Bigotry against involuntarily celibate men

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Yep. She’s a birdbrain.

I'm really glad I cleaned my glasses. I thought you guys were calling me a birdbrain.

Her world is going to the ghetto dance club and doing the "booty dew" or "stanky leg" while Ella Mai's "Boo'd Up" plays in the background. Guys will come on to her and use her for a "pump and dump" or even if she gets a boyfriend out of it, he'll run away when she's pregnant. The ghetto hip-hop culture here is really sick.

^ how many times has she been pregnant?

Hi bird.

Three. Either she can't afford birth control or is ignorant about it. She says she hates the way ghetto men treat her but she doesn't seem to mind putting herself in situations where they will grope her.

Seems a big thing here too, single mothers with kids, all with different fathers.
The government didn't help with the 'baby bonus'.
Girls were popping out kids just for the money.

I spent a lot of my early and mid 20's with some degree of the impression that people were, wittingly or unwittingly, shunting me toward that sort of path - a bit like if someone's existence or differences make you uncomfortable have enough people agree that they're likely to become a serial killer or 'blow their top' in some epic movie-like way, treat em like that till they become it, and the mess cleans itself up by the authorities and the guy who didn't fit in gets hauled off to everyone's relief.

There's a sort of blurry line between what a lot of people seem to consciously and deliberately know their doing, what they're subconsciously doing but don't consciously know, or want to do subconsciously and have a vague idea consciously that they're doing but want to know as few details as possible because going with it gives them something they want and they don't have the moral resolve or internal consistency to face that part of themselves down.

This is another area where I think people miss the target when they spend too much time focusing on whether a guy is in a relationship or having sex. What's probably more important are all the other things he's going through that would make a potential partner see too much risk either to reputation or even to their own well-being (by way of other people) to want to be involved. The lack of sex or caring at all whether someone is 'getting laid' just seems to be the colloquial shorthand for a guy's social status and the accrued effects that status has on his life.

Redneck trailer trash culture isn't much better when it comes to that sort of thing.

agreed..

i personally like the idea of gaming monasteries .
but really...i get the impression that monasteries and other fraternal organisations aren't as common now, as they were, nor as widespread - why?
i'm sure there still are, but i for one, am not of like mind or belief to join those that still exist.

It’s a saying

People don’t want to meet me and I don’t desire to live long

No women find a guy making min wage who doesn’t drive relationship material.
I’m sure their might be a few women who find me good looking or sexy but they’d never date me.

Can’t expand from zero. I won’t date people I find unattractive that’s not fair to me or them.

Their all serious worried about their careers and having family etc. so they don’t have time for playfulness they call it childish

It’s a saying.
No I don’t, I have no friends no relationship,I have nothing besides video games and a cat.

Same here
There’s 22 year olds with 4 kids from different dads here.
What’d they do have one every year since 18. But no they had some in high school.
It’s whatever best wishes to them they don’t want me and I don’t want them. Few have shown interest but I don’t want the drama or kids.
Especially love the ones who don’t want more kids or sex but want me to marry them and raise their kids, though I’m sure if they knew my situation they wouldn’t, probably just looking for finical support no?

If you don’t contribute to society then you don’t matter

As for monasteries I don’t think many exist in the USA or ever did, in the Europe sure.
Christians don’t have monasteries and USA was majority Christian not catholic.
I wouldn’t do a monastery either
I’m not super religious. I have adhd too so I would just annoy the other monks and be exiled.

This is partly why I got frustrated with dating sites. Single mothers were ubiquitous on them. I don't have any parental skills and little kids cause me to have sensory overload especially when they throw tantrums so I don't want to date a single mother. I've also heard stories of jealous "baby daddies" which doesn't encourage me to change my mind.