ripped wrote:
Getting a phone number is not getting laid.
Getting an "easy" phone number is not getting laid.
What century are you from?
Not a different century; just how my city works. I learned from experience. I gave a coworker my number after knowing him all of 3 days when we were flirting, stupidly hopped into bed with him after he reassured me he doesn't sleep around/ask for numbers often. I now know he says that to every female in the workplace
![Rolling Eyes :roll:](./images/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif)
Ever since then, I don't give my number to people I don't know.
He's also pulled the same thing with two my friends who were smart enough NOT to sleep with him. Once both were firm in the "not gonna sleep with you" part, he wanted nothing to do with them. Most men around here tend to just want a woman's number for 1 thing. Not all of them are like that, and I imagine not all men who immediately want your number after knowing you for 2 minutes are like that, but because the majority here are like that, it makes little to no sense to hand your number to just anyone.
I have been back to the corner store twice after that guy asked for my number. Each time, he kept eyeballing me in a creepy way. Since then, nope. Not going back.
Sorry, asking for someone's number immediately is, and always will be, creepy to me. If anyone of those people had waited a while longer, I might have still been creeped out, but would have felt secure in the knowledge that they didn't only want one thing. If you don't know anything about me other than how I look, I assume you only want my number for sex. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but you're going to want it sometime down the road. Conceited of me? Maybe. But tell me I am not right. Tell me you would still ask my number if you weren't going to give me a second thought, if you thought I was ugly, if you thought I looked frumpy, if you thought I had bad fashion sense, ect.