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10 May 2013, 10:23 am

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if a guy sleeps with 100 ugly women is he an alpha?


i do not understand well why people call "having sex with" "sleeping with". it is a an inadequate euphemism.

who can say what "ugly " is? healthy is nice, but the shape and form of people are so variable. what is ugly to one may be beautiful to another. who cares how successful you are in getting your dick wet? i do not care. "alpha" is just the first letter in the greek alpha-bet,
and all bets are off when it comes to reality.

the reason the world is so nice is because there will always be someone who is interested in your life.

whether it be an animal or a human, it means the same.

trust is invaluable. you can not buy trust. it is free and only given to the trustworthy.



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10 May 2013, 10:36 am

b9, if more people thought like you, this world would be a better place.


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10 May 2013, 11:14 am

DialAForAwesome wrote:
b9, if more people thought like you, this world would be a better place.

Agreed. :thumright:


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10 May 2013, 11:18 am

Alpha? No. Excessive? Probably.



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10 May 2013, 11:38 am

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Well you're both in Canada so why not meet up? :)

What's the distance between you and couldn't you meet somewhere in the middle?

It's 1,785 miles! 8O

I mapquested it - It's a day and a half's drive. But you never know when paths will cross.


I go away for a while and I come back to find myself being set up! :)
Maybe we should talk first? ;) There are times I still wish I lived in Winnipeg... How I miss my teensy little mortgage! Hindsight and all that...



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10 May 2013, 11:48 am

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I go away for a while and I come back to find myself being set up! :)

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Maybe we should talk first? ;)

Sure



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10 May 2013, 4:05 pm

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If guys were to suddenly stop screwing anything that moves (a figure of speech, don't jump on me!) and women were to start pursuing guys more aggressively, it would be the other way around within two generations.


.... and then girls would start complaining on WP more than guys.

That would be a dream!! :lol:

But seriously, things should be switched.
In another thread, a link to an article was posted about how guys should approach women without appearing as potential rapists/harassers and it also mentions mentions.

Since the risk of rape/harassment is getting that high, therefore paranoia from both sides (from guys fearing to be accused and women afraid from rape risk) wouldn't make more sense if the norm becomes women pursuing guys?


All men have to do is stop pursuing and sit back - then the women wil come to them more

Some women do pursue men anyway - you get female stalkers just as you do male

If men stopped pursuing women it would be good as all these women who think they're God's gift to men would be
taken down a peg or two - as they deserve to be

I can't abide women who think they only have to enter a room for men to form a queue

They must indeed have looks as their personalities certainly aren't doing it for them!


nessa....

You are a genius!!

With this, everything will change! The dating game, the attitude, the power of choices! O_o

We men should start a revolution here and now!

Men of the People's Republic of Dicks!! It's time to set our destiny! It's time for revolution! The revolution against pursuing women!

We must stop pursuing women!

We must stop hitting on women!

We must stop complimenting their hairs and their clothes!

We must stop inviting them to drinks in pubs!

We must stop staring at women and drool like idiots!

We must stop asking women out!

We must stop messaging women on dating sites, facebook and all online sites and apps!

We must stop jumping to help some attractive woman for some stupid reason!

We must stop giving them attention whenever they are!

Soldiers! ... umm I mean men! Don’t give yourselves to seductive women who think they're God's gift!! Women who despise you and enslave you! Who regiment your lives, tell you what to do, what to think and what to feel! Who drill you, diet you, treat you like lapdogs!

You are not lapdogs! You are men!

Let's all just sit there! Let us look good and hot and give zero attention to them! And in no time they wouldn't be able to resist us and come to us almost begging us to date them and give them attention!!





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10 May 2013, 4:10 pm

Boo, you better be glad most of us enjoy you so much :lol:


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10 May 2013, 4:37 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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If guys were to suddenly stop screwing anything that moves (a figure of speech, don't jump on me!) and women were to start pursuing guys more aggressively, it would be the other way around within two generations.


.... and then girls would start complaining on WP more than guys.

That would be a dream!! :lol:

But seriously, things should be switched.
In another thread, a link to an article was posted about how guys should approach women without appearing as potential rapists/harassers and it also mentions mentions.

Since the risk of rape/harassment is getting that high, therefore paranoia from both sides (from guys fearing to be accused and women afraid from rape risk) wouldn't make more sense if the norm becomes women pursuing guys?


All men have to do is stop pursuing and sit back - then the women wil come to them more

Some women do pursue men anyway - you get female stalkers just as you do male

If men stopped pursuing women it would be good as all these women who think they're God's gift to men would be
taken down a peg or two - as they deserve to be

I can't abide women who think they only have to enter a room for men to form a queue

They must indeed have looks as their personalities certainly aren't doing it for them!


nessa....

You are a genius!!

With this, everything will change! The dating game, the attitude, the power of choices! O_o

We men should start a revolution here and now!

Men of the People's Republic of Dicks!! It's time to set our destiny! It's time for revolution! The revolution against pursuing women!

We must stop pursuing women!

We must stop hitting on women!

We must stop complimenting their hairs and their clothes!

We must stop inviting them to drinks in pubs!

We must stop staring at women and drool like idiots!

We must stop asking women out!

We must stop messaging women on dating sites, facebook and all online sites and apps!

We must stop jumping to help some attractive woman for some stupid reason!

We must stop giving them attention whenever they are!

Soldiers! ... umm I mean men! Don’t give yourselves to seductive women who think they're God's gift!! Women who despise you and enslave you! Who regiment your lives, tell you what to do, what to think and what to feel! Who drill you, diet you, treat you like lapdogs!

You are not lapdogs! You are men!

Let's all just sit there! Let us look good and hot and give zero attention to them! And in no time they wouldn't be able to resist us and come to us almost begging us to date them and give them attention!!





Image


Oh crap... it's the next mass extinction.
Image


Good idea, but you won't be able to actually manage it though as you are controlled by your dicks too much



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10 May 2013, 8:44 pm

I used to take that approach that nessa described all the time.....never worked. Probably because of my lack of looks.


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11 May 2013, 2:18 am

DialAForAwesome wrote:
I used to take that approach that nessa described all the time.....never worked. Probably because of my lack of looks.


Well I've found that whenever I've chased after a man I've lost my self respect and they haven't had respect for me either

You don't need to have stunning looks to have self respect



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11 May 2013, 4:50 am

I'm not sure about him being an alpha. I'm pretty sure he must be an idiot though. I don't understand why anyone would have sex with someone they thought was ugly.


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11 May 2013, 8:06 am

nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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If guys were to suddenly stop screwing anything that moves (a figure of speech, don't jump on me!) and women were to start pursuing guys more aggressively, it would be the other way around within two generations.


.... and then girls would start complaining on WP more than guys.

That would be a dream!! :lol:

But seriously, things should be switched.
In another thread, a link to an article was posted about how guys should approach women without appearing as potential rapists/harassers and it also mentions mentions.

Since the risk of rape/harassment is getting that high, therefore paranoia from both sides (from guys fearing to be accused and women afraid from rape risk) wouldn't make more sense if the norm becomes women pursuing guys?


All men have to do is stop pursuing and sit back - then the women wil come to them more

Some women do pursue men anyway - you get female stalkers just as you do male

If men stopped pursuing women it would be good as all these women who think they're God's gift to men would be
taken down a peg or two - as they deserve to be

I can't abide women who think they only have to enter a room for men to form a queue

They must indeed have looks as their personalities certainly aren't doing it for them!


nessa....

You are a genius!!

With this, everything will change! The dating game, the attitude, the power of choices! O_o

We men should start a revolution here and now!

Men of the People's Republic of Dicks!! It's time to set our destiny! It's time for revolution! The revolution against pursuing women!

We must stop pursuing women!

We must stop hitting on women!

We must stop complimenting their hairs and their clothes!

We must stop inviting them to drinks in pubs!

We must stop staring at women and drool like idiots!

We must stop asking women out!

We must stop messaging women on dating sites, facebook and all online sites and apps!

We must stop jumping to help some attractive woman for some stupid reason!

We must stop giving them attention whenever they are!

Soldiers! ... umm I mean men! Don’t give yourselves to seductive women who think they're God's gift!! Women who despise you and enslave you! Who regiment your lives, tell you what to do, what to think and what to feel! Who drill you, diet you, treat you like lapdogs!

You are not lapdogs! You are men!

Let's all just sit there! Let us look good and hot and give zero attention to them! And in no time they wouldn't be able to resist us and come to us almost begging us to date them and give them attention!!





Image


Oh crap... it's the next mass extinction.
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Good idea, but you won't be able to actually manage it though as you are controlled by your dicks too much

Are you offering yourself as a dicktator when the male dominance movement takes over the world?



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11 May 2013, 9:03 am

DialAForAwesome wrote:
I used to take that approach that nessa described all the time.....never worked. Probably because of my lack of looks.



It works only when all males do that.



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11 May 2013, 9:44 am

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I'm not sure about him being an alpha. I'm pretty sure he must be an idiot though. I don't understand why anyone would have sex with someone they thought was ugly.


Generally speaking there are two male categories for beauty/uglyness.

Neck up and Neck down.

Most males will not reject sex with someone who has a beautiful body but an ugly face. On the other hand, an ugly body with a beautiful face will very likely be avoided for sex.

Of course, each individual has his own definition of ugly/beautiful but you get the idea. Personally I once met a girl who had an incredible body. One of those rare 'she's got everything just the way I dream of' bodies. But her face was unfortunately.. a mess. Not 'ugly' but .. well, I think the best way to describe her face was slightly deformed on top of ugly. Her behavior and personality were equally as bad as her face. Liar, petulant and all around unpleasant to be around with but she wasn't a jerk per say. Just one big attitude problem..angry at the world type. Thing is.. would I have had sex with her? I'd say yes. 90% of the time one's attention isn't focused on the face. I've also met girls that had the 'perfect' face in my definition of absolute beauty... but their bodies were the opposite of my definition of beauty...and they had wonderful personalities. Those girls I would not have had sex with (meaning without there being a relationship or love involved).

This is from a guy's perspective. I'm curious how women see us ... same category split? Other?



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11 May 2013, 10:10 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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I used to take that approach that nessa described all the time.....never worked. Probably because of my lack of looks.



It works only when all males do that.

Pretty much. Hence why it'll never happen.