NT women cant stand aspie men!

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It's obviously more than 1%. My whole extended family on my father's side (including my father) is full of narcissists! And they are like 12 siblings!

not a fair answer. i threw a number out there, you can't just call it wrong and try to make me look foolish without putting yourself on the line too. i risked something (look at you, still mocking me over it!) by at least putting a figure on it, are you not brave enough to do the same?

so what is a better percentage? are you brave enough to be criticised for your estimate or will you hide behind mockery too?

Hide behind mockery? Did something just happen to you right now? All I was doing was respond to Boo.

I can throw random numbers around, but that doesn't make me brave. It just makes me good at throwing numbers around.

I can definitely say it's larger than 1%. Feel free to criticize me on that.

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no, but he could be the best cook on the block, or the best karaoke singer. i would definitely encourage people to find their niches and to feel good about doing things well. it is attractive to be good at something, even if a person is not the best in the world.

ahhhh so you are not able to say what percent it is, just what you think is wrong. well done! then you can't really be criticised.

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Sweetie, face reality. You are not society. You are you. So you are the one deciding if you want to agree with things of society or not. And you are the one responsible for following society blindly or not.

When it comes to your great Richard Feynman: I have never heard of him. Cant be that important in the Tiers I decided to be of importance to me.

You are the one to decide which kind of person you want to be, including with it what kind of women attracts you, which seems to be more charming, more interested, more capable for you in .... whatever. When it comes to reality, prefering a women that focuses on her optic also means, that you must respect, that because of that in other tiers she will be uncapable. Telling yourself, that your personal tiers you are responsible for would mean for everyone, is just as if you would believe every men wants to spent his money on a sportscar. Sure there are some, sure there are others who tell themself: "Yeah, sportscar would be nice, but just isnt worth it because instead of it .... is much more fun to me. So when this other things gives me more fun, I should focus on that."

For you on everything is someone else responsible. So for your problems are responsible the society (which you could choose to ignore, but had to confront yourself with your own responsibility), women (of the tier you yourself have created, which you choose to ignore to not confront yourself with your own responsibility and so on and so on...)

Thats sad, because if there is nothing in your life, you are yourself responsible for, then there is nothing you can change on your own and as long all you can do is endure what other people decide your life to be.

Small hint: Because of the expectations you have on women, the higher "tier" (according to your class thoughts) the alpha womens have you speak of, the more possibility they have not only to "catch" an alpha male, but an symphathetic one two. So I dont mind because this is only a forum and I dont know you anyway, but if you act yourself in dates, as you do in the thread, I personally would loose any interest within seconds. And I dont see myself as any tierleader, so regarding to your tierstory, a women with higher tier then mine, would at least have even more expectations i think. (Small joke: Of course this only helps if you feel yourself responsible for your behaviour and its not the aliens or a voodoopriest (or society!) thats responsible for you. )

Yeah, because not knowing the exact number must logically necessitate that I not know whether the number in question is greater than some other certain number or not. Nice logic there.

Oh, no, I'm being mocked now.

if you know that a number is obviously wrong, you logically must have an estimate in your head. otherwise, you could not know it is wrong. this, you could say, is... obvious... to me. you could not know that something is wrong unless you had another number in your head, or at least a range that you considered reasonable.

so the question is... why aren't you giving your estimate or your range?

(would 2% be accurate?)

Nooooooot necessarily. From my own anecdotes, I know some people with the worst attitudes known to man (take Shau's misanthropy and multiply it by about 5 and you have how negative their attitudes are) yet they are lucky in love.

Besides that, anybody who has been crapped on long enough by all sorts of people is gonna get a negative attitude about it sooner or later. I would know this, because it happened to me.

Ok, let's say I was shown a bunch of objects for a little while (like a second or two), and I know there are obviously more than one object to count, and by the time they're covered and out of view, I could only count a few of them.

What does this tell you? That I can't know that there are more than 1 object if I don't know exactly what the number of objects were?

As for why I won't give an estimate, it's for the sake of intellectual honesty. I don't like making stuff up.

And I'm not playing your game.

Good night!

it has nothing to do with bravery!

yes, some people are negative and still end up getting dates, it's true.

and on the flip side, not everyone who gets crapped one ends up with an attitude to match. there is this idea that people who see the world in more pleasant terms somehow had it easier out of the starting gates, and it just isn't necessarily true. some of the people with the worst attitudes i've ever seen had nothing particularly bad happen (or even had very good lives), and many people with bad experiences have a good outlook.

i am glad you admitted that you just don't know. if you can't even give an estimate, then i would not trust you to know whether my own estimate is correct.

Absolutely. A person's attitude often has much more to do with how they feel they should be treated than with how they've actually been treated.

To be clear; not implying anything about anyone here.

You're right, sometimes people just get lucky no matter their attitude, but I don't think it's totally out there to say that people who have particularly negative outlooks on life may have negative experiences in romance.