Getting To Know the Hottest Girl In Class

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I'm guessing nearly every guy with Aspergers here has looked at some hot chick that goes to their class and thought, "Man, I wish I could get to know her." Let's face it, we have some of the most trouble initiating conversation with the ladies. However, I've recently found somewhat of a formula that works everytime. It's as simple as this.

1. Try to get a seat next to her. If they're full, you can always talk to her after class.
2. Start by asking her how school has been. She will not automatically suspect you have a big crush on her just because you've never talked to her before as I foolishly assumed for so long.
3. Ask questions that relate to school (assignments, grades, other classes, etc.)
4. Make sure you get her name before you split. Repeating her name out loud helps to remember. If you forget it, don't be shy to ask her next time.
5. Next time you see her, ask how she's been, and if she's done anything since you last saw her. If she mentions seeing a movie, start talking about movies. If she mentions a family member, ask about her family. Ask about anything she mentions that could make for an interesting conversation. If she has nothing interesting to say for the time being, you can always ask another day. There's nothing abnormal about a conversation lasting only two sentences.
6. It is best not to talk about yourself until asked. She is very likely to ask you how you've been, so before you talk to her, you can prepare for this question by trying to remember anything that happened recently that could possibly start an interesting conversation. If eating a sandwhich was about the most interesting thing that happened all week, just say "fine," or "nothing much," depending on the question. You'll always have plenty of chances to talk to her later.
7. The most important thing is practice. These methods take a time to get used to, and they are by no means perfect. I'm sure many of you could do a lot to improve on my methods, but that's what the art of conversation is all about. You start simple, and slowly get better. You will make social no-no's along the way, but people will be quick to blow them off. Just be persistant, confident, and you will slowly transform from that sorry loser in the corner to a first-class ladies man.

yea theres alot of hot people at my school i will never have.

Good advice. I would say "not much" instead of "nothing much" because nothing much is too many syllables but that doesn't have anything to do with getting the girl so never-mind.....

Three syllables too much eh Alex? Priceless!

...............How could you not know the names of the people in your class? I'm sure she would love the fact you're only paying her attention because of what she looks like.

I talk to not-so-attractive girls too. Some of the coolest girls I know weigh 200 pounds. I stay clear of chicks who never smile. Come to think of it, I never really talk to girls who don't smile constantly. I only used the word hottest because looks are the first thing you notice in a person, and I wanted to emphasize the effectiveness of my approach, but I suppose attractive girls aren't really any harder to talk to than unattractive girls...

Holy crap... I'm a shallow bastard encouraging other guys to be shallow bastards!:x
I'm so sorry.

Edit: You can only use the plural form of that word?

This thread is lame.

You're lame!

I generally have grown to hate the hottest girls in class, I prefer the cute ones and frequently get to know the well without a sceme.

I'm reporting you to moderators for flaming.

I don't see what's scheming about having to know a procedure formally for what other people understand intuitively.

What's the difference between hot and cute, anyway?

I think the trick is with the hottest girls in the class you have to just make sure that you really don't let yourself care much about their looks, see em as people first, and treat em as such. If you can act like you flat out don't care or can carry a real straight and disciplined conversation with her about something (a good excuse would be if she was in some kind of project group with you) then that's another thing that helps. Above all though it's being able to make people laugh as well.

Yeah, with this thread I'm guessing your not ostracising all the not-as-hot girls but your trying to get yourself over the anxiety and innertia you have toward lookers and I can't blame you. I feel like I am over that fear for the most part, only stipulation is that if I start a conversation with a girl, doesn't matter who she is or what she looks like, I need a valid enough excuse to talk to her to come off as confident.

You're missing out, the chicks who smile all the time can be airheads, the ones who don't are usually pretty interesting. But if your just practicing social skills I guess it doesn't really matter.

You're just playing, right? I was just playing. I'm sure your a cool person in real life. And you said my thread was lame first.
Let me make it clear that I have just as many unattractive girls for friends as I do attractive girls. This thread was poorly titled, because I use these methods on hot girls, ugly girls, and guys as well. In the end, I suppose this thread would have been more appropriate in the Friendship and General Social Interaction board, because they can help make friends with anybody.

Women don't forget social boo-boos. Once a mistake is made, they're turned off forever.

So... much like juggling televisions, really.