Do you feel unattractive?

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its just called society is too f---ed up to the point people just need to stop reproducing.

Yes society is messed up, but don't let it control your actions

it really isnt even that, it just drives me to the point where sometimes i want to just deny the fact im human anymore. Hmm.... maybe if i save up enough $$$ and cybernetics becomes more available, ill just slowly change myself into a machine that way there is no reason to be part of society.

I have a very hard time imagining how others could find me attractive, despite having seen ample evidence over the years that many of them DO, and despite the amount of effort I've put into improving my appearance. It might sound ridiculous (because I know I'd find it ridiculous if anyone who wasn't severely deformed said this to me), but I put effort into keeping up my appearance solely so I won't repulse people. While I am certainly left-of-centre style-wise, so far as my basic appearance is concerned, if I can pull 'average', I consider that a big step up from where I started.

I think Im reasonably attractive but mentally it can get kinda ugly hahaha

Same here....decent-looking by others' standards, but by the same people's standards, crazy as a bed bug.

I forgot to add, I feel mentally attractive but have the attitude that if people don't like my interests and find me odd, that's their problem not mine....maybe I'm a little egocentric which may come off as unappealing though.

Now intellectually, I really do feel unattractive....

I think we all(myself included) need to realize that we're only unattractive to those who aren't attracted to our type. Yes, some of us attract a wider spectrum of people, but all of us attract some. And, there's things you can do to increase your "attraction factor", but not by a wide margin. We are only unattractive, when we're trying to attract the wrong type.



And yes, I am being a self-proclaimed "love guru" tonight.

^Haha..good point Jawbrodt.

I think I tend to aspire to the really ridiculous ideals in which are unrealistic. I really am my own worst enemy and tend to take criticism from what I see as perfect...harsh....

I'm not even sure what makes anyone attractive since it really does depend on the eye of the beholder. I've found myself attracted to people that weren't ideally attractive to a woman's standard....or for the most part, women disagreeing with me.

I don't find myself 'Physically attractive' or 'Emotionally attractive.'
I like how i am 'Mentally' though.

I view myself as physically attractive, but apparently, my sister and some of my friends don't.
I get told about how boring my hair is, how unfashionable I am, and that I don't dress sexy enough. (One of the only things I've ever been complimented on is my jewelery.) Also, other people tell me that I slouch my back over and carry myself with my head down. Lately, though, I have been trying to be aware of my own body, so hopefully this is getting better.
No one says anything about me being emotionally/psychologically unattractive, though.

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I can't get any girl to like me...so yes, I do feel unattractive.

Tim (aka the Slipperman)

Physically, I wouldn't say that I'm unattractive, just sort of ordinary, I guess. I have good days and bad days, like everyone else. Now, my personality would take someone with a lot of patience and inner strength to manage. I'm well aware that I'm not easy to live with.

Regards,

Patricia

Yes. In every aspect of my being.

Ohh yes, sometimes i feel like im about to vomit when i see it, i often go with a self-cut mask that only shows my eyes and mouth.