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30 Jul 2010, 4:07 pm

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Why is living with parents always a deal breaker for some people? What happens if there is a valid reason for doing so?


I can understand people living with their parents for many reasons - economy being shyte is one of them..
But if the parents are dead, yet the house looks like they still 'live' there, that is kinda weird even by my standards - I say this for a reason - it didn't last long
Also, it kind of cuts down on the ability to go back to 'their place'
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30 Jul 2010, 4:27 pm

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30 Jul 2010, 5:06 pm

I similarly object to "he/she has to have a car". Many of us choose not to have cars or have disabilities that keep us from being able to drive. I won't own a car because I can't morally justify it. Car ownership has nothing to do with maturity or adulthood.



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30 Jul 2010, 6:09 pm

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I know I shouldn't, that it really is cruel comparing a male Silverback Gorilla
to an alpha human male..
The Silverback Gorilla is an amazing animal,
but try as I might, I still picture so called alpha males like that (maybe different clothing depending on the alpha in question)

So, yea probably the only way I am cruel to animals :cry:


That's very funny. You're saying that comparing an alpha male to a silverback is cruel to the gorilla?



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30 Jul 2010, 7:50 pm

Didacticity wrote:
Surya wrote:
I know I shouldn't, that it really is cruel comparing a male Silverback Gorilla
to an alpha human male..
The Silverback Gorilla is an amazing animal,
but try as I might, I still picture so called alpha males like that (maybe different clothing depending on the alpha in question)

So, yea probably the only way I am cruel to animals :cry:


That's very funny. You're saying that comparing an alpha male to a silverback is cruel to the gorilla?


Yes..
when I see anyone say 'ohh those Alpha males.." " or "women only go for Alpha Males"
or someone says 'check out that guy' 10 times out of 10 they are an 'alpha' male..

I see a Silverback.. you know, grunting groaning, beating their chest, walking kind of strutting like while knuckles forward and dragging on the ground
wearing human male alpha clothing.. sometimes hair 8O

Ok.. picture a silverback gorilla - now imagine it with the hair of the guy.. umm had to google the guys name.. Trump
Do you see it?

Now, is that not cruel to the gorilla?

But I cannot stop myself from doing it



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30 Jul 2010, 7:53 pm

Surya wrote:
Didacticity wrote:
Surya wrote:
I know I shouldn't, that it really is cruel comparing a male Silverback Gorilla
to an alpha human male..
The Silverback Gorilla is an amazing animal,
but try as I might, I still picture so called alpha males like that (maybe different clothing depending on the alpha in question)

So, yea probably the only way I am cruel to animals :cry:


That's very funny. You're saying that comparing an alpha male to a silverback is cruel to the gorilla?


Yes..
when I see anyone say 'ohh those Alpha males.." " or "women only go for Alpha Males"
or someone says 'check out that guy' 10 times out of 10 they are an 'alpha' male..

I see a Silverback.. you know, grunting groaning, beating their chest, walking kind of strutting like while knuckles forward and dragging on the ground
wearing human male alpha clothing.. sometimes hair 8O

Ok.. picture a silverback gorilla - now imagine it with the hair of the guy.. umm had to google the guys name.. Trump
Do you see it?

Now, is that not cruel to the gorilla?

But I cannot stop myself from doing it


THere;s a cigarette brand called Surya, and I love those, so I must love you too./



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30 Jul 2010, 7:56 pm

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THere;s a cigarette brand called Surya, and I love those, so I must love you too./


Really? What do they taste like?
must is such a strong word...



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30 Jul 2010, 8:01 pm

Surya wrote:
Bugzee wrote:

THere;s a cigarette brand called Surya, and I love those, so I must love you too./


Really? What do they taste like?
must is such a strong word...


Very, very good, but there very strong. It is a Nepali blend of tobacco and I think Surya can only be found in Nepal.



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30 Jul 2010, 8:25 pm

Bugzee wrote:
Surya wrote:
Bugzee wrote:

THere;s a cigarette brand called Surya, and I love those, so I must love you too./


Really? What do they taste like?
must is such a strong word...


Very, very good, but there very strong. It is a Nepali blend of tobacco and I think Surya can only be found in Nepal.


But no extra stuff added to them?
Like clove flavoured ciggs.. can't stand them..



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30 Jul 2010, 8:31 pm

Surya wrote:
Ok.. picture a silverback gorilla - now imagine it with the hair of the guy.. umm had to google the guys name.. Trump
Do you see it?

Now, is that not cruel to the gorilla?

But I cannot stop myself from doing it


There's nothing wrong with thinking that. You should hear the kinds of things guys like that say when there are only other guys around.



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30 Jul 2010, 9:00 pm

Didacticity wrote:
Surya wrote:
Ok.. picture a silverback gorilla - now imagine it with the hair of the guy.. umm had to google the guys name.. Trump
Do you see it?

Now, is that not cruel to the gorilla?

But I cannot stop myself from doing it


There's nothing wrong with thinking that. You should hear the kinds of things guys like that say when there are only other guys around.


I don't think there is anything wrong with comparing the guys like that to Silverbacks..
I just think it is unfair to the gorillas.

I know what kinds of things they can say - have heard it.. most my life I have been just one-of-the-guys..
and as a child, many times I was sent with the ffather(s), instead of going with the fmother(s) and other girls
probably has something to do with my repulsion of them..



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30 Jul 2010, 9:54 pm

Surya wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
Surya wrote:
Bugzee wrote:

THere;s a cigarette brand called Surya, and I love those, so I must love you too./


Really? What do they taste like?
must is such a strong word...


Very, very good, but there very strong. It is a Nepali blend of tobacco and I think Surya can only be found in Nepal.


But no extra stuff added to them?
Like clove flavoured ciggs.. can't stand them..


I don't think so; they're just normal cigarettes.



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31 Jul 2010, 3:23 am

I'm allergic to cigarette smoke, so I add to my list: smokers.



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01 Aug 2010, 2:43 pm

Has a car


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01 Aug 2010, 3:10 pm

Jono wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Selfish
inconsiderate
not loving
lives with parents
unsuccessful/jobless
arrogant
has kids
ignorant about the world and universe
Athiest
uninteresting


Why is living with parents always a deal breaker for some people? What happens if there is a valid reason for doing so?


Women only consider that a turn off because it means the guy hasn't got much money which then in turn means he can't spoil the girl rotten and then she can't dream about the idea of him giving her an easy life and handing everything to her on a plate etc.

You get the idea.

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I similarly object to "he/she has to have a car". Many of us choose not to have cars or have disabilities that keep us from being able to drive. I won't own a car because I can't morally justify it. Car ownership has nothing to do with maturity or adulthood.


See answer to previous question.


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01 Aug 2010, 11:00 pm

Daemonic-Jackal wrote:
Jono wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Selfish

lives with parents

Why is living with parents always a deal breaker for some people? What happens if there is a valid reason for doing so?


Women only consider that a turn off because it means the guy hasn't got much money which then in turn means he can't spoil the girl rotten and then she can't dream about the idea of him giving her an easy life and handing everything to her on a plate etc.

You get the idea.


ummmm no. do you find it necessary to make these kind of assumptions about women because then you can categorize something you don't understand? some women like for men to be living independently so that.... they can prove they are *able* to live independently. for some women (AND MEN) this is very important.

i keep reading over and over on the boards how women only care about men's money, like you have essentially said once again in this thread. that is patently untrue, and unfair to the masses and masses of women who did not fit into that category at all. for several years i was the major breadwinner in my house, and my husband stayed at home caring for our child, off and on, due to circumstances out of our control.

your generalization makes no sense at all in the real world. women on here continue to prove you wrong over and over again - the vast majority are not money-hungry females, but that is the nature of prejudicial statements - they are not changeable in a person's mind even when proven wrong.

[edited for spelling. sheesh]