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Nadin13
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03 Jan 2009, 5:26 am

.....One unreal( character from one anime ) person said that in the world this is more pain then happines.....
.......I mean LOVE - that supposed to be something wonderfull is bringing so much pain. I'm a person who just can't let my feeling go out of me ( I dont know why). :roll:

Why do you think that love can be pain ( if you think so)? If not - why not?

( sorry about my bad grammar)......


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03 Jan 2009, 7:06 am

i think because true love isn't suppose to be
romantic but more of a responsibility and
giving of yourself, which leaves you at the mercy
of the one you love, i mean emotionally you're
at risk because you're never 100% certain that
the object of your affection will remain faithful to you or
will love you unconditionally.



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03 Jan 2009, 12:01 pm

Love is ecstasy, and love is pain. Two sides to the same coin.

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06 Jan 2009, 1:55 pm

I'm in the same boat myself.



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06 Jan 2009, 2:07 pm

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Does love can be pain?

Is it kan be braiking-up tym now pleez?



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06 Jan 2009, 9:10 pm

Well, pain caused by love is often a melodramatic pain, which reminds you that you're alive. I would rather be heartbroken than in my usual dull depressed meaningless state.

Suffering is important anyway, because you appreciate happiness more that way.


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06 Jan 2009, 9:18 pm

Love can cause psyical suffering. Like the term a broken heart can cause psysical-(spelling?) pain.



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06 Jan 2009, 9:23 pm

From personal experience, feeling love and the associated pain is better than feeling nothing at all.

Love and pain go together, but if the one you love can share your pain it is so much better.

It is a fact of life that all have to contend with.


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06 Jan 2009, 9:48 pm

Love isn't pain, my friend, love is the most beautiful emotion a human being can feel on this Earth. It leaves us vulnerable, but the sensation is wonderful when we know someone we care about loves us as much as we love them

To live without love IS PAIN. Why? Because your body yearns for the emotion and needs it to be content. If you can't find it and it eludes you, you become angry or depressed, and you might end up despising the opposite sex. Take it from someone who has felt these ups and downs, it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.



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06 Jan 2009, 11:18 pm

There is the pain felt in the absence of love, and that felt in the throes its vulnerability. Loving does make one open to being hurt, but also to great happiness. Something I realized long ago is that it is not the opinion of strangers that affects me - I really don't give a damn. But those of the people I care about, that I love... this gets under my skin. Similarly, I'm less likely to get upset with someone I don't know than I am with someone dear to me, as contradictory as that may sound - but it isn't worth my time to get attached or involved unless it has a greater relevance to me.


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07 Jan 2009, 2:32 am

Always pain



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07 Jan 2009, 7:55 am

English speak, yes you can?
Lol >.>


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Of course love can bring pain -.-
But it can also bring great happiness



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07 Jan 2009, 9:18 am

Experience says love is always pain
Knowledge says love is a choice
Hope says love brings true life



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07 Jan 2009, 10:35 am

Love can be painful if the person whom you love does not return your affection. It can be painful when you fail to stand by your obligations. Else, it is a wonderful thing. For, if the two embrace each other. Be together. They shall know happiness.

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Does love can be pain?

Is it kan be braiking-up tym now pleez?

In various places on this planet, there are schools for the mentally handicapped. And it really does do well for their self-esteem when there are signs on the school' gates that have the following words imprinted on them: "Careful, slow children".



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07 Jan 2009, 11:19 am

In my experience, love is evil. It tears you into pieces, destroys you soul, your very being. You can never let go of true love. Its pain always remains with you. Forever a burden. So yes.