watch out for that, don't want you to talk to a 12 year old kid now and being cat-fished

no,
i'd say, changes are with the "extremely" attractive that it's fake, on the safe side of estimate i'd say 50/50

although men are supposedly the visual, they're not the seeing, but easily trumped by fake, pretense and superficial, hence the masquerade and all accessories

My tastes run a little unconventional, so these conventionally attractive women tend not to do it for me. That being said, I once refrained from messaging a pretty girl (bit of an age gap, didn't want to be a creep), and she ended up messaging me instead.

Yesterday a Circassian woman (with typical Circassian-looks) messaged me, but just chatters, I bet she has no sexual interest in me.

Google 'Circassian women' to know how beautiful they are.

Oh ... MESSAGE!

I thought the subject was "Do you MASSAGE Attractive Women?"

Silly me.