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What age
Under 14 7%  7%  [ 20 ]
14-16 10%  10%  [ 28 ]
16-18 19%  19%  [ 57 ]
18-20 21%  21%  [ 63 ]
20-22 13%  13%  [ 39 ]
22-24 10%  10%  [ 28 ]
24-26 6%  6%  [ 17 ]
26-28 4%  4%  [ 11 ]
Above 28 11%  11%  [ 31 ]
Total votes : 294

Adam82
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14 Sep 2011, 6:40 pm

Bloviater wrote:
21.

A late, late bloomer I know but that's life. What sucks is that I'm in my sexual prime, 25, and haven't been laid in roughly two years. Perhaps it wouldn't be an issue if I had a low libido but that isn't the case.

And some folks wonder why I'm hostile at times... :P


21 late bloomer? Gee, I'm in worse trouble than I thought 8O



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16 Sep 2011, 7:36 pm

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16 Sep 2011, 7:49 pm

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How can you lose your virginity under 14 WTF? At that age your body isn't ready for sex yet!!


You can if you're raped or if an older boy takes a fancy to you. Plus some 13-year-olds are very early bloomers. Sex with a 13-year-old is legal in Spain if the parents don't file a complaint.



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16 Sep 2011, 7:49 pm

Oh, and did I mention I still had my V-plates on?



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16 Sep 2011, 8:08 pm

20.


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16 Sep 2011, 9:01 pm

Chummy wrote:
How can you lose your virginity under 14 WTF? At that age your body isn't ready for sex yet!!

lol i lost mine at 12.



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20 Sep 2011, 12:14 pm

Chummy wrote:
How can you lose your virginity under 14 WTF? At that age your body isn't ready for sex yet!!

its very possible to do that



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21 Sep 2011, 3:40 pm

Adam82 wrote:
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I'm still a virgin & PISSED over still being a virgin. :evil:


I'm eight years older than you, and still a virgin. I haven't even kissed a girl.


Hey Adam, we're in the same boat together because
I haven't "properly" kissed a girl either! :lol:


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21 Sep 2011, 3:59 pm

14 or 15. I like to blame it on the girl. I didn't know what I was doing and she did.



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22 Sep 2011, 6:18 pm

I'm still a virgin.
Almost lost it to a girl when I was 17 but didn't want to do much with her because I was in madly in love with a girl who would barely give me the time of day. I swear I was such a ret*d becuase this girl I was in love with was 2 yrs younger then me and the girl who wanted sex pretty bad was my age had bigger tits but for some reason I thought they were too big. I must be really gay lmfao.



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23 Sep 2011, 12:57 am

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I'm still a virgin.
Almost lost it to a girl when I was 17 but didn't want to do much with her because I was in madly in love with a girl who would barely give me the time of day. I swear I was such a ret*d becuase this girl I was in love with was 2 yrs younger then me and the girl who wanted sex pretty bad was my age had bigger tits but for some reason I thought they were too big. I must be really gay lmfao.


I still am a virgin, too. A girl asked me out last year, but there was another I was madly in love with, so I didn't bother with her.



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23 Sep 2011, 4:27 am

MADDuck wrote:
WOW.
I didn't really lose mine, I know exactly where it is! :D

My first was with a friend of a friend.

It was pity sex, like there's any other kind, right?
I don't think I could do the pity sex thing it would just end up hurting me more..



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25 Sep 2011, 4:53 pm

I'm 24 and still a virgin.



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26 Sep 2011, 3:57 am

15. Me and a couple friends were hanging out with a couple girls who (how do I say they were kinda skanky without sounding like a dick?) had bad reputations (not that I cared in the least bit, and if they were skanky then, by extension, so was I). We were talking about sex, and I was the only guy who admitted not having done it yet. One of them said "Want to?" She'd never been with a virgin before, wanted to give it a shot.

I believed the other guys about their experience at the time. Now, looking back at it, I'm pretty sure that they were lying.


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26 Sep 2011, 1:57 pm

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15. Me and a couple friends were hanging out with a couple girls who (how do I say they were kinda skanky without sounding like a dick?) had bad reputations (not that I cared in the least bit, and if they were skanky then, by extension, so was I). We were talking about sex, and I was the only guy who admitted not having done it yet. One of them said "Want to?" She'd never been with a virgin before, wanted to give it a shot.

I believed the other guys about their experience at the time. Now, looking back at it, I'm pretty sure that they were lying.

so i know that you were trying to put it nicely, but this reallllllly nicely illustrates why a lot of women would not be keen on pandabear's idea of providing pity sex or just sleeping with a guy to take care of his virginity like that girl did for you...

yes, you said that you were also technically skanky, but nobody cares if a guy is skanky. i don't want to sound all 1950s here, but a girl who sleeps around with whoever she feels like, whenever she fells like, gets labeled in a negative way. a guy who does that gets labeled in a positive way (MOST of the time).

not attacking you, just pointing out that your post is a very good illustration of ONE reason why it can be hard for a guy to convince a girl to have sex with no strings attached... it follows her around like a bad smell and people tend not to respect her. i would like this to change, but as long as we keep labeling girls as "skanky" or "slu*ty" or "easy", it's not going to happen (it'll take more than changing the words to change the attitudes of course, as it's just a symptom of a bigger problem).


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26 Sep 2011, 2:10 pm

I was late myself.

Sometime in my twenties. Can't say what age. Am I supposed to keep a scorecard or something?