androbot01 wrote:
sly279 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
You have to find out what the object of your desire is interested in.
Current events are pretty safe. You'll find many people interested in that.
As far as medieval battles are concerned: not so much.
so change yourself to be whatever you think the girl likes? but then she doesn't like you she likes who you're pretending to be, also sounds like you're lying and manipulating her.
If you want to get laid, yes. If you want a relationship, not so much.
Correction: If you want to get laid by deceiving her that you are a relationship material, then once she realizes the act, she leaves.
umm this is not how I am doing it, they key for getting laid for me was to find sexually frustrated women: There are those who haven't had sex for years, typically those are foreign immigrants, they are found on dating apps/sites; and nope, I've found out that a lot of them aren't seeking for a visa or money or for anything serious, they just want intimacy and sex.
And there's also the late virgins....who just want to try....stuff. Typically those live in a religious surrounding;there is.....a veiled girl living in Canada who went so sexual and she's coming to here (her hometown in fact) for a family visit - she set a deal with me lol.
There's those with self-image issues, like believing they're too fat or too skinny, the girl I am talking with now (purely sexual thing, no commitment) has this, she's half asian and unhealthily believes she's too skinny (she isn't) and non-curvy compared to the locals.
And there's another, a local girl, who thinks she's too fat (she isn't); things went sexual with this one too but still hadn't chance to find privacy with her since she lives with other people.
And finally....there are the frustrated housewives - I stay away from those.
So yeah, currently I am just getting flings and potential flings, no potential relationships, but it is way better than nothing really.
In fact, there's a high level of honesty with those even higher than the best-self-image we put in conventional dating - there's no dating rituals here, no awkward moments, no stupid games from their part, no stupid tests, no worry that she might find me boring, just a shortcut to sexual talk and act.
But to pull this, you have to get the right shape first.