Do you stim on your partner?

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09 Oct 2005, 2:43 pm

Okay, by stiming on your partner, I don't necessarily mean sexual contact, but merely any kind of contact, which if you did it to yourself, would be stimming. For example: drumming your fingers onto your partners back. When I went to a Manowar concert with Serissa, for instance, I tried to play her back like a guitar, in sync with Joey DeMaio.

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09 Oct 2005, 2:45 pm

HE ABSOLUTELY DID NOT!! !!

It was my side, not my back.

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09 Oct 2005, 3:43 pm

Yes and no. When I dated a girl a while back, whenver we watched a movie in a theater (or sat close together in any situation), I would put my arm around her, and stroke her hair a little bit. But I wouldn't call it a stim, since she was the one who seemed to enjoy it more, and even found it to be somewhat of a turn-on. So it was a win-win situation, I guess: I found something to do with my hands, and she got something that felt good to her.

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10 Oct 2005, 2:34 am

Wait just a minute... Manowar is still playing concerts?!

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10 Oct 2005, 2:56 am

yes, i do. on the odd occasions when i have one...

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10 Oct 2005, 1:05 pm

I liked to play with my girlfriends and boyfriend's hair when we were dating.I also liked to stroke thier hands.

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10 Oct 2005, 9:35 pm

I didn't know you two were partners...

*walks off back into clueless fog*

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10 Oct 2005, 9:56 pm

There's probably alot of couples in WP that have gone unnoticed...

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10 Oct 2005, 10:24 pm

Yeah, I didn't know that either. Well, this is a forum for aspies, what do you expect?

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10 Oct 2005, 11:18 pm

ghotistix wrote:

Wait just a minute... Manowar is still playing concerts?!

On June 18th, 2005 they played, along with Rhapsody, at the Worcestor Palladium in Massachusetts. It was the best concert I've been to.

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11 Oct 2005, 12:38 pm

Thinking about it I hade a close circle of friends who all stim on each other well 3 of us stim on them and the rest put up with it. We have allsorts of ball that we roll over back’s and we play fight which I think is a sota of stim they way we do it at least. We also do a head scratching thing which the NT of the group like as well

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11 Oct 2005, 1:42 pm

I did ~ all the time!!

I used to drum out patterns and rythms on my wife all the time, I just couldn't help it.

It used to drive her crazy.

Probably one of the reasons she left me last week.

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18 Oct 2005, 9:52 am

Oooh cute! A little Aspie couple!

...where's my Mr. Darcy?

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22 Oct 2005, 2:21 pm

PhoenixKitten wrote:

Oooh cute! A little Aspie couple!

...where's my Mr. Darcy?

HAHAHA! I can't believe I didn't comment on that before, but yeah, Mark Darcy was really Aspish! ((If that's what you meant. Maybe you meant that I'm a goofy likeable overweight person who hit the jackpot))

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