What Kind Of MAN Do You Not Want?

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Kezzstar
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02 Feb 2013, 9:59 pm

I do NOT want a guy who is dependant on his Mummy ever again! Seriously, there is a healthy relationship with your parents and then there is your mother constantly belittling everything your other half does, getting upset because you won't let her clean your house and just plain not cutting the umbilical cord!

Next time I meet one of those I don't care how great he is, I am RUNNING. Far FAR away!! !! !! !! !


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02 Feb 2013, 11:15 pm

Looks like I'm SOL.

So many people have "Christian" and "conservative" as dealbreakers.


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02 Feb 2013, 11:39 pm

Most of these women are clever aspies from modern cities
choosing a male who follows mainstream religion and culture
may as well buy a shawl



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03 Feb 2013, 8:25 am

Someone who uses me for sex
Someone who is manipulative
Someone who is abusive verbally or physically
Someone who verbally abuses my family/friends
Someone who makes me do stuff or tells me what to do in life
Someone who screams at me and shakes me
Someone who has a criminal record
Someone who flirts/has sex with a lot of girls
Someone who calls me names
Someone who doesn't understand me
Someone who won't accept me
Someone who is embarrassed about me
Someone who hates cats
Haha :)



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04 Feb 2013, 3:25 am

MCalavera wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
brea593 wrote:
- somebody with a crazy possessive mother
- Christian (by my term)
- not in touch with thier emotions (or mine! LOL)
- cant manage money
- has a limited idea of how to enjoy thier day/life
- not philosophical or thought provoking
- mundane
- doesnt know how to feed himself
- isnt "conscious" of anything or aware of themselves even
-lost
-terrible at communicating (even with AS I'm a better communicator than alot of people)
-passive
-lazy
-extroverted to the extreme of not being introspective
-overly productive
- not in touch with things aesthetically
- not sensual
-clingy
-doesnt like touch
-thoughtless
-emotional void
-younger than me
-under atleast 3 years older than me

WANT
-philosophical
-abstract mind/perceptions
-sensual
-enjoys life aesthetically
-riddled with little quirks
-thoughtful
-compassionate to smaller, weaker, vulnerable things
-serious, but playful (it exists)
-child-like
-extreemly future oriented and self motivated
-inventive
-kinda ridgid
-gives me my space and doesnt take me personally
-interested in people
-perceptive and watchful
-owns an intimidating bookshelf
-questions me, questions EVERYTHING
-deflates my ego, and doesn't let me push him around (god, I love that in a man) :)
-skinny
-deep
-has great taste and finds everything at a good deal if not for free!
-has long hair
-and gandalf hands


Are you that perfect yourself? I highly doubt that, if you are then good for you.


She's after someone who'll annoy the sh** out of her, I suppose.


(whispering) I am just trying to deflate her ego. Obviously she's too imperfect.



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04 Feb 2013, 9:20 am

Hmm.. I don't really have a list, it's more just a feeling. You just know when someone is a right match for you. It's funny though... for me I usually hate the people at first meeting that I eventually like the most when I get to know them. I have no idea why. Perhaps it's my reality clashing with my subconscious mixed in with a little fear and denial (+ of course autism). I delay opening gifts for the same reason. Some childhood event must have started that reaction though I can't remember it.

Immediate issues for me (and nothing repairs):
Aggressive and or abusive definitely
Ego-world-revolvith-syndrome is also a turnoff (confidence is attractive but ego is not)