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22 May 2012, 6:45 pm

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It was particularly unfunny (I googled it) (Surströmming ). is also eaten in some parts of Finland apparently , are you from some part?

Sometimes I wonder why I bother coming here knowing it will be another post i make that will go unread/unresponded.

Oh well , that is life I suppose


I've actually never heard of Surströmming, so no, I've never tried it and I'm not a fan of cod, personally. (Excuse the term I used, there was no proper word to describe how I perceived the situation.)

As for if I wanted to be asexual or uneducated in order to avoid unpleasant attention from men, not really... All young women I know have had similar problems at some stage of their lives no matter their looks, sexuality or background.

There's no need to belittle yourself, you have a lot of good things in your life and you're a colourful add to this forum.

And let Wolfheart be, please, he seems like a great guy (and he IS good-looking).



It was a "joke" I'll keep the 'humour" to the 'funny people " of this world." I am swiss and autistic after all :wink: Though I did think when 1st saw those photos of you does she eat it , don't ask me why, :? actually I wouldn't mind trying it out if I was still a dead animal eater though lucky for me their are veggie equivalents :D such as chòu dòufu (rotting tofu , kimchee (rotting spicy cabage, and Natto! rotting soy beans , even this at 1st I must admit it looked really off putting seeing piles of snot like goop piled high on white plates on the Iron Chef show ) and if you sufficently intrested you can also google those obscure food types. :wink:


Is their a point to your story? My guess that it's pointless for some one with an asd to sail the high seas without a boat (well a raft going against the tide) without a captain or a treasure map hoping to find the "loot" yet if we where to find the "treasure" it will turn out not to be a "diamond" but a cubic zirconia (or worse) Apparently for whatever reasons the mod doesn't like me saying none of you are going to find love, for what ever reasons (what rule have I broken here) :?


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22 May 2012, 7:29 pm

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Apparently for whatever reasons the mod doesn't like me saying none of you are going to find love, for what ever reasons (what rule have I broken here) :?


Sometimes I like to think I already have found love, with the friends and close friends I've made. Sure, it's not the same as romantic love, but a form of love nonetheless, no?



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22 May 2012, 7:35 pm

^^^

I suppose, did you for get to add pets :wink:


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22 May 2012, 7:36 pm

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^^^

I suppose, did you for get to add pets :wink:


I'm not much of a pet person, personally, but you certainly are right in that regard :P (no pun intended)



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23 May 2012, 2:55 pm

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It was particularly unfunny (I googled it) (Surströmming ). is also eaten in some parts of Finland apparently , are you from some part?

Sometimes I wonder why I bother coming here knowing it will be another post i make that will go unread/unresponded.

Oh well , that is life I suppose


I've actually never heard of Surströmming, so no, I've never tried it and I'm not a fan of cod, personally. (Excuse the term I used, there was no proper word to describe how I perceived the situation.)

As for if I wanted to be asexual or uneducated in order to avoid unpleasant attention from men, not really... All young women I know have had similar problems at some stage of their lives no matter their looks, sexuality or background.

There's no need to belittle yourself, you have a lot of good things in your life and you're a colourful add to this forum.

And let Wolfheart be, please, he seems like a great guy (and he IS good-looking).



It was a "joke" I'll keep the 'humour" to the 'funny people " of this world." I am swiss and autistic after all :wink: Though I did think when 1st saw those photos of you does she eat it , don't ask me why, :? actually I wouldn't mind trying it out if I was still a dead animal eater though lucky for me their are veggie equivalents :D such as chòu dòufu (rotting tofu , kimchee (rotting spicy cabage, and Natto! rotting soy beans , even this at 1st I must admit it looked really off putting seeing piles of snot like goop piled high on white plates on the Iron Chef show ) and if you sufficently intrested you can also google those obscure food types. :wink:


Is their a point to your story? My guess that it's pointless for some one with an asd to sail the high seas without a boat (well a raft going against the tide) without a captain or a treasure map hoping to find the "loot" yet if we where to find the "treasure" it will turn out not to be a "diamond" but a cubic zirconia (or worse) Apparently for whatever reasons the mod doesn't like me saying none of you are going to find love, for what ever reasons (what rule have I broken here) :?


Kimchee and nattou are good.

No in-depth point to my story... Just a sincere report of meeting some PUA fanatics and how I perceived the situation. I recall pick-up-artistry and the Mystery Method having been a much debated topic on this forum in the past, so I thought it might initiate some conversation (which it seemingly has). I seem to be left with not much else after the event, though, than Mystery frequently advertising his depression on skype (so much for "building a life" it seems...).

I have experienced love and a committed long-term relationship in life and currently am being courted by a few admirers, not to mention that there are a number of people in this forum that are happily in love, loved and in a serious relationship. You are entitled to have your opinion about love, but can't you honestly be surprised if people find it peculiar (and discouraging).


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23 May 2012, 9:14 pm

^^^^

well I wish them the best of luck, if thats what rocks their boat (since where on a nautical theme) :wink:


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24 May 2012, 2:53 am

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^^^^

well I wish them the best of luck, if thats what rocks their boat (since where on a nautical theme) :wink:

What she said was a nice version of this.
The reason mods warn you often is because you come around almost attacking anyone trying to get better. Because you e given up doesnt mean we all have to. And more often than not you say things that are very stupid and even more rude



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24 May 2012, 6:42 pm

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well I wish them the best of luck, if thats what rocks their boat (since where on a nautical theme) :wink:

What she said was a nice version of this.
The reason mods warn you often is because you come around almost attacking anyone trying to get better. Because you e given up doesnt mean we all have to. And more often than not you say things that are very stupid and even more rude


Well I'm quite perfect in every way apart from being stupid, negative and spreading ill will around here (so it seems)

Oh well perhaps I should probably work on that (if it pleases other people)


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24 May 2012, 6:55 pm

I think giving up is a good option for some one with an asd, , they say life wasn't meant to be easy, giving up is easy.

Give up = easy/ life is easy .


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25 May 2012, 7:26 am

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I think giving up is a good option for some one with an asd, , they say life wasn't meant to be easy, giving up is easy.

Give up = easy/ life is easy .


I doubt life on average is easy for anyone, asd or not.

The real question is not about things being easy, but what makes you happy? I doubt giving up will.

*Hug* Every person has the right for happy and fulfilling life, you not being an exeption. My advice is that you wouldn't give up on finding what fulfills yours.


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27 May 2012, 6:49 pm

Lilya wrote:
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I think giving up is a good option for some one with an asd, , they say life wasn't meant to be easy, giving up is easy.

Give up = easy/ life is easy .


I doubt life on average is easy for anyone, asd or not.

The real question is not about things being easy, but what makes you happy? I doubt giving up will.
*Hug* Every person has the right for happy and fulfilling life, you not being an exeption. My advice is that you wouldn't give up on finding what fulfills yours.


Well you doubt wrong (no offense) recover from a "moderate to severe head injury" and you will be able to understand. 8O


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26 Nov 2012, 11:34 pm

Dear Lilya,

I think I can sum up your experience in this manner: At the end of the day, no matter what other misgivings and flaws Mystery and his band of PUA misfits have, you said these words, "I have to ask him to introduce me to Erik." And THAT, dear friend, is entirely the point. And THAT, is why he is number 1.



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26 Nov 2012, 11:48 pm

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Dear Lilya,

I think I can sum up your experience in this manner: At the end of the day, no matter what other misgivings and flaws Mystery and his band of PUA misfits have, you said these words, "I have to ask him to introduce me to Erik." And THAT, dear friend, is entirely the point. And THAT, is why he is number 1.


Umm... you didnt really understand anything she wrote right? The curiosity to see for oneself is different than admiration. Like they say, dont meet your heroes. Thankfully he wasnt her hero



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27 Nov 2012, 12:57 am

always had this strange impression aspies can see through facade's put on by other people, that normal folk seem to accept as ok.



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27 Nov 2012, 1:01 am

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always had this strange impression aspies can see through facade's put on by other people, that normal folk seem to accept as ok.

id say the oposite. Not being able to read someone makes it harder to tell real from fake. Hows a blind man supposed to tell between the real mona lisa and a fake one



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27 Nov 2012, 1:18 am

MXH wrote:
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always had this strange impression aspies can see through facade's put on by other people, that normal folk seem to accept as ok.

id say the oposite. Not being able to read someone makes it harder to tell real from fake. Hows a blind man supposed to tell between the real mona lisa and a fake one

maybe its because we don't understand their body language so we have to use their voices and what they actually say, something i believe gets lost..