What the HELL is wrong with girls?

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Here's the thing, I'm still alone because girls like 'badasses' and 'gangstas'.

They ignore me because I don't try to be a 'tough guy'

They say they feel protected with a 'gangsta' even though most of them ADMIT they get mistreated. The simple fact is that they do stupid stuff like reffer to girls as their 'b*****s' and 'hoes' behind their back. They will end up in jail, or cheating on you.

And protection? What a laugh. most these 'gangstas' don't know what true violence is. I don't go around threatening everyone that calls me a cracka, wearing baggy pants, and listening to rap all the time, so they'd consider me 'weak'. Which is a laugh because I'd CRUSH most these 'badasses'. I've dropped people twice my size before. But I'm 'weak' because I didn't hit that guy for calling my girlfriend a c**t from 200 yards away.

And at the same time, I treat girls like queens. I do not disrespect them like these little thug-wanna-be's. And I'm not going to end up in jail.

Sure, I've been asked out a few times. But that's only from the kind of girls you don't wanna touch. I happen to defend people that get a lot of harassment. So yes, I stick up for girls that everyone calls a slut. Not because I don't think she IS a slut, but because there's not point in making her miserable for it.

So here I am, what a lot of girls would consider the ideal guy, and I'm alone.
Girls give me 'Your cute and sweet and stuff, your just not my type' all the time, before they even get to know me.

So why am I the only bastard that isn't allowed a little happiness?
Some people want to be rich, famous, blah blah blah...
I don't.
If anyone's got a reason to be angry at the world, I'm one of them. Yet I am still constantly nice to people.
All I want is to not be alone all the time. I only want a little affection.

Someone tell me why the hell I can't have that, caus I'm starting to chafe here.

90% of women are superficial like that... they don't want to examine beneath the surface because they can't handle it...

the other 10% of women are not looking for any kind of relationships because 90% of men are douchebags and they know it...

Well happens to me as well and I moved on in life about. Just be yourself works well because I have a good amount of female friends and time is a key as well along understanding people's emotions. Somehow I can since my Uncle Martin noted it to me while doing some of his interesting crystal, basically energy crystals, stuff on me. I took good note of it from there on out.

You seem to be trapped in a school dominated by a strange culture (gangsta, I believe). You should find a way to remove yourself. Many girls at my school refuse to date boys who aren't well-off and ambitious; they feel that a man must protect them financially to be worthwhile. It's a thing. Every female culture has a weird idea about what it means to be protected. The key is to find a culture in which you yourself correspond to the female protection ideal. It's highly un-feminist, but it's true.

If I were you I wouldn't bother with woman that are attracted to the bad boy thing.
Also it sounds like you have to much respect for them, a lot of them are superficial skanks. If you like play the alpha male game to attract those sorts of woman, but I wouldn't consider having a serious relationship with any of them.

Don't start thinking negatively about woman either, there are good and bad out there.

There's nothing wrong with women. They were made that way by God. Young girls mess around with bad boys, but most grow up and settle down with nice guys. Why? They get tired of all the bs. They want something better. High school sucked for me. So did college. In high school, I was a prep--captain of the academic team, voted most likely to succeed, all AP classes, blah, blah, blah. I couldn't get a date to save my life. When I went to college and started living the rap songs I was listening to, (drinking, smoking, selling, macking) women wanted me. I looked the part and played the part well enough to fool rich, preppy girls. The only problem was, when they got to know me, they found out I was an actor. Today, at 24, I'm finally confident enough to be myself around women. What's cool about being older is that the rules change. Women look for different things in men. I don't have to beat somebody up to impress a lady. There's nothing wrong with those girls, and there's nothing wrong with you. It's just not your time yet. In high school, losers rule. In the real world, we have the advantage.

I sense a strange air of misogyny in your "nice guy" rant, that I would back off, and take another look at where you're going with girls. You think you have it bad, I'm a computer science major at NC State, and engineering majors have their own campus separate from everyone else, that we're generally isolated from most girls.

Does your school have a decent newspaper/theatre club/etc? Start there. If not, try looking at other nearby high schools/social clubs/etc.

Dude, you're suffering misattribution error.

Not ALL girls want the bad guy.
You're not the only alone person.
If by adult, you mean 18, then there are a lot of adults out there that haven't held a girl's hand. I'm 21 and still perpetually single. Frankly, high school dating is not worth it on account of half of it being a giant popularity contest. If you're not part of the in-crowd, you're proper screwed. Wait until the end of college at the least, or at least work on creating a resume/selling point. They want a guy that can protect? That's perfectly understandable. Practice some martial art/get a decent job/etc.

There we go with more HIGHSCHOOL bs.

I'm about to graduated, GED, and I am NOT like high schoolers. I'm not a phenomenon, but kids are NOT taught to grow up today.

I get along better with adults that I do with kids.

Well they still say there's someone for everyone. BS.

I WOULDN'T GO OUT WITH SOMEONE LIKE YOU

Do you know how mother f*****g painful it is to hear that?
Do you know how many times I've heard that?

I've had 13 friends commit suicide.
When I was 8 I got raped, been moved away from my friends over and over. Been in more fights that i can remember. Been shot at and the works. No one ever liked me in school either, I just couldn't get along. Caus it's SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO funny to laugh at the 'weird' guy. So I got sick of it, and instead of people hating me because I was different, they hated me because I beat up their 'home dawgs'.
Then I moved to VA and though a fresh start, no fighting, and hopefully not being 'weird'
First day, and the whole class was laughing at me. all the time. telling me things like 'your gonna grow up to be a bum' 'your gonna fail at life' and all SORTS of other things.
kids literally TORMENTED me.

After all that s**t that god guy put my through, I'm finaly starting to get along with people. I'm still nice to everyone, even though people have treated me like s**t all my life.

Now all I want is a girlfriend, or hell, how about a best friend?
I've never had a godamn best friend in my LIFE.

But no. of course not. To good for the likes of me. Instead I'm stuck kissing ass and talking about stupid, pointless things with people that are barely friends, just so I don't have more idiot referring to me as ret*d, moron, or any of the other things they've called me.

I can't even get along with people ON A GODAMN MOTHER f*****g FORUM WITH SUPPOSED PEOPLE LIKE ME. This is the FIRST post anyone's replied to. People IGNORE me, even online. WHY AM I NOT ALLOWED?

Aww jeez that's only here.

I don't talk like that really.

What type of girls are you going after/ do you want? Usually, promiscuous girls ("slu*ty") or girls who are somewhat popular want guys who are like them : bad girls want bad boys. Maybe you should find a good girl?

Just try to be cool, charming- be confident. Dont let this all get you down because if you approach any girl with the "you dont want me, you want a bad boy" attitude, they can tell 100% of the time and will feel weird about it, and possibly on the defensive.