Why do guys hate fat chicks?

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Would you date someone fatter than you?
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12 Jul 2010, 4:20 pm

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Yeah, its kinda been weird that I have been very much less confrontational lately on these forums, so yeah I dunno. So yeah Erisad, I normally am not as Amicable and friendly as I have been when trying to give ya advice today. It is wearing thin though mostly because of Bugzee, the reasons are obvious. If someone genuinely wants help you shouldnt just be an as*hole and rip them to shreds entirely. Your just gonna make said individual feel how much worse which knowing from my experience with AS can cause people to simply withdraw and become totally inactive, or even harm themselves. So really Bugzee, I suggest you tone it the f**k down. I dont need to be an ass right now but I can, especiallly when someone tells you to lay the f**k off but your too ignorant to.


Hmm, interesting how people freak out when they hear opinions they don't like. I love it.

But seriously, isn't it a bit hypocritical that Erisad is calling everyone "shallow". Look at her response to what I said I had witnessed about the third world. Now there's shallow thinking.


Wow? really? I can definitely say the same about you as well. And she isn't calling EVERYONE shallow if she had been, she would have been saying sh** like 'All men are shallow' or 'EVERYONE is shallow'. Learn to f***ing read or don't post at all.


And saying she hasn't met a black guy she's ever liked isn't shallow. Why don't you learn to read.



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12 Jul 2010, 4:21 pm

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Wow seriously, and you have the nerve to call others shallow. That's probably one of the shallowest things I've ever heard.


Well excuse me princess. Seriously, quit playing the race card. It's outdated.


I'm not black, you moron. And how am I playing the race card???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????


Well, then your profile pic is misleading. :/

You're playing it because you're criticizing me because I had the nerve to say that I never had the hots for a black guy. Sorry for confusing you.


What does my display picture have to do with anything?

My god your ret*d. How does me calling you out on not having an attraction for one sub-group of datable men giv e you an excuse to belly-ache about no one wanting to date your racist fatass?


Because the picture looks like a black person with some sort of bendy red wire neck. I don't know. It's kinda small. >.<

Maybe I should go into the inner city and let ALL the blacks gang-bang me just so you will think better of me. D:

Yeah right.



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12 Jul 2010, 4:21 pm

Bugzee wrote:
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Wow seriously, and you have the nerve to call others shallow. That's probably one of the shallowest things I've ever heard.


Well excuse me princess. Seriously, quit playing the race card. It's outdated.


I'm not black, you moron. And how am I playing the race card???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????


Well, then your profile pic is misleading. :/

You're playing it because you're criticizing me because I had the nerve to say that I never had the hots for a black guy. Sorry for confusing you.


What does my display picture have to do with anything?

My god your ret*d. How does me calling you out on not having an attraction for one sub-group of datable men giv e you an excuse to belly-ache about no one wanting to date your racist fatass?


And now your throwing around insults eh? My how big your Cajones are.


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12 Jul 2010, 4:22 pm

Erisad wrote:
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Wow seriously, and you have the nerve to call others shallow. That's probably one of the shallowest things I've ever heard.


Well excuse me princess. Seriously, quit playing the race card. It's outdated.


I'm not black, you moron. And how am I playing the race card???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????


Well, then your profile pic is misleading. :/

You're playing it because you're criticizing me because I had the nerve to say that I never had the hots for a black guy. Sorry for confusing you.


What does my display picture have to do with anything?

My god your ret*d. How does me calling you out on not having an attraction for one sub-group of datable men giv e you an excuse to belly-ache about no one wanting to date your racist fatass?


Because the picture looks like a black person with some sort of bendy red wire neck. I don't know. It's kinda small. >.<

Maybe I should go into the inner city and let ALL the blacks gang-bang me just so you will think better of me. D:

Yeah right.


Yeah because Alex had all those black gang-bangers in mind when he made up that avatar.



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12 Jul 2010, 4:22 pm

DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
Erisad wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
Erisad wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
Wow seriously, and you have the nerve to call others shallow. That's probably one of the shallowest things I've ever heard.


Well excuse me princess. Seriously, quit playing the race card. It's outdated.


I'm not black, you moron. And how am I playing the race card???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????


Well, then your profile pic is misleading. :/

You're playing it because you're criticizing me because I had the nerve to say that I never had the hots for a black guy. Sorry for confusing you.


What does my display picture have to do with anything?

My god your ret*d. How does me calling you out on not having an attraction for one sub-group of datable men giv e you an excuse to belly-ache about no one wanting to date your racist fatass?


And now your throwing around insults eh? My how big your Cajones are.


Ok????????????



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12 Jul 2010, 4:23 pm

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Yeah, its kinda been weird that I have been very much less confrontational lately on these forums, so yeah I dunno. So yeah Erisad, I normally am not as Amicable and friendly as I have been when trying to give ya advice today. It is wearing thin though mostly because of Bugzee, the reasons are obvious. If someone genuinely wants help you shouldnt just be an as*hole and rip them to shreds entirely. Your just gonna make said individual feel how much worse which knowing from my experience with AS can cause people to simply withdraw and become totally inactive, or even harm themselves. So really Bugzee, I suggest you tone it the f**k down. I dont need to be an ass right now but I can, especiallly when someone tells you to lay the f**k off but your too ignorant to.


Hmm, interesting how people freak out when they hear opinions they don't like. I love it.

But seriously, isn't it a bit hypocritical that Erisad is calling everyone "shallow". Look at her response to what I said I had witnessed about the third world. Now there's shallow thinking.


Wow? really? I can definitely say the same about you as well. And she isn't calling EVERYONE shallow if she had been, she would have been saying sh** like 'All men are shallow' or 'EVERYONE is shallow'. Learn to f***ing read or don't post at all.


And saying she hasn't met a black guy she's ever liked isn't shallow. Why don't you learn to read.


Wow you think everyone has to be attracted to african americans? Why not give them some respect, you dont have to be attracted to them as long as your not called them n****** every time you see one.


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12 Jul 2010, 4:23 pm

Have you tried Weight Watchers? I'm not trying to be mean - it's the one thing that I have found that consistently works, as long as you follow the plan.
Really, you should be eating more, not less. You mentioned that you eat so little that you are hungry between meals. You need to try and eat smaller meals, and try for 6 small meals (pairing protein with whole grain carbs/fiber and high water/fiber content fruit and veggies). This will keep you full. I lost 30 lbs in 12 weeks earlier this year by doing Weight Watchers. And, I didn't really exercise - at least nothing formal. I did try to walk more and be more active in general, but I didn't do any hardcore gym workouts. WW also allows treats - they just have to be in moderation, and figured into your overall totals (they use a Point system). That way, you don't feel deprived. If you restrict yourself too much, pretty soon you're going to crash.
And, above all, find a better Dr. You should be checked for thyroid problems, insulin resistance/diabetes and possibly sleep apnea (yes, sleep apnea - overweight people have issues with it!). I have it, did all the tests/sleep studies and have to use a lovely CPAP (positive airflow breathing machine) at night- it looks like hell, but I sleep so much better. It's so hard to lose weight if you are tired/not getting enough sleep or not getting good sleep.
Good luck - and not everyone out there is a shallow pig.........it takes all types!



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12 Jul 2010, 4:24 pm

DemonAbyss10 wrote:
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Yeah, its kinda been weird that I have been very much less confrontational lately on these forums, so yeah I dunno. So yeah Erisad, I normally am not as Amicable and friendly as I have been when trying to give ya advice today. It is wearing thin though mostly because of Bugzee, the reasons are obvious. If someone genuinely wants help you shouldnt just be an as*hole and rip them to shreds entirely. Your just gonna make said individual feel how much worse which knowing from my experience with AS can cause people to simply withdraw and become totally inactive, or even harm themselves. So really Bugzee, I suggest you tone it the f**k down. I dont need to be an ass right now but I can, especiallly when someone tells you to lay the f**k off but your too ignorant to.


Hmm, interesting how people freak out when they hear opinions they don't like. I love it.

But seriously, isn't it a bit hypocritical that Erisad is calling everyone "shallow". Look at her response to what I said I had witnessed about the third world. Now there's shallow thinking.


Wow? really? I can definitely say the same about you as well. And she isn't calling EVERYONE shallow if she had been, she would have been saying sh** like 'All men are shallow' or 'EVERYONE is shallow'. Learn to f***ing read or don't post at all.


And saying she hasn't met a black guy she's ever liked isn't shallow. Why don't you learn to read.


Wow you think everyone has to be attracted to african americans? Why not give them some respect, you dont have to be attracted to them as long as your not called them n****** every time you see one.


That;s not what I am saying at all. Everyone has there preferences. I don't get why this girl is belly-aching about guys not having preferences to date fat girls when she has her own preferences. Just calling her out on that.



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12 Jul 2010, 4:24 pm

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How do I put someone on ignore or stop them from posting because he's apparently too stupid to understand what everyone's telling him. :/


Looks like you can only do it if you've got firefox and the greasemonkey addon :/ Can't believe there's no ignore function on this site. It's just plain stupid.

Anyway, if anyone's got firefox the instructions are at http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp688875.html#688875


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12 Jul 2010, 4:25 pm

Not being attracted to people of a certain race isn't racist, it's just preference. Different people are attracted to different things. You seriously think you need to be politically correct to that extreme?


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12 Jul 2010, 4:26 pm

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Not being attracted to people of a certain race isn't racist, it's just preference. Different people are attracted to different things. You seriously think you need to be politically correct to that extreme?


Again read my posts. :roll:

Does no one here on this site know how to read.

I am just calling her out on her belly-aching about people not having preferences to date fat girls when she, too, has preferences as well.

And accusing all blacks of being gang-banger is indeed racist, preference or not.



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12 Jul 2010, 4:28 pm

You two should hook up



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12 Jul 2010, 4:30 pm

Bugzee wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Yeah, its kinda been weird that I have been very much less confrontational lately on these forums, so yeah I dunno. So yeah Erisad, I normally am not as Amicable and friendly as I have been when trying to give ya advice today. It is wearing thin though mostly because of Bugzee, the reasons are obvious. If someone genuinely wants help you shouldnt just be an as*hole and rip them to shreds entirely. Your just gonna make said individual feel how much worse which knowing from my experience with AS can cause people to simply withdraw and become totally inactive, or even harm themselves. So really Bugzee, I suggest you tone it the f**k down. I dont need to be an ass right now but I can, especiallly when someone tells you to lay the f**k off but your too ignorant to.


Hmm, interesting how people freak out when they hear opinions they don't like. I love it.

But seriously, isn't it a bit hypocritical that Erisad is calling everyone "shallow". Look at her response to what I said I had witnessed about the third world. Now there's shallow thinking.


Wow? really? I can definitely say the same about you as well. And she isn't calling EVERYONE shallow if she had been, she would have been saying sh** like 'All men are shallow' or 'EVERYONE is shallow'. Learn to f***ing read or don't post at all.


And saying she hasn't met a black guy she's ever liked isn't shallow. Why don't you learn to read.


Wow you think everyone has to be attracted to african americans? Why not give them some respect, you dont have to be attracted to them as long as your not called them n****** every time you see one.


That;s not what I am saying at all. Everyone has there preferences. I don't get why this girl is belly-aching about guys not having preferences to date fat girls when she has her own preferences. Just calling her out on that.


You could have been at least a little more respectful about it instead of going for a total beatdown over it. Thats what was really getting to me. Ive at least tried to say some productive things that could help her. it is up to her whether to actually listen to them or not. Trust me. Not everyone thinks the same, nor they should. variety is needed for a balanced society. Maybe the fact she is bellyaching right now is because of the fact that hostile comments towards her just cause her to have a meltdown and withdraw in a way. Remember, it is a forum for those with ASDs after all. Gotta try to make people as "comfortable" as we can for them, and constantly beating back at an individual who wants help just makes things worse.


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12 Jul 2010, 4:32 pm

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How do I put someone on ignore or stop them from posting because he's apparently too stupid to understand what everyone's telling him. :/


Not everyone is telling him though, stop trying to speak for all of us. I actually think he is right.


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12 Jul 2010, 4:35 pm

DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Yeah, its kinda been weird that I have been very much less confrontational lately on these forums, so yeah I dunno. So yeah Erisad, I normally am not as Amicable and friendly as I have been when trying to give ya advice today. It is wearing thin though mostly because of Bugzee, the reasons are obvious. If someone genuinely wants help you shouldnt just be an as*hole and rip them to shreds entirely. Your just gonna make said individual feel how much worse which knowing from my experience with AS can cause people to simply withdraw and become totally inactive, or even harm themselves. So really Bugzee, I suggest you tone it the f**k down. I dont need to be an ass right now but I can, especiallly when someone tells you to lay the f**k off but your too ignorant to.


Hmm, interesting how people freak out when they hear opinions they don't like. I love it.

But seriously, isn't it a bit hypocritical that Erisad is calling everyone "shallow". Look at her response to what I said I had witnessed about the third world. Now there's shallow thinking.


Wow? really? I can definitely say the same about you as well. And she isn't calling EVERYONE shallow if she had been, she would have been saying sh** like 'All men are shallow' or 'EVERYONE is shallow'. Learn to f***ing read or don't post at all.


And saying she hasn't met a black guy she's ever liked isn't shallow. Why don't you learn to read.


Wow you think everyone has to be attracted to african americans? Why not give them some respect, you dont have to be attracted to them as long as your not called them n****** every time you see one.


That;s not what I am saying at all. Everyone has there preferences. I don't get why this girl is belly-aching about guys not having preferences to date fat girls when she has her own preferences. Just calling her out on that.


You could have been at least a little more respectful about it instead of going for a total beatdown over it. Thats what was really getting to me. Ive at least tried to say some productive things that could help her. it is up to her whether to actually listen to them or not. Trust me. Not everyone thinks the same, nor they should. variety is needed for a balanced society. Maybe the fact she is bellyaching right now is because of the fact that hostile comments towards her just cause her to have a meltdown and withdraw in a way. Remember, it is a forum for those with ASDs after all. Gotta try to make people as "comfortable" as we can for them, and constantly beating back at an individual who wants help just makes things worse.


True. But I read through her earlier comments before I posted and she needed to be called out. That's all. I am not going to apologize for that, but I've said my piece. Your right, its up to her to follow the advice she's recieved or not, though I strongly doubt she will.



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12 Jul 2010, 4:51 pm

Bugzee wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Bugzee wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
Yeah, its kinda been weird that I have been very much less confrontational lately on these forums, so yeah I dunno. So yeah Erisad, I normally am not as Amicable and friendly as I have been when trying to give ya advice today. It is wearing thin though mostly because of Bugzee, the reasons are obvious. If someone genuinely wants help you shouldnt just be an as*hole and rip them to shreds entirely. Your just gonna make said individual feel how much worse which knowing from my experience with AS can cause people to simply withdraw and become totally inactive, or even harm themselves. So really Bugzee, I suggest you tone it the f**k down. I dont need to be an ass right now but I can, especiallly when someone tells you to lay the f**k off but your too ignorant to.


Hmm, interesting how people freak out when they hear opinions they don't like. I love it.

But seriously, isn't it a bit hypocritical that Erisad is calling everyone "shallow". Look at her response to what I said I had witnessed about the third world. Now there's shallow thinking.


Wow? really? I can definitely say the same about you as well. And she isn't calling EVERYONE shallow if she had been, she would have been saying sh** like 'All men are shallow' or 'EVERYONE is shallow'. Learn to f***ing read or don't post at all.


And saying she hasn't met a black guy she's ever liked isn't shallow. Why don't you learn to read.


Wow you think everyone has to be attracted to african americans? Why not give them some respect, you dont have to be attracted to them as long as your not called them n****** every time you see one.


That;s not what I am saying at all. Everyone has there preferences. I don't get why this girl is belly-aching about guys not having preferences to date fat girls when she has her own preferences. Just calling her out on that.


You could have been at least a little more respectful about it instead of going for a total beatdown over it. Thats what was really getting to me. Ive at least tried to say some productive things that could help her. it is up to her whether to actually listen to them or not. Trust me. Not everyone thinks the same, nor they should. variety is needed for a balanced society. Maybe the fact she is bellyaching right now is because of the fact that hostile comments towards her just cause her to have a meltdown and withdraw in a way. Remember, it is a forum for those with ASDs after all. Gotta try to make people as "comfortable" as we can for them, and constantly beating back at an individual who wants help just makes things worse.


True. But I read through her earlier comments before I posted and she needed to be called out. That's all. I am not going to apologize for that, but I've said my piece. Your right, its up to her to follow the advice she's recieved or not, though I strongly doubt she will.


The thing is though constantly harping about it over and over again just causes problems. The best thing to do is to just point it out once. If they notice they notice, if they don't they don't. After that its just best to leave it alone because there is absolutely no point in beating around a dead horse.


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