Mail Order Brides

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Perhaps a more rational take on things

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Proceed VERY cautiously.

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I'm fully aware of all the possible scams and the green card crap. But I'd still rather experience being with someone, rather than going my whole life without ever experiencing it. If it comes to a point where I might get screwed over, I'll be prepared for it.

Well, off you go, then.

I think we are just warning you the might is a will.

What does that mean?

To be honest i don't like the thought of mail ordering people into something, like someone mentioned earlier it so to say falls under the same category as forced prostitution as most people also under these circumstances haven't chosen to do so out of own free will/wishes.

If you really wan't to find a special someone, you'll have the patience to find love some other way. Just be patient, one day of course if you also make an effort yourself, you will meet the right one. Don't give up

Best of luck for the future

And that's fine, but this is the only way I'll find anyone, even temporarily.

Not like I can get taken to the cleaners TOO badly, I only make minimum wage anyway.

If you're thinking about bringing a lady here, it will take more money than that to finance the effort.

Which country suits your fancy? You might have to think about traveling and staying over there.

The term does sound like purchase.

I agree. It is in fact a lot better to simply go yourself to X country of your choice and seek a partner there.



That is unfortunately an idealistic / from-the-movies & fairy tales point of view. You are 21 and this is something you have grown up believing. When you turn 30 or more the point of view changes. As time runs out you realize the fairy tale isn't coming your way. That being said, do people older than .. say, 40 or 50 find partners later in life? Sure they do. Problem with that however is that is already redlined for having children (as in living long enough to watch the children turn 40) and that's a whole other boat of angst.

100% percent my situation. I just felt like I looked into a mirror after seeing what you said.

The film 'Lars and the Real Girl,' is something like what would happen to me if I got a doll.

Google the photos and letters (emails) they send you. If it's a scam you will find it online. That means it is a mass mailing.

Also be careful. Even our minimum wage could look like a fortune in some countries. As little as you think you have, someone else has less. Plus there's citizenship.

Also, some of the agencies are fake and actually traffic women into prostitution against their will. Or they run the legit side of it as a cover.

It's rough out there so I won't tell anyone not to try things but just please be cautious.

The statistics say otherwise.

http://www.returnofkings.com/4658/dont- ... ign-brides

"The United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) reports that “…marriages arranged through [mail order bride] services would appear to have a lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole, fully 80 percent of these marriages having lasted over the years for which reports are available.”

Ok, so if I am an a weird female bastard and search, because of me being a weird female bastard, a man that endures such a horrible live, that he agrees to let me kick him in his balls, when I financially support him, so that he can support his family...

I mean being a bastard is one thing, but being a so dumb bastard that I really believe that these men loved to get kicked in his balls by me and then running around blaming him "He tricked me! I really believed he loved to be kicked in his balls by me, and thats why I agreed marrying him! And then at the first chance, he simply ran away, took his greencard and refused to let me kick him in his balls again! Oh, these false lying men!"


So if there are maybe still misunderstandings about that topic: Yes a man that is only willing to get kicked into his balls by you, if you financially support him, might only be doing so, because of him depending on your financial support and not because he truly loves to be treated like an piece of dirt in a marriage. So if I marry a men from a poor country, treat him like s**t, and kick him into his balls every few days, and then believe that this men is willing to this marriage because of me being so a wonderful lovable person ^^, and being completely surprised that instead of my lovable personality he only wanted a greencard.... I am an idiot.

Yes it is really surprising, that a woman that I buy in a catalogue and that I expect to agree in marital rape, is not truly in love with me and only wants my green card. Yes you are right, a men that buy woman on catalogues to have a cheap whore at home in bed, really has to be surprised, that this woman maybe not truly love him.

As said: Nothing against meeting women and men of foreign countries in normal ways, simply because only by doing so, real feelings can grow. Gut when I buy a person like a dog in the catalogue, to expect true love from that, and be surprised that this person has other causes then my lovely slavebuying personality... XD

He's quite honest.