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29 Nov 2020, 11:16 pm

I have noticed how hard it is to meet someone off a dating site, even before covid-19. Interests are tricky, here is what most women have in their profile
Hiking, 4wheeling, concerts, traveling, anything with a crowd, and her children come first.

nothing wrong with that profile at all, but none of that seems right for me, trying to find someone who you can talk about what their interests are and find a compromise would be amazing. anyone else have these issues?

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30 Nov 2020, 2:44 am

nomad48 wrote:

I'm afraid women may find that not exciting enough.

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30 Nov 2020, 10:42 am

Welcome to the world of online dating.

Most women are crap at writing bios simply because they don’t have to be good. Any decently attractive woman is getting 100+ messages no matter what, so why bother putting in effort when male attention and validation is simply given to you?

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30 Nov 2020, 11:28 am

I have a similar dilemma when it comes to finding women with compatible interests due to the fact that mine are so diverse. Trust me, you're not alone!

Being as equally attracted to this

as this

is a hell I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy

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30 Nov 2020, 11:41 am

My problem with finding people with the same interests is that nobody has the same interests as me in Houston.

My interests are traveling and animated sitcoms, and the latter is disliked by the mostly conservative, Evangelical Christian dating pool. (I am not necessarily “liberal”, though, and I am Lutheran)

I have even planned to relocate to Seattle (after being priced out of NYC and the SF Bay Area, my first two choices) to find people with the same interests, but the high cost of living there has kept that from happening.

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30 Nov 2020, 4:46 pm

Hard to find atheists. I wish we had our own churches with preachigs and that would be amazing, fun, fair.

quite an extreme
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30 Nov 2020, 6:38 pm

Rexi wrote:

Hard to find atheists.

Why? I'm here. :wink:

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30 Nov 2020, 7:38 pm

quite an extreme wrote:

Rexi wrote:

Hard to find atheists.

Why? I'm here. :wink:

AWW! I'm here too, I see your disco ball, and I think that's fun. See, our churches should have it instead of a cross.

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30 Nov 2020, 8:18 pm

SportsGamer35728 wrote:

I have a similar dilemma when it comes to finding women with compatible interests due to the fact that mine are so diverse. Trust me, you're not alone!

Being as equally attracted to this

as this

is a hell I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy

Am I supposed to be attracted to the 2nd one? Because I think the first is really hot!... flushed cheeks and very nice skin, legs...

The 2nd tickles my interest for accessories and artsy stuff. Property of Tripp? Funny name for an owner. She reminds me of the justice league and Joker movies.

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30 Nov 2020, 9:21 pm

Rexi wrote:

The first one is Women's World Cup champion Abby Dahlkemper (who I've met several times and hugged the day after she won her first pro club championship with the WNY Flash in 2016). The second is WWE NXT wrestler Shotzi Blackheart.

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30 Nov 2020, 10:14 pm

SportsGamer35728 wrote:

Rexi wrote:

They look very similar in terms of facial features, body type, etc.... (excepting makeup and clothing styles of course)

Funny how they are both athletes (WWE is still considered a sport, right?)

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30 Nov 2020, 11:04 pm

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:

SportsGamer35728 wrote:

Rexi wrote:

They look very similar in terms of facial features, body type, etc.... (excepting makeup and clothing styles of course)

Funny how they are both athletes (WWE is still considered a sport, right?)

I've long been into both athletic and alternative women going all the back to high school :heart:

Needless to say trying to appeal to both is effectively Mission Impossible

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01 Dec 2020, 12:20 am

If you like athletic women, check out former Spice Girl Melanie C, she is buff now

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01 Dec 2020, 6:25 am

SportsGamer35728 wrote:

Rexi wrote:

Shotzi's got a cool tongue!
But body types I think shotzi is very sturdy looking and Abby is muscular yet well shaped and low fat looking.

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01 Dec 2020, 6:41 am

Blondes :hic: