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19 Dec 2010, 6:57 pm

Volodja wrote:

Gotta admit I do look at the photos first and if I don't find her physically attractive then I won't bother reading. Physical attractiveness is the quickest and easiest way to eliminate someone, because you can see straight away. Personality requires reading through the profile/getting to know them.

I am gimmikk on okcupid btw, if anyone's interested

Oh and don't bother telling me my photo is bad - I'm not really using the site anymore but left the profile up anyway, so I'm ok with my picture not exactly attracting teh ladiez

Well your 78% match. For the record

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19 Dec 2010, 7:10 pm

Laz wrote:

Volodja wrote:

Well your 78% match. For the record

75% here, he's all yours... :wink:

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19 Dec 2010, 7:11 pm

Grisha wrote:

Laz wrote:

Volodja wrote:

Well your 78% match. For the record

75% here, he's all yours... :wink:

Im in a generous mood, how about a spitroast? :twisted:

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19 Dec 2010, 7:58 pm

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for people that have messaged others on OKCupid, what is the lowest match % you would consider for a potential mate?

I've messaged people in the 60's and 70's. I'm most interested in a well-written, thought out, non-generic profile, much more so than the questions. It's surprisingly rare to find originality, in my opinion.

Along with that, I should feel at least some attraction to the pictures. If they seem worth getting to know as a friend, I'll message - have had some nice conversations but never leads to anything. I don't think I've ever come across anyone who I instantly think, "potential mate."

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19 Dec 2010, 9:00 pm

hyperlexian, here's mine for your husband:
68% Match
73% Friend
31% Enemy

Laz's ex:
53% Match
76% Friend
31% Enemy

Laz:
68% Match
76% Friend
28% Enemy

I'm slinky_inky if anyone wants to see - I don't have anything loaded on my profile, though. I just answered questions to see what my percentages would be with you all. This is addictive. I'm sucking at finding all your usernames in the thread though.

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19 Dec 2010, 9:05 pm

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hyperlexian, here's mine for your husband:
68% Match
73% Friend
31% Enemy

Laz's ex:
53% Match
76% Friend
31% Enemy

oh oh OH check out mine!! !! my username is thisbegins

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19 Dec 2010, 9:07 pm

sorry I just edited while you were typing, hyperlexian.

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19 Dec 2010, 9:09 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

happymusic wrote:

hyperlexian, here's mine for your husband:
68% Match
73% Friend
31% Enemy

Laz's ex:
53% Match
76% Friend
31% Enemy

oh oh OH check out mine!! !! my username is thisbegins

Hehehe:
73% Match = great minds
73% Friend
24% Enemy = passion

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19 Dec 2010, 10:27 pm

greenturtle74 wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

for people that have messaged others on OKCupid, what is the lowest match % you would consider for a potential mate?

so.... i checked out our match%...

0% Match / 42% Friend / 56% Enemy

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19 Dec 2010, 10:30 pm

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and we are:

17% Match / 61% Friend / 38% Enemy

jiminy cricket.

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20 Dec 2010, 2:48 am

volodja
64% Match
55% Friend
17% Enemy
happymusic
56% Match
67% Friend
37% Enemy
hyperlexian´s hubby
42% Match
68% Friend
35% Enemy
lazs ex
36% Match
78% Friend
25% Enemy

I only signed up to check the compatibility thingy with a few menbers but lately Ive found quite a few interesting users so Im probably going to give it a go and send a few messages by this afternoon. The bad thing is theres only one active female near me but Ill give it a go, I usually enjoy emailing and getting to know people online and my guess ius that this is somehow similar.

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20 Dec 2010, 3:23 am

Plenty of Fish with that new goddamn "Meet Me" feature embarrased me to buggery

They have match scores there and my biggest match is the guy I had a few lunch dates with earlier in the year (the guy who thought there was something wrong with me because I didn't have three kids to different dads like every other girl in town)

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20 Dec 2010, 3:26 am

If that guy's after women like that he should come to Stevenage, we have plenty of single parent teenage mother slags on offer here.

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20 Dec 2010, 4:40 am

between me and happymusic - i'm navs85,
57% Match 70% Friend 32% Enemy

I'm still retaking the questions to bring my more conservative/more sloppy personality traits down. both of them are deal killers in a relationship, yes I know, be yourself but not in hyperliberal NorCal...

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20 Dec 2010, 7:54 am

Yay, numbers! In order of Match-ness:

Volodja: 93% Match 55% Friend 1% Enemy
Moog: 85% Match 89% Friend 2% Enemy
greenturtle74: 81% Match 64% Friend 15% Enemy
techstepgenr8tion: 74% Match 64% Friend 13% Enemy
Happymusic: 70% Match 63% Friend 15% Enemy
nthach: 68% Match 72% Friend 15% Enemy
hyperlexian's husband: 64% Match 55% Friend 18% Enemy
spongy: 62% Match 63% Friend 21% Enemy
Laz's ex: 61% Match 68% Friend 24% Enemy
Grisha: 60% Match 58% Friend 23% Enemy
Laz: 57% Match 63% Friend 19% Enemy
hyperlexian: 54% Match 66% Friend 27% Enemy

Wow, Volodja, looks like we're quite the match! But wouldn't make for great friends. I don't understand how a match percentage can be higher than a friend percentage. :?: And Moog and I must be the bestest friends. My greatest enemies, apparently, are hyperlexian, Laz's ex, Grisha, and spongy. Very amusing.

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20 Dec 2010, 8:16 am

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Moog and I must be the bestest friends.

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