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27 Apr 2015, 11:53 pm

What?! !! I am a puppy to them? What the f****! !! !! That is the most dumbest thing. Ughh!! ! Not funny. I am single until I die. F*** this s***.


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28 Apr 2015, 12:08 am

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I met my BF and what caught my interest in himw as his kindness and properness. He did make himself noticable though with his extreme opinions, which is what made me look his way in the first place.


I have no idea what your BF's personality is like but how do you stand his "uniqueness" that comes with aspergers? Isn't he socially awkward to some degree? Isn't socializing hard for him in any way?

Basically what I'm saying is wouldn't an average woman be almost ashamed of having a relationship with a person with aspergers since normal people lives are dominated by social activities and those who don't socialize are ostracized as loners or freaks?[/quote oh you mean you take advice from stupid dumbasses? Maybe you need a rethink of socializing. I did have a social life. It was destroyed by insecure people.


Ummmm, how do "insecure people destroy your social life"?

Your friends (presumably) like you for being you. Insecure people (and secure people and whomever else) are entitled to not like you (nor you them) -- but lack the "power" to make your friends dislike you (unless you're in junior high or did something empirically and egregiously awful).
I was accused of being gay and this girl i liked

Told me to go f**k off and i was fooled

Ever sense. I was basically bullied until i was out of school and then I was manipulated again. I should of never been alive.


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28 Apr 2015, 12:44 pm

Its like as if women are the only sex that are actually entitled, owed a date, relationship, etc.



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28 Apr 2015, 1:05 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
Its like as if women are the only sex that are actually entitled, owed a date, relationship, etc.

Not true. Its just a game to women after they have jobs and want a family. There are some that don't even care for that.


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28 Apr 2015, 6:09 pm

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Its like as if women are the only sex that are actually entitled, owed a date, relationship, etc.


There are more women than men in the planet. Odds are in the favor of men.

Anger is woman-repelling. Scary.



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29 Apr 2015, 4:33 pm

Lightbulb wrote:
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Its like as if women are the only sex that are actually entitled, owed a date, relationship, etc.


There are more women than men in the planet. Odds are in the favor of men.

Anger is woman-repelling. Scary.


well the reason why I say owed, entitled, is because women have the final say most of the time.



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29 Apr 2015, 4:49 pm

Women are so full of crap that, they make the whole world leave the planet.


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29 Apr 2015, 6:32 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
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Its like as if women are the only sex that are actually entitled, owed a date, relationship, etc.


There are more women than men in the planet. Odds are in the favor of men.

Anger is woman-repelling. Scary.


well the reason why I say owed, entitled, is because women have the final say most of the time.


You do not seem to like women, do not have anything to offer them and do not even like the idea that women expect things from you (conversation, company, amusement, sexual relations) from you and that romantic relationships with women require reciprocity.

You do not have to date. You can date and not date women.



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29 Apr 2015, 6:59 pm

Lightbulb wrote:
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Its like as if women are the only sex that are actually entitled, owed a date, relationship, etc.


There are more women than men in the planet. Odds are in the favor of men.

Anger is woman-repelling. Scary.


well the reason why I say owed, entitled, is because women have the final say most of the time.


You do not seem to like women, do not have anything to offer them and do not even like the idea that women expect things from you (conversation, company, amusement, sexual relations) from you and that romantic relationships with women require reciprocity.

You do not have to date. You can date and not date women.



as in said the bible states no man should subject women for pleasure only, but make thyself worthy to her deeds.


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29 Apr 2015, 8:26 pm

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I see some people on this forum who are aspies saying they have a wife or a girlfriend but what I want to ask is how? Are those men's wives/girlfriends the bottom of the barrel so to speak? I just don't see any normal woman being attracted to a person with aspergers unless he has model good looks or has money like bill gates.

I just don't see any decent looking woman being interested in me due to me not having anything in common with anybody else and due to my dysfunctions in emotional expression in speach and body language.


That's just rude.

The first, last, and most important thing you need to do is this:

Get it through your head that women are not objects that men get. Women at the "bottom of the barrel" to use your grotesquely chauvinistic words are not consolation prizes for inadequate men. Lose the worldview that men are people and women are "other." Women are people. Men and women who get to know eachother as people stand a chance at having mutually satisfying romantic relationships. Men who view women as objects to acquire, the prettiest one is the best status symbol, will never be anything but jerkwad players.

Grow up and think with your brain instead of your gonads.


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30 Apr 2015, 2:39 am

Lightbulb wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
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Its like as if women are the only sex that are actually entitled, owed a date, relationship, etc.


There are more women than men in the planet. Odds are in the favor of men.

Anger is woman-repelling. Scary.


well the reason why I say owed, entitled, is because women have the final say most of the time.


You do not seem to like women, do not have anything to offer them and do not even like the idea that women expect things from you (conversation, company, amusement, sexual relations) from you and that romantic relationships with women require reciprocity.

You do not have to date. You can date and not date women.


I don't remember him saying any of that. being frustrated at lack of dates and being rejected doesn't mean he doesn't like women or only wants them around to look at.

fact that you you bring up his supposive not having anything to offer a woman and the fact you signed up right after dinningdoom was banned makes me wonder if you are the same person. you do post similar and now seem to be taking up their vendetta. either that or women find themselves drawn to wp to attack lonely aspies. which would be a larger problem.

if women don't have to offer a guy anything then why do guys have to offer women anything?



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30 Apr 2015, 2:42 am

LyraLuthTinu wrote:
ImmenseLoad wrote:
I see some people on this forum who are aspies saying they have a wife or a girlfriend but what I want to ask is how? Are those men's wives/girlfriends the bottom of the barrel so to speak? I just don't see any normal woman being attracted to a person with aspergers unless he has model good looks or has money like bill gates.

I just don't see any decent looking woman being interested in me due to me not having anything in common with anybody else and due to my dysfunctions in emotional expression in speach and body language.


That's just rude.

The first, last, and most important thing you need to do is this:

Get it through your head that women are not objects that men get. Women at the "bottom of the barrel" to use your grotesquely chauvinistic words are not consolation prizes for inadequate men. Lose the worldview that men are people and women are "other." Women are people. Men and women who get to know eachother as people stand a chance at having mutually satisfying romantic relationships. Men who view women as objects to acquire, the prettiest one is the best status symbol, will never be anything but jerkwad players.

Grow up and think with your brain instead of your gonads.



what about the women who only view men as a wallet and status symbol?



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30 Apr 2015, 6:44 am

Lightbulb wrote:
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Its like as if women are the only sex that are actually entitled, owed a date, relationship, etc.

There are more women than men in the planet. Odds are in the favor of men.

Generally, yes. In his age range, most likely not. Or did you suggest dating a much older woman?



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30 Apr 2015, 7:06 am

In province of quebec there are about 200k 14-18 year old girls and about 230k 14-18 year old guys guys, thats about 15% too much :/


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30 Apr 2015, 6:23 pm

You have to be at the right place at the right time with the right person, and nobody else is around to steal them from you.



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30 Apr 2015, 10:06 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
Its like as if women are the only sex that are actually entitled, owed a date, relationship, etc.


autismthinker21 wrote:
Women are so full of crap that, they make the whole world leave the planet.


Wow ... I can feel the love.

Women are no more entitled to sex and relationships than men.

Women are really not that different than men.