Every time I think pickup artists can't stoop any lower...

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You're seeing someone? Congrats, Erisad. Hope it works out well for you both! Nice to see something positive on this thread.

Dude what you recently did to purchase shows that right now you are not ready for a relationship.
Have you considered trying to read some self help books about changing your attitude?.

The way I see it you can either get your s**t together and start behaving like the gentleman you claim to be or you can complain about how woman only want to date bad guys because you are unable to get a date.

Im unable to get a date, I know that I have trust issues among several other things and Im working on that at the moment, have you been doing anything besides critizicing females?

i am not all talk... i would definitely date a nice man from WP. but it would have to be a man who didn't put down women and say nasty things towards us (or towards any group, actually. racists/haters of all sorts would not be considered).

you've already judged the women here as being shallow and gold-digging based on the fact they are female (which you later revised to certain ages and locations being the worst), and that is not an attractive quality in a man.

i don't know and don't care what you look like, how much money you make, or whether you are a thug or a nerd. if i am judging you, it is 100% based on your behaviour on this board.

Thanks. We started seeing each other a month ago. My mom, grandma and brother seem to like him too. Things are looking up for me since I started working on myself. ^.^

Not saying this is SadAspy's situation, just sharing my own experiences...

Over the years, I have had crushes on a couple of friends that never went anywhere. As teenagers, they would moan about how nice guys always finish last and how well they could love someone if only given the chance... as they stared as the cheerleader types. ~twiddling thumbs~ Meanwhile, this nice girl ~pointing at self~ would finally have to give up in frustration and move on to another crush, because I don't think it's good for my skin to stew in that much irony.

I also want to point out that, 15 years later, these same 'boys' are moaning the same thing as they pay their alimony to their hot ex-wives and looking for new loves.

I am not as good-looking or socially acceptable as the girls they continue to persue, but, I would have treated them much better. In fact, I have had to mute their Facebook timelines because their cries of 'nice guys finish last' is complete hypocrisy to me.

My husband doesn't care that I'm a bit frumpy and awkward, he actually likes my sense of humor and intelligence and was thrilled when we started dating.

Again, not saying that SadAspy is shallow and only going for girls who will reject him, I am just saying that I have indulged myself in the 'nice girls are invisible' pout for a few moments in my life... but, luckily, was aware enough of the futility of the situations and moved on. I've dated a lot of swell guys over the years... smart, funny, cute in their own ways. Tall, short, fat, bald, skinny, too hairy... whatever, as long as they are interesting and positive.

Best of luck to all of those still looking.

See, this is a wonderful example of thoughtful, practical, humble, accomplished self-awareness.

What I did to her? LOL....that's a good one.

I'm inclined to wholeheartedly agree

We already discussed that on the other thread.
While you may have a good reason to be angry at her the way you attacked her on the board was totally unacceptable.

Or buy my book.

i believe spongy is referring to your attempt at public character assassination towards purchase. it backfired, of course. it usually does.

Gosh, thanks guys, that's a lovely compliment.

My motto is, why learn from my mistakes when I can learn from someone else's? Seriously, though, I prefer feeling good over feeling bad, and think I have done a lot of learning from those times I did feel bad.

I love how tamed the men on this forum are....if I told you that purchase took a hacksaw and cut off my balls, you'd say that I had it coming or that what she did wasn't that bad

you're taking potshots at spongy now? you should aspire to be as kind, intelligent, thoughtful, sensitive, strong, positive, supportive, and tenacious as he is... spongy has a heck of a lot going for him, and i assure you that he is not destined to stay single. he thinks for himself and stands up for what he believes... he is far from tame, and a higher quality man would be hard to find.

(sorry spongy. don't want to embarrass you.)

I wouldn´t say that you had it coming but if your reaction is cutting her ladyparts and broadcast it live( what you did) I´d wonder wtf is wrong with both of you.
Whereas if you made an attempt to get justice on a less agressive manner I´d say that she deserves whatever she gets, alas this is not the case.

how many threads is it going to take before you realise that you are NOT a nice guy?