How do you determine if you are physically attractive?

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I think I'm attractive because I have well shaped eyes, and smooth skin. And my lips are a cute shape.
I also have a nice body shape, it's very petite and in proportion with a defined waist. My hair is nice.
I have a large nose and tiny eyebrows though, and dark under my eyes! But some flaws are normal, and I actually don't really mind them.
The more comfortable I am the more I seem attractive to other people anyway.

When I see myself in the mirror I think I look very cute, but I don't have a mental image of how I look so looking in the mirror is like seeing someone else, which makes it easier for me to judge if I'm attractive or not I guess.

Also people often tell me I'm attractive and I'm not often short on guys flirting with me.


I find something attractive in anyone though, so I always wonder how much of it is people being nice to me and me being big-headed.
Sometimes I compliment myself to see how others respond but they just agree with me.

Everybody is attractive in some way. I normally go for eyes. Some 'ugly' people have beautiful eyes. =3

Can't say I know much about leagues. My Aspie brother was ranting about it but it never made sense to me.
He told me I was a 9 and if it were possible I might be a 10 (but being a 10 is being perfect and that's impossible so we agreed that was silly) and that I normally seem to go for 4-6's. I don't really go for people's looks though. Most people look neutral to me. It's not often someone stands out as pretty or ugly to me.

I think you may have read my post wrong.

As per the first part of your post: you are correct - if someone is fit, well dressed and puts an effort into personal presentation - then they can be attractive.

I was talking about people like my housemate, who despite being a guy - gets told by random women he doesn't know who just walk up to him when he is out, at least once a week minimum, that he is extremely good looking and then they walk away again. If he goes out at night that week to a club or a party, you can guarantee it will be at least 7 for that week instead.
I don't think many people have the same experience that my housemate does unless they are extremely good looking - random compliments from strangers on the street (without ulterior motives) do not happen to most of us a minimum of once a week or more.

Well I know my body is attractive, but I have no idea about my face. It is hard to tell what is attractive in men, since I'm straight. So I really have no idea. I could ask people, but I think that my friends will just say it - but I have no idea :S

I only just realised how odd it might be that I mentioned my brothers opinions of my looks and not of those that are possible or past partners. =/