How Do I Get Laid?

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So you want to develop an emotional connection for the sole sake of getting laid? That seems rather sleazy.

There are also a decent amount of women who are looking for a quick lay or a one night stand. You just have to go to places where these women are more likely to frequent, such as clubs or bars, or other places where dancing and/or alcohol are involved. I'm sure there are other places they'd hang out too (as not all of them even drink, I'd imagine), but bars and clubs are the first that come to mind. This is certainly easier than trying to make someone your GF for the sole purpose of having sex.

How to get laid? Become Prime Minister of Italy

pay a hooker.
Job done.
Stop whining.

It's the easiest way. I wouldn't do it myself, but he asked and I just answered with what I thought. I was also hoping he'd learn something along the way.

I didn't see your post. I was replying to the OP, not to you. I understand that you wouldn't do such a thing, seeing as you're asexual, but a lot of guys, maybe even most guys, just get into relationships for the sex. IMO, if sex is all someone wants, then they should establish a friends-with-benefits relationship and not try to feign an emotional interest in their partner.

Because it's just an extension of your comfort zone. That little voice is a good thing when it keeps you from doing amoral stuff, but bad when it's motivated fear and self-doubt.

Even without fear, your morals can be skewed. Some parents surpress sexual thought in children to where they grow up feeling awkward about it.

Becoming a sexual being is a very adult step. Getting there involves questioning everything you know and pushing yourself beyond the bounds of safety and comfort. It's important to get rid of all inhibitions except for the ones that keep you from doing something incredibly wrong.




The best place to find horny girls is online. I think bars and clubs as pick-up joints are a thing of the past, as everyone is there with friends where countless people can see what's going on. Maybe the super-cool, social guys can pick up there, but few girls want to lower thier value dealing with a quiet loner like me. However online, nobody is watching and people are bored and happy to chat. It's insane how much more smoothly things go behind closed doors away from social dynamics.

Interesting, I didn't think of that. In your experience, are a decent number of these women actually willing to meet up in-person for sex?

Ah, sorry, my bad there. D: It was right under mine so I assumed it a reply.

My brother did just that and now he's nearing his 15 th wedding anniversary.

What if she just really wants lots of wine and food?

I can't afford to buy me wine.

ah well tap water and bread and butter would work for me.

Yeah, anywhere you go pretty much. You still have to tactful like with any pick up. But the isolation factor makes it so much easier.