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09 Jun 2013, 1:18 pm

As a husky guy myself I am actually attracted to bigger women, but they aren't attracted to me.



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09 Jun 2013, 1:54 pm

@OliveOilMom I tried that but he's been telling many different people to call including an unlisted number at 7 a.m. on a Saturday.


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09 Jun 2013, 1:58 pm

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As a husky guy myself I am actually attracted to bigger women, but they aren't attracted to me.


dang, that sucks.



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09 Jun 2013, 5:00 pm

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As a husky guy myself I am actually attracted to bigger women, but they aren't attracted to me.


dang, that sucks.

I'm ugly as sin apparently, no woman will ever be attracted to me. Its just my lot in life.



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09 Jun 2013, 5:59 pm

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A guy who once messaged me on OKC had "NO FAT CHICKS, CANT DEAL!" in his profile (and no, I was a svelte 55kg at the time). Safe to say I didn't reply to him.

It's alright to have preferences but you've got to be a little sensitive when expressing them. Overweight people are already bound to be deeply self-conscious of the role their weight plays in their attractiveness. Some seem to ignore this fact in favour of saying negative things (eg. fatty) and that's the part that always seems a little offensive in discussions like this. They probably deal with more hurtful rejection for their weight alone than you do for all of your...."issues".


Well if you state any preference, it's going to offend the person someone that doesn't meet that preference.

Like I really don't like beans and a woman that likes blue just doesn't do it for me. :twisted:

Did that rile you a little? See :lol:


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09 Jun 2013, 6:32 pm

Irony for me is, I've been attracted to all sorts of women, but not one has been attracted to me. Like alien91, I believe I'm just ugly as sin. Uglier THAN sin even.

The girl I like now is a bigger girl, yes, but she is so cute to me. I've been seeing a lot more of her lately since she's on break. But I can't really do anything about it. Oh well.


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09 Jun 2013, 6:49 pm

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When they started playing "Dr. Jones" and "5,6,7,8" I certainly felt 15 again!

Don't remind me of the abominations that were the spawn of late 90s "music". :roll:



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09 Jun 2013, 7:06 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:
Irony for me is, I've been attracted to all sorts of women, but not one has been attracted to me. Like alien91, I believe I'm just ugly as sin. Uglier THAN sin even.

The girl I like now is a bigger girl, yes, but she is so cute to me. I've been seeing a lot more of her lately since she's on break. But I can't really do anything about it. Oh well.


hey, you pretty much are debunking the idea that all single men are just chasing after the ''hot'' woman.
yes, them kind of men exist. there no deny that.
but alot of men who can't get a date, do in fact go after a wide range of women,
and they do go out there and socialize.



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09 Jun 2013, 7:16 pm

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@OliveOilMom I tried that but he's been telling many different people to call including an unlisted number at 7 a.m. on a Saturday.


Put his number on Craigslist. I'm sure you can think of a "nice" ad. Also, I'd suggest changing your number or just not answering numbers you don't recognize. If he knows he's upsetting you, he will keep doing it. If you don't want to do the craigslist thing yourself then tell me the info in PM and I'll do it. I can think of a great idea for an ad.


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09 Jun 2013, 7:22 pm

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The vast majority of fat people are fat because of them being lazy and overindulgent ... the masses of those who are merely slovenly ... being fat is indicative of bad personality traits and of being more likely to be unhealthy ... a man not choosing a fat woman is a man saying he doesn't want to have a lazy and unhealthy partner ...

Here's a book that you might enjoy reading: < LINK >


I chuckled.

My point is blunt, but I think it's valid.



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09 Jun 2013, 7:35 pm

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DialAForAwesome wrote:
Irony for me is, I've been attracted to all sorts of women, but not one has been attracted to me. Like alien91, I believe I'm just ugly as sin. Uglier THAN sin even.

The girl I like now is a bigger girl, yes, but she is so cute to me. I've been seeing a lot more of her lately since she's on break. But I can't really do anything about it. Oh well.


hey, you pretty much are debunking the idea that all single men are just chasing after the ''hot'' woman.
yes, them kind of men exist. there no deny that.
but alot of men who can't get a date, do in fact go after a wide range of women,
and they do go out there and socialize.


Bill, this is the whole irony about it. Guys like us who find most women attractive no matter their shape or look, if we can't get dates, we're told to stop going after the hot women. But what if you find that any type of woman can be beautiful? Does that mean that you just shouldn't try?


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09 Jun 2013, 7:42 pm

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Bill, this is the whole irony about it. Guys like us who find most women attractive no matter their shape or look, if we can't get dates, we're told to stop going after the hot women. But what if you find that any type of woman can be beautiful? Does that mean that you just shouldn't try?

The real irony is that women complain that men won't date them if their dress size is in the two-digit range, yet those same women would (likely) turn down a date with men who are obviously over-weight.

Does everybody on the dating scene hate anyone who doesn't look like they've starved themselves?



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09 Jun 2013, 7:45 pm

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billiscool wrote:
DialAForAwesome wrote:
Irony for me is, I've been attracted to all sorts of women, but not one has been attracted to me. Like alien91, I believe I'm just ugly as sin. Uglier THAN sin even.

The girl I like now is a bigger girl, yes, but she is so cute to me. I've been seeing a lot more of her lately since she's on break. But I can't really do anything about it. Oh well.


hey, you pretty much are debunking the idea that all single men are just chasing after the ''hot'' woman.
yes, them kind of men exist. there no deny that.
but alot of men who can't get a date, do in fact go after a wide range of women,
and they do go out there and socialize.


Bill, this is the whole irony about it. Guys like us who find most women attractive no matter their shape or look, if we can't get dates, we're told to stop going after the hot women. But what if you find that any type of woman can be beautiful? Does that mean that you just shouldn't try?


Oh my god, for all the times you've accused other men of being white knights, just STOP. It's not that you find any woman can be beautiful, it's that you find ANY WOMAN who would HAVE YOU would be beautiful and it doesn't matter if you guys have any shot of having a functional relationship.

Even the "ugly" people aren't usually going to find a relationship with someone who would've taken ANYTHING that came along very enticing.

And let's be honest about Bill, he's what, thirty something and says he only dates women ages 18-21 or something or and is obsessed with his ex-girlfriend?

It's like you don't care if you make someone else unhappy with you, you just WANT SOMEONE to fill a void. People aren't there to fill your void and you can't keep seeing them that way and expect to find someone you can be happy together with and have them be happy too.


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09 Jun 2013, 7:49 pm

[quote="DialAForAwesome"
Bill, this is the whole irony about it. Guys like us who find most women attractive no matter their shape or look, if we can't get dates, we're told to stop going after the hot women. But what if you find that any type of woman can be beautiful? Does that mean that you just shouldn't try?[/quote]

you go after whatever women you like. But to be honest, some women may be out of your reach. But having a variety is a good.



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09 Jun 2013, 7:54 pm

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Oh my god, for all the times you've accused other men of being white knights, just STOP. It's not that you find any woman can be beautiful, it's that you find ANY WOMAN who would HAVE YOU would be beautiful and it doesn't matter if you guys have any shot of having a functional relationship.

Even the "ugly" people aren't usually going to find a relationship with someone who would've taken ANYTHING that came along very enticing.

And let's be honest about Bill, he's what, thirty something and says he only dates women ages 18-21 or something or and is obsessed with his ex-girlfriend?

It's like you don't care if you make someone else unhappy with you, you just WANT SOMEONE to fill a void. People aren't there to fill your void and you can't keep seeing them that way and expect to find someone you can be happy together with and have them be happy too.


No, I hit on women 19-21, not date them ( I wish) and I am 30, just 30.



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