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trojan51
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02 Apr 2011, 4:58 pm

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CaptainTrips222 wrote:

That comment kinda irked me too, but I let it slip, because anyone who'd say is most likely blessed with a rapid metabolism that takes care of all their fat, and no matter what you tell them they believe everyone else has it just as easy. Society has a horrible misconception about weight. They think anybody can become skinny if you work hard enough, in spite of not having the body type for it. It's BS, but there's no use trying to argue with them. It's a lot like talking to a NT who's never heard of AS. If only they knew what some people go through.

Anyway...

You should really check out some of his previous posts in the thread, demanding how I'm fat when he and his mother are thin and he eats all sorts of crap and doesn't gain weight. :roll:

And...I really don't get how fat people aren't "curvy", by definition.

Yes, i think that big girls can be attractive but when I say big I mean a girl can be big without being fat. It's fat that is unnatractive. My female cousin is 5'11" and 175 pounds, a weight that is rather high for a woman, but she looks slim and has broad shoulders and is in great shape. Now I know a girl who is my age and 5'1" and 175 pounds (she claims those states, and since girls lie about their weights, she could be closer to 200) like Bethie, and she is VERY fat, she has rolls that hang over her waist so you can't see her belt area of her pants. Her arms and legs are jiggly, she does not look healthy at all and she eats very poorly and has extremely low self esteem about herself.

What I HATE is when fat and obese women call themselves BBW or "big" when they are fat. A girl can have broad shoulders and a muscular frame with large arms and legs and still look attractive as long as its not fat and she is in shape, that is what the definition of a big girl should be, in my opinion at least.

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02 Apr 2011, 5:02 pm

What I hate is when women wish to call themselves beautiful, but some men think they are too fat to view themselves as beautiful, and these men honestly think their opinions matter.

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02 Apr 2011, 5:07 pm

Don't our opinions matter as it is supposedly "our job" to ask women out?

Women need to know that with us, our friends taunt and make fun of us if we talk to or are seen dating a fat woman. When fat girls have talked to me, my friends say "uh come on man, you can do better than that!"

Imagine what we have to go through, so even men who like fatter girls are afraid to date them in fear of taunts from other men.

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02 Apr 2011, 5:10 pm

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Your opinion doesn't matter because we do not measure our self worth or attractiveness by your standards.

Either take us the way we are, or move along. It's really that simple.

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02 Apr 2011, 5:12 pm

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Yes, i think that big girls can be attractive but when I say big I mean a girl can be big without being fat. It's fat that is unnatractive. My female cousin is 5'11" and 175 pounds, a weight that is rather high for a woman, but she looks slim and has broad shoulders and is in great shape. Now I know a girl who is my age and 5'1" and 175 pounds (she claims those states, and since girls lie about their weights, she could be closer to 200) like Bethie, and she is VERY fat, she has rolls that hang over her waist so you can't see her belt area of her pants. Her arms and legs are jiggly, she does not look healthy at all and she eats very poorly and has extremely low self esteem about herself.

What I HATE is when fat and obese women call themselves BBW or "big" when they are fat. A girl can have broad shoulders and a muscular frame with large arms and legs and still look attractive as long as its not fat and she is in shape, that is what the definition of a big girl should be, in my opinion at least.

I know a dude. He's skinny. He has knobby knees and elbows, even. He eats very poorly and has extremely low self esteem.
Therefore, every skinny dude eats very poorly and has extremely low self esteem.
See what I did thar?

Fatter people ARE bigger. That's just a fact.
And (this is really going to upset you)

I'M OBESE AND I'M A BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN!

Go cry about it.

Why should anyone give a damn about your many "definitions of what a big girl should be"?

Or, for that matter, a person who has the nerve to pretend the subjective aesthetic preferences he declares universal are in his case HEALTH-based, after this little gem:

trojan51 wrote:

my 6'2" and 165 pound frame will probobly change for sure as the years go by, with how much junk i eat, i wont be suprised if i top the 200 bracket by the time im in my 30s, hell i wouldnt be suprised if i hit 210

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02 Apr 2011, 5:29 pm

That is because everyone gains weight the older they get!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! If a girl is fat in her early 20s before having kids, imagine how much she will weigh later in life.

I know that any woman who is fat would lose weight if it was easy to do or if she could make a wish come true even though we can't always get what we want. Why are people proud of being obese?

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02 Apr 2011, 5:31 pm

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Because some people don't determine their self worth and the worth of OTHERS by how much they weigh.

I know that's an alien concept to you, so take a minute.

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02 Apr 2011, 5:31 pm

trojan51 wrote:

You seriously have no idea what you're talking about, and should stop before you fall further behind.

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02 Apr 2011, 5:37 pm

Our country is having a massive obesity epidemic and people are proud of it?

I did educate myself online and read about what it is like to be a fat woman, and its brutal, i feel very sorry for them.

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02 Apr 2011, 5:39 pm

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Our country is having a massive obesity epidemic and people are proud of it?

I did educate myself online and read about what it is like to be a fat woman, and its brutal, i feel very sorry for them.

Obviously, you read the wrong sites if you think *everyone* is meant to be skinny and *everyone* gains weight as they get older.

But keep talking. You're providing entertainment while I sit on my ass. :-D

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02 Apr 2011, 5:45 pm

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Women need to know that with us, our friends taunt and make fun of us if we talk to or are seen dating a fat woman. When fat girls have talked to me, my friends say "uh come on man, you can do better than that!"

Imagine what we have to go through, so even men who like fatter girls are afraid to date them in fear of taunts from other men.

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02 Apr 2011, 5:46 pm

I like overweight women. They make my trouser snake go hard.

Sorry, is that too explicit?

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02 Apr 2011, 5:47 pm

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Dammit... don't make me laugh. It hurts my head. :lol:

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02 Apr 2011, 5:48 pm

Tequila wrote:

I like overweight women. They make my trouser snake go hard.

Sorry, is that too explicit?

"What's a trouser snake?"

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02 Apr 2011, 5:49 pm

Tequila wrote:

I like overweight women. They make my trouser snake go hard.

Sorry, is that too explicit?

Of course not. : )

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02 Apr 2011, 5:50 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

zen_mistress wrote:

trojan51 wrote:

Dammit... don't make me laugh. It hurts my head. :lol:

Yes I was surprised to find such a cute, amusing photo with just one google search...

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