metaphysics wrote:
zen_mistress wrote:
There is no harm in both. But it is not often found in the same package. I think it is better to just date someone who earns an average income. Or a low income, as long as they have genuine reasons for it being such and they are not just lazy/parasitic
I can found some men in the same package... Do not think they are hard to find...
Let us do not be bothered about that please.
Happy Autistic Pride Day!
And we can talk about Zen if you like. As long as it is not in some particular Western sense which made Zen lost its real meaning
Do you mean the Indian one? Or the Chinese one? the Japanese one? the Korean one..........Anyone else?
They are hard to find, because the person who is right to marry by definition
is hard to find, and they might come with or without wealth.
yes, Happy Autistic Pride Day,
and as for the Zen, I doubt I am much of a Zen person these days, as my ex said to me once, I am the opposite of Zen. But at the time I think I was examining the Japanese version.
I am going to read something about the Japanese one.. I am so sorry I do not know much of it. But in my impression, it is derived from the Indian one also. But it has new things itself which are different from the Indian one and the Chinese one. and it has been affected by the Chinese one also, because it was from the Chinese one.