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How old were you?
I never kissed anyone in a romantic way but I want to! 29%  29%  [ 85 ]
I never kissed anyone in a romantic way but I don't want to. 4%  4%  [ 13 ]
Under -14 15%  15%  [ 44 ]
14-16 17%  17%  [ 49 ]
16-18 14%  14%  [ 40 ]
18-20 10%  10%  [ 28 ]
20-25 8%  8%  [ 22 ]
25-30 3%  3%  [ 8 ]
30-35 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
35-40 0%  0%  [ 1 ]
Total votes : 292

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23 Oct 2011, 5:05 am

chrissyrun wrote:
Haha, for me it was the 21st tho. :) And amazing :) Because it was with someone whom I absolutely adore.


Mine was with a random person I met that day.



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23 Oct 2011, 9:35 am

Wolfheart wrote:
chrissyrun wrote:
Haha, for me it was the 21st (of October) tho. :) And amazing :) Because it was with someone whom I absolutely adore.


Mine was with a random person I met that day.


At least you aren't going to be longing for that person inconsolably when they leave. :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:


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23 Oct 2011, 9:38 am

22 with a girlfriend, 19 with a prostitute.



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23 Oct 2011, 9:44 am

few weeks ago at 20.5



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23 Oct 2011, 10:27 am

MXH wrote:
few weeks ago at 20.5


It's kind of cool to see this happen "mid-thread" - it reminds the rest of us how quickly things can change... :)



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23 Oct 2011, 10:43 am

My first kiss at 15 was disgusting. He had dry cracked lips, and put vaseline on them. He kissed all around my mouth and I got a couple of spots on my cheek the next day. :lol:



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23 Oct 2011, 2:01 pm

27 and never been kissed (apart from a family friend about 70years old who got over zealous giving me a birthday kiss but Im still trying to forget that).

I sort of hope (no offence to aspies who were kissed when young) but that the majority of aspies who were kissed when young either didnt know what they were doing / or were kissed because they didnt see it coming in time to avoid it or didnt know how to stop it from happening. Ie it was fate/luck rather than choice.

I have always been very cautious about who gets close to me and even when I really like a guy I think I give off shy/nervous/not interested/scared to death signals therefore no one has ever thought that I wanted to be kissed.

I am still hopeful though, in fact I am getting close with a guy friend and although I am terrible at reading the signals as to what he feels, I get the feeling he is building up to trying to kiss me and although I dont love him, but do like him I have decided to not stop him if he tries. For two reasons 1. because I want to know what kissing feels like and 2. because I read that you cant tell whether you are compatible with someone when you kiss them and so hopefully it will either make me like him more or realise we are best as just friends. To be honest the suspense is killing me.



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23 Oct 2011, 6:03 pm

15, I guess.

Humor is so important! My mom told me that, so it must be right :D
At least that's the way I get around it, when I seldomly get a chance. Apart from my summer dating fling, that means kissing three girls this year. Being self-confident, charming and trying to socialise get's me to a situation where its just me and the girl, occasionally. I fail miserably at taking a hint, though. So I've achieved being attractive and kissable enough for someone to kiss me. To me it's a hit and miss thing, though I'd rather shy away from the kiss than miss, I guess.



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24 Oct 2011, 1:42 am

my first kiss was at 14. im a male aspie.



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25 Oct 2011, 1:49 am

Lets not retain our memories about it then



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27 Oct 2011, 10:28 pm

13. :lol:

Female Aspie here. :)


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27 Oct 2011, 10:49 pm

I was just turning 15 when I had mine, but it was a fluke because I never talked to her again. XD


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28 Oct 2011, 2:04 am

at ~8 a girl from my class teached me how to french kiss… she had gained this secret knowledge from her older sister… and she was good at it… and we practiced and enjoyed it a lot, until some boring-good-for-nothing-adults found out... :?



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29 Oct 2011, 4:32 am

16. Only a peck though, not exactly a full-on romantic kiss.



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29 Oct 2011, 7:43 am

I don't remember precisely but I'd say on estimate about 13 by another girl.



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30 Oct 2011, 7:38 am

I was 15, I didn't want it but she begged for it after I had a concert with my band in this time...
I felt a kind of mercy though I originally wanted to save my first kiss for somebody I love.
but I avoided to do it again. I also didn't do it in my "relationships" because I didn't feel anything for them and had this ideal of keeping a kiss and also the words "I love you" precious and special. But at least I'm able now to say "I kissed a girl once"...
I want to fall in love, damned! xD


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