DOES ALL MALE WITH ASPERGER'S DESIRE SEX?

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Technically as others have said it is the pure biological need to reproduce, of course I never really wanted to have children because they are evil little bastards, but always remember what kind of things cheer you up if you feel down, as stupid as it sounds, I have been depressed to the verge of slicing myself open and letting myself die, I didn't do it though, cause even though I feel no connection to others, I always have truly loved science, in a sort of totally attached way, it always kept me going, still does. Just remember to think that if no one loves you that there will always be someone, if your the kind of person who wants someone of course, I personally am happy either way, my hand does a good job but you seem highly intelligent, with a very autistic world view, similar to mine, except I screwed any idea of having a soul and i'm much deeper inside than I seem, I can't be arsed to type more cause I need a bath, later people

ih only human cloning was leagle sio i wouldnt have to dilute my genes.

Only response Ive seen in this thread that not only answers it but answers it with facts. Sex for guys is like putting a stake in front of a dog, WAY to tempting to decline.... with that said there are guys that arent totally sex hungry and go out for sex and only sex but you can bet big money in there mind somewhere there thinking about it....

There is a whole comunity out there of men and woman who dont want kids.

So what we're all agreed on is:


-That a young straight guy can be friends with an old and/or unnattractive woman, whether or
not she's made it clear that she wouldn't have sex with them


-But that a young straight guy CANNOT be friends with a young attractive woman who's made

it clear that she wouldn't consider sex, as it'd be too tantalising


I'll roll with that

I hanvnt agreed on that

I may or may not be in a minority here, but I have at least 2 attractive young female friends, who I wouldn't consider having sex with.

Fair enough, I do find them sexually attractive, but have never actually felt any urge to have sex with them. In fact I would turn down any offer.

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~Loving Light~

I couldn't tell if that was dripping with sarcasm or a rant. But yeah pretty much, might as well put sugar on a table and watch the ants pile up.... Its instinct whether or not people believe it or will accept it, it is what it is...

there is no all, whether people want to accept it or not

Mine was just a humourous observation!_

Something I just thought of - Being oversexed looks good on gangsta rappers; does it look good on us as well?

Well yeah....Sex is WAY too much of a social symbol (It least here in good ol' America home of plastic probably the most plastic surgery,lol), I mean honestly I think people want a badge or a medal for "Most times had intercourse" and "Most massive You-know-what" it IS sacred in the social world, its kinda stupid its that way, I mean pleasuring activity: SO true, sacred obsession that measures your "manly manliness" I think not, people lie about doing too much too.

I've had women friends who have been attractive, and unattractive. I even had one who might have 'done the deed', if she wasn't engaged (she told me she thought about it).

There are males who don't desire sex. Dead ones, especially...

But what about the other problem; women who desire sex? schto delat? (what is to be done?...

Yeh, what's so big deal anyway?

My point was just:

-at the moment I am emotionally not ready
-first I want to build emotional bound with the partner, then sex
-I haven't really meet any nice guys in my entire life (all of them were totally misbehaving rubish), so now I am just simple doubting in the male spiecies
-I am scared/unaware/unable to comprehend initiating/having intercourse

And don't teach my about Biology!! ! I know Biology very hell well! (I am only being sarcastic by nature, I mean no harm)

It would be deceitful to claim that I have been freed from all sexual desire, but I have been living with a passionate celibacy for several years now, and am perfectly willing to wait after I finally get a girlfriend until I wed her, which given my financial situation cannot be for a while

I am torn between desire and fear of consumation.

Maybe I should simply sublimate my libidinous impulses into the Pursuit of Knowledge

Surely in an overpopulated world asexuals are desirable. How is this a disorder? These people will not become rapists or adulterers; they will not treat others as sexual objects. They are the future! Rise of the Eunuchs!

I would just say that alot of males desire sex. Its not some kind of trait of AS x

Apologies, as it was not clear to me what you meant to express. It is good to be personally ready, but also to temper that with appropriate expectations... be comfortable with yourself and your partner, and be patient. Things have a way of working themselves out and figuring out what to do when the moment arrives... and if not, then consider it something to smile and laugh about to yourself later in life, the novelty of experience.


M.