Talk about yourself for a bit
I've found a method that helps enormously to get the attention of girls. (For me anyway.) I just treat them as if I had absolutely zero interest in them beyond as conversational partners. If I'm not currently in a discussion, I just sit and smile and throw random looks at everybody.
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When superficiality reigns your reality, you are already lost in the sea of normality.
It is possible Kenjuudo, ever heard of the erectile disfunction thing?
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Sora: "My friends are my power."
Ventus: "I'm asking you as a friend. Just... put an end to me."
It's complicated
I've been very 'mobile' over the last year and a half. I transferred universities, spent five months in school, took an internship for three months, took another internship for three months, attended school for four months and graduated. It hasn't left much time for a romantic life--especially because I'm more of a long-term relationship kind of guy.
That being said, I've casually dated an adorable girl at my university this last semester. It didn't go very far because we're both graduating (graduated now), but we had some good times: just the basic dinner dates, cooked some spice-cake, hung out, etc. I don't really know what to say about it (fun?) It was actually an interesting interaction because usually people find out about AS from me pretty much right away--but I didn't want to do that with these girls so that their image of me was not tainted. Lots of ridiculousness and funny stories ensued from this fact, hahaha...
Hey I'm Naomi
I love the paper Mario games (except for super paper Mario)
the books "A thousand splendid suns", "lovely bones"(the film was total s**t)
all the harry potter books, hated the films!
I am nineteen I have an eighteen month old son, I live in England people tell me I am attractive I think I am intelligent but stopped going to school at fourteen.
In some ways I am mature for my age, in some ways I am still a big kid I depend on my mum a lot she is my rock.
I would love to find my soul mate <3
I don't go to the bars, or anywhere really. I don't have many friends, and the ones I do have already have their gf.
I'm going to school soon. University hopefully. I'm upgrading my social and english soon. I want to take Philosophy as a major and Economics as a minor.
I've asked girls out in real life. Everywhere. I've tried lots of different approaches.
Now I've just stopped asking. I've tried online dating several times. More than several I'd say. That's just a mild way of putting it.
I feel hopeless. I feel like i'll never get to be with a good looking girl (attractive to me) My standards aren't even high. It's basically just be physically appealing to me and think outside the box. I love a girl who listens to classic rock and thinks outside the norm.
But I live in a city - similar to austin. Where oil is one of our biggest exports. Alberta. Oil Country. The Oilers. Fort McMurray. Lots of the girls are "cow girls" or "country girls." But of course I know that's not the big picture problem - it's obviously me, I'm just not sure what it IS about ME that's not making the connection from A to B
I've never had good sex either. Never had an erection during intercourse. I've forced myself in the past years to be with girls I wasn't attracted to because we had a great friendship or I met them off the internet and it kind of just happened...
I know this is a personal question but how can you have intercourse if you don't have an erection?
And sometimes it just doesn't happen for people I live in a small town and Its not that nobody wants me It's that I can't find anyone I want. there Is no rush, it will happen when you least expect it.
hello everyone,
i am in my final semester and will graduate in electrical engineering very soon. i am not sure if anyone would response, but i need someone (girl and aspie) as a good friend with whom i can share everything.
if you are interested please PM me.
i am very good with pattern matching. collecting various things which make a set is my hobby. i also love music and draw cartoon sometimes.
i am a little bit of geek. also very hard-working and quick-learner (if you count that for friendship )...
artrat
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Joined: 6 Nov 2011
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,269
Location: The Butthole of the American Empire
Hello, I don't know why I bother since nobody seems to respond to people's posts about themselves.
These posts are just a bit self-centered.
I am a female aspie with green eyes and very short black hair. Some people tell me that i have a pretty face.
I am completely alien to the world of relationships. Sometimes I give up hope.
I am considered strange even for an aspie. In real life I have a filthy f**king mouth.
some people tell me that i am pretty damn funny. You decide once you have gotten a chance to virtually know me.
I have no job but start culinary school next week. The federal government is paying in the form of a pell grant.
. I recently discovered that i loved cooking and wanted to do it for a living.
my main interest has forever been music. I am a walking encyclopedia of knowledge on the subject of punk,indie,folk and alternative music.
I cant play music because i don't have the Patience to learn an instrument and i surely cant sing.
I love nature and the outdoors. I enjoy going on long nature hikes where i feel solitude. Sometimes i wish i could go into the wild and never return.
One of my hobbies is photography. I have taken thousands but lost almost all of them thanks to technology.
me and technology are in a love/hate relationship. Right now technology wants to be licked by me.
Reading books is sometimes an enjoyment when my attention-span is not completely dead. When i was a kid i wanted to be a writer, archaeologist and join the peace corp.
None of those dreams have been close to coming true.
I am a socialist with a great concern for the environment and humanity. I will probably vote Nader in the upcoming election.
My vote will most likely be wasted and my morals saved.
Religion is a bit uncertain for me right now but i am not an agnostic. I still believe in the human spirit and that's it.
If the native American religion were still in existence today I would be a devoted follower of that religion. I am interested in being a Buddhist but need to learn more.
I am thinking about writing my own religion's manifesto.
I once enjoyed creative writing but given up on that since you need a small fortune to publish anything. I hate that even the arts have to be competitive.
I am thinking about starting a blog called " The possibly drunken ramblings of an insane female". Would anybody read it?
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"I belive in God, only I spell it Nature."
~ Frank Llyod Wright
P-We
Tufted Titmouse
Joined: 10 May 2007
Age: 54
Gender: Male
Posts: 33
Location: In the hall with the lead piping
I am 30 years boy. After ten years of efforts trying to find social life outside the internet I have given up and I now concentrate on my own things. I am never bored, I have self-imposed daily schedule that I follow rather strictly.
I am occupied by my post-graduate studies (related to int. politics). I listen to music quite much (classical, modern classical, fusion, jazz, demoscene music etc.). I can also play some instruments and I occasionally make tracker music for my own amusement. My daily biking trips are my physical exercise though on Sundays I also run a bit (record being 20 km in 1:45h). Though I'm now into social sciences, I started with philosophy which is still one of my main interests (I am currently reading "The Rediscovery of the Mind"). I study French & Spanish all by myself (too difficult to follow teaching on classes). My goal is to master them.
Last year I started fighting against my ADD by trying different drugs. If I could find something which works I could probably study much more effectively.
I have had two not-very-long affairs. I need so much time for myself that it makes me doubt whether relationships are possible for me in the future. I am also doubtful whether I can respect enough anybody who is not rather deeply into philosophy or social research (...well, I also adore commitment to other sciences though). I also cannot stand people who are able to get angry to their companions (let's say, more than once in a year). Disagreements and other issues should be approached calmly - like problems in general.
I am 172 cm tall with an average body, I have fair brown hair & ponytail, I am vegetarian (99% vegan), teetotaler (in practice rather than in principle), a new born atheist, gnu-linux advocate, social democrat or welfare liberalist (but dreaming about libertarian-ecosocialism).
You may contact me if you feel so (though I am not looking for pen pals unless I really get interested in you)
I'm Jamie. I have long brown hair and brown eyes. I'm 18 I am a musician and skateboarder I love comedy, music, guns and gaming. My favourite films are the Jackass series, Grown Ups, Saving Private Ryan, The Last Samurai, Happy Gilmore, the Naruto Shippuden movies and the Viewaskenwinverse films directed by Kevin Smith such as Mallrats, Clerks, Clerks 2 Jay And Silent Bob Strike back and the unfortunately short lived Clerks animated series.
I am a very avid listener of music and spend the miagority of my day listening to rock, punk, metal and occasionally blues I am currently studying interactive media which is photography, graphic design, low level business studies and forms of animation such as stop motion, flash and 3D but I am unsure of what career I would like to take as I believe do not have any outstanding talents. My favourite bands are Five Finger Death Punch, Mnemic and Shadows Fall.
My musical heroes are Zoltan Bathory, Corey Taylor, Mark Morton, Adam Dutkiewicz, Jesse Leach and Mircea Gabriel Eftemie. I am currently the drummer in a band called Indirect Circle a band made up of me and some freinds from school and we have written around eight original songs which kind of suck but we don't care, I also play guitar I currently own a Jackson DXMG with EMG-45 pickups. I hope to attend a weekend at the download music festival this or next year depending on if I can get the money to do so as the whole costs come out to around five hundred pounds and that is not easy to come by for me as all of the money I do get goes onto food.
My favourite songs to play are Slipknot's Vermillion part 2, Five Finger Death Punch The bleeding, Rage Against The Machine Killing In The Name and Frank Klepacki's Hell March 2 also known as the main theme song from Command And Conquer: Red Alert 2.
My favourite cars are The 1969 Ford mustang so basically the GT-500, the Fastback and the Boss, the Dodge Challenger B-body and the 1964 1/2 Ford Mustang and my favourite motorcycles are the Harley Davidson Knucklehead, the Yamaha Dragstar and the Harley Davidson Dyna.
I've only had one relationship and I don't even know if I should really be calling it a relationship as she was my girlfreind but thinking back on it now I didn't love her my best friends hounded me to go out with her because she liked me that she seemed to be more of a sex object this relationship lasted four weeks, and at the end I was still a virgin which I am actually quite thankful for.
I enjoy swearing I find it cathartic, my favourite alchaholic drink is Jack Daniel's whiskey.I love almost all forms of technology and I am rarely seen without my iPod according to my freinds.
My favourite guns are the AAC Honey badger short barreled rifle with 300 blackout rounds, the Remmington 700 tactical rifle that chambers 5.56mm rounds and the Bushmaster ACR assault rifle. I also used to play paintball for the site that my mother got the job managing but has long since quit that and I have recently been considering getting into airsofting as the guns would also double up as great props for films.
I love animals and currently have five pets, Three birman cats, a blue a tortoishell and a cream and two golden retriever dogs I would love to own an Alaskan Malamute but cannot at the moment as I am still living with my parents which isn't exactly out of the ordinary for my age mind you.
My political standing is that of anarchism, I don't like the governments or religions as they have yet to get anything right in my eyes.
I am currently in love with a girl and have been for the past year and half and we share a couple of intrests but she is a vegetarian which would be a bit of a pain in the ass for me as I am an extremely fussy eater and I love my bacon a bit too much...
My favourite games are APB: Reloaded, Red Dead Redemption, Orcs Must Die!, Starcraft 2 and Star Wars: The Old Republic.
My general preference in girls in terms of looks and general body type is medium length black hair or dyed an interesting colour, slightly shorter than myself maybe like a foot or so shorter average body type maybe some piercings or tattoos, don't like nose rings so much I think they don't really suit girls and similar or if not the same music tastes as myself.
If you want to contact me to chat go ahead, but I don't really want to get committed to anything over the internet as I mentioned I have feelings for a girl who lives in my town anyway, also if you do and don't get a reply please don't get upset as usually things like these tend to slip my mind. I'll try to remember as best I can but I'm approaching the end of this course at college and so I'm under alot of pressure to pass and then join on and do a different course again next year.
Hello My name is Shawn.
Im 15 and according to the Urban Dictionary, my last name Landon i am:
"The best guy you could ever meet. He always knows just what to say to absolutely melt your heart. Usually quite handsome and an excellent musician. He's the funniest guy you know, and always has a warm smile. Landon is very smart, practical, cool, athletic, sweet, and DEFINITELY a gentleman. He won't throw your heart away, and would never expect anything in return. Landon: the perfect man."
And my First Name, Shawn, is:
"An exceptional, deep, intelligent, devoted, and unparalleled animal. He is very severe at times, but also knows when to be foolish. He is an original, provocative, rational, witty, perceptive, arousing, resourceful, creative, loving, seductive, mysterious, heavenly, unusual, attractive, clever, profound, solitary, unequalled, coldhearted individual. He enjoys long days out on a boat, (occasionally catching more fish than he lets get away) and can literally spend days on end playing video games. His amazing sense and ingenuity make him an astounding lover and a respectable cook."
I had to use Urban Dictionary on this one because i have a hard time explaining myself at times (Weird right?). But these are true descriptions of myself.
I also like to spend time outdoors and Fishing and Hunting. Because of this i am a Hardcore Conservationist and strive in protecting the Environment. Any questions, contact me via PM.
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Polar Bear Freak, Collector of Stuffed Animals.
My name is Travis and I'm an alcoholic.
Not really, of course. Maybe I should get that kind of stuff out of the way first. Have had some experience drinking, smoking, and with pot, but have since quit each. Nothing against those who do, just for the sake of my own health. Speaking of, growing up I'd never really watched what I've eaten. My mother has had a similar problem, see we decided the november before last to actually do something about it and try out Atkins, as well as trying to at least walk 5 miles every other day. It's been getting slower and we'll probably start needing to change more about our level of activity and diet, but we're getting there.
As for stuff like hobbies, I like to draw and write stories, both of which I'm trying to get better at in hopes of making some kind of career out of them(while still looking for a job in the meantime), as well as enjoying and giving critique to others' works. Video games are also a big interest in that I view most as works of art, too. I guess you could consider me your average nerd. Music is also nice, though I've given up on trying to be good at it. Maybe someday I could try to compose something decent at least. For the most part I like classic rock, but will listen to other stuff so long as it's not rap or country. Philosophy and history are cool but not a big deal.
I'm not sure I'd be too picky. I'm willing to get to know anyone despite differences...hell, I'd probably be very bored if I got into a discussion with myself. I've seen some make a point about religion, so I guess it would be fair to say I'm an atheist, but personally I don't care much one way or the other. I'd say the only preferences I'd have are a sense of humor and someone who's a bit laid back, but who also aren't afraid to challenge me or telling me I'm wrong, because I probably am most of the time. Not deal breakers, but I feel that those things would make for time better spent for both.
One last thing I guess I should add is that, while I'm not gay, don't be afraid to send me a message anyway. I'm always looking to meet new friends despite gender or sexuality or anything like that. If there's anything you're curious about that I might've left out, feel free to ask, too.
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About suffering they were never wrong,
The Old Masters: how well they understood
Its human position; how it takes place
While someone else is eating or opening a window or
just walking dully along...
Hello, my name is Annetta. I love to draw. I'm decent at it as long as it's abstract. I'm good with colours, shading, and detail. So at least I have gotten about 5 percent of my artistic abilities learned. I'm hoping that school will teach me everything else, and am starting classes spring quarter. I stopped going to school regularly since the sixth grade, and there was nothing my poor single mother could do to keep me there. After being out on my own, and seeing the sort of life I would be destined to live without an education, I returned home with my tail between my legs, and the promise that I'd not only pursue college, but pursue something wonderful and suited to my abilities.
I have four cats and three dogs. Pets are awesome, and the Crazy Cat Lady gene is in my DNA somewhere.
I've just moved back in with my parents, but I plan to be out again after I get my first degree.
I miss Seattle dearly.
I enjoy thinking and drinking. (Vodka tonic, please and thanks.) The majority of my days are dedicated to thinking. Thinking about the past, about the future, about what it would be like to be this or that, morality, the lack of, and anything and everything remotely selfish.
I am insanely intuitive about people, but lack the social and verbal skills to do much with it. Some people have told me that they feel like I'm looking into their souls when they talk to me. I think that's rubbish, though. Not because I couldn't look into someone's soul. More because most people don't have them.
I've never had a boyfriend, although I did live with a guy for a few years. We never became close, and he and I eventually had to move on with our lives. I'm not embittered, though. My handsome , wonderful someone will come someday. I believe he will show his face once I've developed myself academically and have more common sense. I. E. life skills.
I'm 23; my favorite colours are light green and brown; I'm 5'5"; I like pizza and chocolate covered cherries, but not together; my favorite book is Seth Speaks by Jane Roberts; my favorite bands are Sleepy Sun and Radiohead; my favorite movie is Fargo; I can't drive yet, though I have a car; my hobbies are drawing, finding new bands to listen to, and hanging out with my cat; I have terrible balance and can't play any sport to save my life; I'm witty and funny; I'm going to do something great with my life... I'm just a work in progress.
So that's me in a nutshell. I don't think I've ever written anything with so many "I's" in it in my whole life.
CrazyStarlightRedux
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Joined: 13 Jan 2012
Age: 35
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,028
Location: Manchester, UK.
Hello, I'm Adrian and I am a Graphic Designer.
My main hobby at the moment is playing in a Steel Orchestra.
I am a 22 Year old Mancunian Male who obtains many Video Games, Films and Music.
I change obsessions and don't really go too deep into them as I used to.
I am a great talker when I trust people and love talking to girls either my age or older (I am used to talking to older Adults or Middle Aged Adults), but do have some issues when talking to guys (I feel they talk down to me sometimes).
I am also a great listener and ask many questions about others interests and lives.
That's about it really...if anyone wants to talk to me, you can always PM me and as long as you don't go onto Tangents about anything too out there I will respond in due time.
I'm Daniel, 23, 6' 4''
I enjoy gaming, piano playing, guitar playing, digital and traditional drawing (cartoony art), gaming, fan fiction writing, weight and cardio training, watching movies and finding humor in everything.
Currently working towards my Multimedia and Internet Technology degree and will most likely end with a 2:2 while working a part time job.
Can't really talk about my personality as I don't really have the right words to describe myself so I'll let you be the judge of that. Seems best to me.
My post count + 1.
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Please, if you are a female don't PM, IM or contact me in anyway. This isn't a joke, I've just simply had enough of all of you.
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